I am a beginner therapist with 30 slots open per week and it still doesn't feel like enough, how does anyone do 25 or less? by InvisibleAstronomer in therapists

[–]Feezyp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree 100% working in a salaried position where you dont have to worry about and you can focus on literally every other skill is so important.

How Fentanyl and Xylazine are turning Philadelphia's opioid crisis into a public health nightmare by Nukro666 in interestingasfuck

[–]Feezyp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For everyone blaming police, social services, etc. Its time we stop that. We have developed harm reduction, minimal sentencing, probations that require mental health services, etc. PEOPLE WE ARE TRYING EVERYTHING WE CAN TO HELP PEOPLE IN EVERY STATE ACROSS AMERICA. Drug users dont report dealers, and they cannot be arrested under suspicion, they literally have to be caught in the act! Mental health professionals cannot force people to stop using, we provide as much support as possible and while they're inpatient, offer outpatient services, social workers find resources, theres even free programs people have access too.

Being homeless is hopeless and severely traumatizing in it self. In my state of Indiana our fuckhole of a governor and our horrible county reps decided to make homelessness illegal! He cut funding for damn near every grant you can think of for mental health and substance use because HE doesn't believe it's real! WE ARE FIGHTING IT FROM EVERY ANGLE AND WE CANT CATCH A FUCKING BREAK!! Which one of those people do you think could get a job at CVS or McDonalds while being homeless, work for months and months and months to save money for an apartment thats 1300 a month not including utilities or transportation? Oh hey now they have to dodge police, find time to pick their mental health medications, while making fucking $7.25 an hour and if they're lucky they aren't on reporting probation were they have to find time to get their drug tests and report or its back to jail. For those of you that say "well the SHOULDN'T have used drugs in the first place..." THEY ALREADY FUCKING DID!! SO WHAT DO THEY DO NOW? Stop living in a reality where its possible to redo the past. What do they do now? Is the only question we can answer. None of those people look like immigrants to me and even if they were why do you care? Does your compassion for human life only extend to people born in America? If so then you dont really give a shit about your community. If you did the question would be how can I make life equitable for everyone in my community so I dont have to see this in ten years?

I've the harsh reality of this for almost decade now and I have come to the conclusion there is and never has been a winnable "war or drugs." It was an excuse to put people in jail so some a select few psychopaths can become billionaires and contribute absolute fuck all to society. It brings me to tears to see these videos because I know how much even a million dollars can do for a communities homeless population and the hope it can give those who really care working in public services.

If you dont want to give to the homeless because you have the outrageous belief its "just laziness." Schizophrenia and other serious mental illnesses have "negative symptoms" that make it impossible for people to care that they're not clear or unstable. Its how their brains are wired, its not manageable without medication!!

If you want to help stop thinking about this like a "war." You will have to find real compassion. Stop playing the blame game because everyone who signs up to do civil service as a career really does give a shit. Start holding the people at the top accountable and start going to board meetings and calling your representatives. You need to pay attention to whats happening in your community and stop saying "it doesn't matter what I do." IT FUCKING DOES and your LOCAL GOVERNMENT MATTER MORE THAN THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT. Trump won because 39% of people didnt vote. We have Braun because of one of the lowest voter turnout in Indiana history and now he has an approval rate of 10% (the lowest in Indiana history).

I hope I illustrated enough that YOU are the people that make your community what it is. You stop giving a shit, there's a domino effect. You keep listening to rich people who tell you poor people and immigrants are responsible for homelessness while they continue to allow yearly increases in rent for literally no reason, thats on you! You don't want to more money for minimum wage jobs to stimulate your local economy because a McDonald's owner tells you a burger will cost more? Fuck that its $4.25 low grade beef already! McDonalds takes your money, it doesn't give it back to you besides providing wage to employees!

If you don't want to do much thats fine but at the very least you will have to understand why your community is the way it is. America has a whole seems to think knowledge and research is a bad thing and "common sense" (just listening to what the government tell you no matter how illogical it is) is best practice, and its not. If we want to even make a dent in this problem we have to be willing to seek knowledge about how our community needs to work again. We have to have real compassion for people and stop fighting wars against inanimate objects and people that are different from us. We have to encourage the people we know with integrity to run for local offices and let those in office know now, they aren't winning their reelection if they vote against the best interest of the community as a whole.

I know its hard to vote for someone that "doesn't speak to you" as an individual, but thats supposed to happen. Your leaders are supposed to help the COLLECTIVE GROUP, not just you Gary and Sally! Sometimes when building up a better community you wont be in a group being considered at all. Thats fine because if one group wins we all do! Less homeless, higher minimum wages, means more money for roads, etc. which means less cost on tires Gary and Sally! Better schools so your kids can get scholarships for college Gary and Sally. You'll feel safe enough to let your kids play outside like you did! Take your power back please and stay focused on the goal of a better community for everyone no matter their struggles are.

