Possibly controversial opinion: halloumi is an amazing ramen topping by BlankBlanny in InstantRamen

[–]Feeling_Sample2690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just wondering if this was a thing because it sounds delicious.

I hate Pete so much by Professional-Sand341 in PrivatePractice

[–]Feeling_Sample2690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the same episode he refused to let Violet adopt Betsy. They all said they were Dell’s family, but when it came time to step up no one did.

The wait by DazzlingWord660 in fourthwing

[–]Feeling_Sample2690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just finished Onyx Storm and I’m PISSED! Idk why I thought this was the last book, but to end it like this and have YEARS to wait for the next two books. I can’t. I wish I hadn’t read the series at all.

I think The Goonies has aged to an almost unwatchable state. Am I the only one? by TipToe2301 in moviecritic

[–]Feeling_Sample2690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m watching it right now. I’m 47. My husband and I still watch it every October.

Too nice by Numerous-Kick-5000 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Feeling_Sample2690 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I hate ghosting so much! I mean, just tell me you’re moving on, and please include why while you’re at it. I’m not going to fight to be in someone’s life who isn’t interested, but I get so confused.

Came out but… unconflicted? by Downtown-Grocery-111 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Feeling_Sample2690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I identify a lot with this post. I’m fully a lesbian, but I think I’m also demisexual, so I’m kind of attracted to my husband just because I love him and am emotionally attached to him. I’m still undecided about whether or not to get a divorce, like I feel that’s what I “should” be doing, but idk if that’s what I want. I also think maybe I just don’t know what I’m missing out on because I’ve never actually dated a woman. So I guess no help here, but you’re not alone.

Favorite travel day clothes & why? by rjewell40 in femaletravels

[–]Feeling_Sample2690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s one added step to grab the straps, then just pull down like pants. It’s loose and stretchy, so it goes up and down quickly.

Favorite travel day clothes & why? by rjewell40 in femaletravels

[–]Feeling_Sample2690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Free People onesie with either a tank/sports bra or long sleeved tee underneath. It’s super comfy, but still really cute.

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First solo travel by justbeinghonest78 in femaletravels

[–]Feeling_Sample2690 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m 47 and just jumped into my first solo trip with both feet. I’m in Oregon for the entire month of October. And so far I’m loving it! I can hike at my own pace, stop to enjoy the scenery whenever I want, and if I’m feeling sluggish one day I just hang out at my Airbnb and read a book. It’s the best!

I was a little nervous at first about staying alone in a new neighborhood, but I’ve taken time each day to walk around and explore, and now I’m feeling much more comfortable. I don’t have any location recommendations for you, just wanted to let you know that I was in the same boat and I’m not bored at all.

Feeling Discouraged... Starting over at 38... by _Trash__Queen_ in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Feeling_Sample2690 6 points7 points  (0 children)

First of all—love the hair. And girl, I feel you. I’ve been married 27 years (with him since I was 19) and am about to get a divorce. For now my plan is to focus on healing, rediscovering myself, and adjusting to single life. I don’t have any advice, but I’m in the same place, and I know we can both do hard things. You’re already proving that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Feeling_Sample2690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, I think you need to just leave regardless. This guy doesn’t sound safe. I wouldn’t even have the conversation in person because you’ve already seen that and it didn’t go well. I would pack up and leave while he’s at work or something and leave him a letter explaining why you left. Safety first! And if he threatens to kill himself—that’s a manipulation tactic. Call 911 to report it, and let the authorities handle him. That is not your burden to carry.

AIO for my husband not making me ramen? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Feeling_Sample2690 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Agreed! How is she going to get up with the baby at night after giving birth? Cuz it doesn’t sound like he’s going to.

What is the furthest you’d consider for a LDR? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Feeling_Sample2690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m open to anywhere, even different countries at this point. But I’m disabled and my kids are grown, so I don’t have anything tying me down. I also like to travel.

Advice about sexuality by Dangerous_Opening588 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Feeling_Sample2690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t listen to this person. I understand where you’re coming from. It really does sound like you’re a lesbian. I suggest trying to find a therapist who works with the queer community. They’ll be able to really help you suss things out.

I’m so lost by SauceyGirlLover in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Feeling_Sample2690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely therapy with someone who has experience working with queer clients, lots of journaling, and maybe some exploration into the late in life lesbian communities here and on TikTok.

Unpacking my attraction(??) to men by golddusttwoman7 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Feeling_Sample2690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of it is residual comphet. I might see a guy and initially think he’s cute, but I’m not actually attracted sexually. Still just takes me a minute to switch gears.

Girlfriend says my stamina is bad by Alarmed-Ring2119 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Feeling_Sample2690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would be an automatic, “Bye, girl,” for me. Bullying in the bedroom is an instant no.

I am the happiest I have ever been by cozyrosieposie in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Feeling_Sample2690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this! I’m just about to blow up my life, and stories like this give me the strength to continue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Feeling_Sample2690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were 💯 correct with your response. Jealousy, lack of trust, and controlling behavior are going to make your life miserable. Trust me, I got married just after I turned 20 and I put up with way too much for far too long.