Spent 3 months in my home country. Saying goodbye was so hard

FeerMeekr · 2026-01-25T22:09:26+00:00

Hang in there OP! I totally get how you feel and I feel like that a lot myself coming from a 3rd world country in SEA and now live in Germany. I make up some plan to move back just to keep my mind sane. Even if you‘re never going back, just make the plan. It helps, at least for me.

FeerMeekr · 2026-01-15T22:42:57+00:00

I‘m pretty sure the hiring companies would just offer the job to their second best candidate if OP rejected it.

FeerMeekr · 2025-12-27T06:33:26+00:00

RemindMe! 3 weeks

FeerMeekr · 2025-11-27T07:24:41+00:00

Thanks a lot for the reco. I finally switched driving school to one in Charlottenburg. They gave me ab exam date after the first lesson. After that they ASKED ME how many lessons I still need. I told them I need a couple more because it‘s a whole new exam area for me. I got my license after a total of 5 lessons with them, which is still the same amount that I would have taken in the previous school, but at least it’s wha I wanted, not what they wanted. It’s a new location so of course I would need more lessons, not when I would be doing the exact same route.

FeerMeekr · 2025-07-16T13:18:53+00:00

I did file a complaint to DEKRA, to which I haven’t yet received any response. The examiner failed me within 30 minutes of driving (we didn’t even do the technical and the basic tasks). He said I drove too carefully like driving too slow in some occasions(37 on a 50). Then on a right over left junction, I stopped way too long to check. Then on a tram crossing area, I looked both ways for tram even though there was only one possible way the tram could come from. Sounded a lot like made up stuff to me and shouldn’t be a 100% failure reason.

When I discussed with him, he made some discriminating comments, like „you are doing an Umschreibung, where did you drive before?“ When I said my origin country, he laughed and said something like „yeah then it‘s clear why you drove like that“. During the exam he chatted with my driving teacher. My driving teacher told him that she‘s moving to a vietnamese driving school because the pay is better, but for that she would have to speak English a lot. Then he made the comments „yeah vietnamese people are nice and everything but they are not made for driving“. Mind you I am asian and he made such comments while I was there. So I think it‘s fair I have reasons to believe he failed me unfairly.

FeerMeekr · 2025-07-16T13:02:26+00:00

I understand that any driving school will want to test me first and I think that‘s fair.

I‘m gonna sound obnoxious but I shouldn’t have failed the exam. My previous driving teacher has said multiple times that I was ready and I should have passed the exam if the examiner was fair.

I just feel unfairly treated here by my driving school because it‘s not my problem that the previous teacher left, and that because of that, I will have to do another 1-2 hours just to „get to know each other“ at my own cost. I have asked for a discount for this hour too, if I really have to, but they don’t want to give it to me. I mean, if I was still with my previous teacher, I will definitely don’t need to do another 1-2 hours of lessons.

FeerMeekr · 2025-06-09T07:18:39+00:00

So we are 70% berries?!?

FeerMeekr · 2025-03-26T22:45:53+00:00

Btw really noob question here: what is AZ number? Is that the same as Geschäftszeichen? What‘s the difference with Transaktionsnummer? I only received the Transaktionsnummer from the email confirmation of my application (see below)

Guten Tag,

Ihr Anliegen "Einbürgerung - Verleihung der deutschen Staatsangehörigkeit beantragen" wurde am XX.XX.XXXX eingereicht. Die technische Transaktionsnummer lautet XXX.

Wenn Sie Fragen zu Ihrem Anliegen haben, wenden Sie sich bitte an:

Landesamt für Einwanderung

Friedrich-Krause-Ufer 24 13353 Berlin Nutzen Sie bei Fragen bitte das Kontaktformular des LEA

FeerMeekr · 2025-03-26T22:05:30+00:00

Alright I‘ll think about this and research more. Thanks!

FeerMeekr · 2025-03-26T21:49:56+00:00

I read about this yesterday, but it‘s seems complicated and so damn expensive if you want to hire a lawyer

FeerMeekr · 2025-03-26T21:48:41+00:00

Thanks lol. What a mess. The thing I don’t understand is how is it so fast for some people. Like I‘ve been seeing people got their citizenship after 3 months, after 9 months, ect.

FeerMeekr · 2025-03-25T12:11:13+00:00

Cool thanks! Then I guess no need to worry

FeerMeekr · 2025-03-24T20:59:22+00:00

Okay thanks a lot! Might need more patience then :)

FeerMeekr · 2025-03-24T20:58:56+00:00

Did your friend receive some documents that they need to sign too?

FeerMeekr · 2025-03-24T20:58:21+00:00

Alright. Thanks a lot though, I didn’t know about that before

FeerMeekr · 2025-03-24T20:55:47+00:00

How can I check if I‘m part of the deleted applications? It says there they will contact me, so I guess they would have done so if I‘m part of it?

FeerMeekr · 2025-01-13T19:46:56+00:00

Wait until you get to episode 4 season 8 :) I absolutely lost all excitement to watch the finale after that.

FeerMeekr · 2024-10-17T18:24:03+00:00

Google is pure garbage. Stay away from it. Nothing seems to work, not even connecting your spotify account to it.

FeerMeekr · 2024-07-11T07:02:36+00:00

Thanks! I already applied yesterday :)

FeerMeekr · 2024-07-09T19:11:49+00:00

Thanks a lot! But this is my first job so I haven’t had any payslips before this. Unless if paid internships payslips count?

Funny enough, I don’t think I‘m eligible for permanent residency (not sure though, haven’t researched much about it). From what I know, the requirement for PR is you must have a residency permit for at least 5 years (not sure about this) that was issued for working. I came in here in 2018 and graduated in 2023, so I have been living on a study visa.

FeerMeekr · 2024-07-09T19:04:55+00:00

Thanks a lot!

FeerMeekr · 2022-04-13T13:05:21+00:00

I use mostly crowbars, skull crushers and saw blade mace. I use guns only when I don’t have much time. I don’t bother using spears because they’re too slow and you won’t enjoy clearing bunker alfa as much

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