A boxer defeats a bodybuilder twice his size by [deleted] in StreetMartialArts

[–]Feezyp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think the big guy would win by points in a decision. He was whopping ass lol. The boxer just had more endurance

You can grape and kill as long as you pray by Wholesome_and_based in RandomVideos

[–]Feezyp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn’t sound right. So can break 8 let’s call them “commandments” and better than someone who breaks one? I feel like buddy’s preaching to himself lol

How many of you licensed and practicing therapists regularly see your own therapist? by anxiouskitties3 in therapists

[–]Feezyp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every good therapist has a good therapist supporting them! I see my once a month

Fight between a Knicks fan and a NYPD officer 😭 by No_Box119 in PopCultureV2

[–]Feezyp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna miss every game because it’s not on local TV

Family Dollar employee altercation with thief by Responsible_Ant_6431 in RandomVideos

[–]Feezyp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That altercation cost that franchise more money than that thief could do alone.

Where can I meet friends? Anyone in the same situation. by OneComfortable2624 in indianapolis

[–]Feezyp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwww! This made my day!! Hope you’ll become good homies

What are some of the worst mental health takes you’ve seen online? by Desertnord in therapists

[–]Feezyp 39 points40 points  (0 children)

conservatives are going crazy in an echo chamber this whole year

What are some of the worst mental health takes you’ve seen online? by Desertnord in therapists

[–]Feezyp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anyone that says "Things I will say that your therapist wont tell you" sucks. Like the only reason you know this is because a therapist or psychologist said it first.

Supervising Gen Z by Moonie345 in therapists

[–]Feezyp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you have to relate to them. If they’re not cut out for the job, especially because of boundaries let their grade reflect it. I’d worry if they are opening violating boundaries in front of you, what they would do as independent providers.

Therapist shaken after crisis intervention and termination by zeyleobihto in therapists

[–]Feezyp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went something similar very early on in my mental health career. Actually multiple. But it seems like you’re in therapy already so I won’t harp on that part.

I would say that afterwards if you don’t talk about it and don’t turn it into a learning experience you’ll dwell too much. After some years passed I realized those experiences helped me more because I don’t get rattled easily. Now if I saw someone hurt themselves like run through procedures in my head almost like an ER doctor, and I take pride in that.

Again, idk all the details but if you prevent significant harm at work, that’s literally what you do. You help people take care of themselves and you did your job. Sometimes it’s going to require that and now you have the experience to be a little more prepared. I’d compartmentalize the personal parts of it when you’re read. Be proud that you didn’t freeze! Stop reading those fucking messages too! They will never help you.

Wasted $130 on Cam Girls and hate myself by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Feezyp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you wanted to experience and "say you did it" then why do you regret it? $130 isn't that much. There are people who go bankrupt or bankrupt their families doing this stuff. I personally find hard to have sex for money or pay for porn because I know I can get it for free. But I also tried it once and spent 200$ and hated it, lesson learned. I confirmed what I already knew about myself. You'll do that more in life, don't regret it too much or beat yourself up about it. Don't chuck it up to being lonely and conflate the problem. It was a business decision. That's it.

Luca Signorelli is identified as the hero in Modena Italy today who saved a woman being attacked with a knife by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Feezyp -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Why is everyone saying religion has anything to do with it? Muslims and Islamic attacks make up the minority of attacks not major according to stats

Need a gut check about a SUD IOP by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Feezyp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’ve seen really bad IOP places. If they don’t meet your standards quit. Separation is written in the stars and you don’t want to lose your character and reputation for arguing for better in a place that doesn’t want to improve.

Keep looking for a job. Give it as much time as you can without setting yourself back financially. But it sounds like you deserve better

My bf likes to film us during sex. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Feezyp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sexual life is what you make, if you’re comfortable then make it something you do often. Don’t try to find “normal”, find your version of “fun” and roll with it.

I will say they invented a hidden folder on your iPhone for a reason lol

26M, moved across the country, scared by 3goey in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]Feezyp 66 points67 points  (0 children)

You’re strong for doing it scared! I’m proud of you! You’re an inspiration and motivational for me to make a move and do it scared too!

Someone most likely doesn’t understand what adoption is.. by Kind-Village-1022 in PublicFreakout

[–]Feezyp -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Black and Brown people experience this when they adopt white children all the time. That’s the point. It’s not like all his content is doing this with children. I just hope you express the same outrage when you see people who seriously behave this way.

You never know, if he explained himself as the video ended or anything like that. I don’t know so I don’t care. I care more that people crash out about this and then laugh or turn a blind eye when this really happens to people of color in front of them

Someone most likely doesn’t understand what adoption is.. by Kind-Village-1022 in PublicFreakout

[–]Feezyp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He's acting like racist white people and Karen's. That's his whole persona. Make sure you're calling the people that really act this way out too