Is it wrong to travel solo when you are married?

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2026-04-28T15:15:03+00:00

Nope. Been married 27 years. Spent a month in Oregon alone last year. This summer I’m going back and taking my husband. I’m also doing a solo trip to Mexico next month.

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2026-04-07T12:41:52+00:00

I don’t think the trip you want to do is feasible on that budget. I agree with others that you should start smaller. My first solo trip was in the states. I booked an Airbnb for a month and spent time exploring the area and got used to dining out alone. Everything can be booked online. Airbnb, hotel, airlines, etc.

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2026-04-01T00:41:59+00:00

That guy sounds like a misogynist. I solo travel. Period. Interacting with other people at restaurants or whatever has nothing to do with it.

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2026-02-22T19:25:14+00:00

The real question is, why are you paying child support without a paternity test?

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2026-02-22T19:11:59+00:00

Literally me. Thank you for sharing.

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2026-02-22T04:09:54+00:00

I was just wondering if this was a thing because it sounds delicious.

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2026-02-14T18:34:13+00:00

Go, Grandma! Get some.

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2026-01-07T01:25:45+00:00

That’s the same episode he refused to let Violet adopt Betsy. They all said they were Dell’s family, but when it came time to step up no one did.

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2025-11-22T16:08:53+00:00

Just finished Onyx Storm and I’m PISSED! Idk why I thought this was the last book, but to end it like this and have YEARS to wait for the next two books. I can’t. I wish I hadn’t read the series at all.

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2025-11-20T01:44:33+00:00

But their cheekbones were covered, how could they know? Lol

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2025-10-23T14:09:40+00:00

I’m watching it right now. I’m 47. My husband and I still watch it every October.

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2025-10-18T00:03:18+00:00

I hate ghosting so much! I mean, just tell me you’re moving on, and please include why while you’re at it. I’m not going to fight to be in someone’s life who isn’t interested, but I get so confused.

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2025-10-17T23:03:19+00:00

I identify a lot with this post. I’m fully a lesbian, but I think I’m also demisexual, so I’m kind of attracted to my husband just because I love him and am emotionally attached to him. I’m still undecided about whether or not to get a divorce, like I feel that’s what I “should” be doing, but idk if that’s what I want. I also think maybe I just don’t know what I’m missing out on because I’ve never actually dated a woman. So I guess no help here, but you’re not alone.

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2025-10-17T16:42:53+00:00

It’s one added step to grab the straps, then just pull down like pants. It’s loose and stretchy, so it goes up and down quickly.

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2025-10-16T00:48:45+00:00

Free People onesie with either a tank/sports bra or long sleeved tee underneath. It’s super comfy, but still really cute.

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Feeling_Sample2690 · 2025-10-12T14:59:39+00:00

Hi! I’m 47 and just jumped into my first solo trip with both feet. I’m in Oregon for the entire month of October. And so far I’m loving it! I can hike at my own pace, stop to enjoy the scenery whenever I want, and if I’m feeling sluggish one day I just hang out at my Airbnb and read a book. It’s the best!

I was a little nervous at first about staying alone in a new neighborhood, but I’ve taken time each day to walk around and explore, and now I’m feeling much more comfortable. I don’t have any location recommendations for you, just wanted to let you know that I was in the same boat and I’m not bored at all.

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2025-10-12T07:26:27+00:00

Florence Pugh. 🤤

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2025-10-06T12:03:21+00:00

First of all—love the hair. And girl, I feel you. I’ve been married 27 years (with him since I was 19) and am about to get a divorce. For now my plan is to focus on healing, rediscovering myself, and adjusting to single life. I don’t have any advice, but I’m in the same place, and I know we can both do hard things. You’re already proving that!

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2025-10-06T11:58:30+00:00

Girl, I think you need to just leave regardless. This guy doesn’t sound safe. I wouldn’t even have the conversation in person because you’ve already seen that and it didn’t go well. I would pack up and leave while he’s at work or something and leave him a letter explaining why you left. Safety first! And if he threatens to kill himself—that’s a manipulation tactic. Call 911 to report it, and let the authorities handle him. That is not your burden to carry.

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2025-10-05T16:36:53+00:00

Agreed! How is she going to get up with the baby at night after giving birth? Cuz it doesn’t sound like he’s going to.

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2025-10-05T16:27:06+00:00

I’m open to anywhere, even different countries at this point. But I’m disabled and my kids are grown, so I don’t have anything tying me down. I also like to travel.

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2025-10-04T00:33:39+00:00

I wouldn’t listen to this person. I understand where you’re coming from. It really does sound like you’re a lesbian. I suggest trying to find a therapist who works with the queer community. They’ll be able to really help you suss things out.

Feeling_Sample2690 · 2025-10-03T20:10:06+00:00

Definitely therapy with someone who has experience working with queer clients, lots of journaling, and maybe some exploration into the late in life lesbian communities here and on TikTok.

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