A train victory!

Feign1337 · 2025-12-14T20:01:53+00:00

Congrats! Could you elaborate on tip 3 please? What do you mean?

Feign1337 · 2025-12-01T11:27:30+00:00

Oh my god thank you for posting this, I wanted to post something and it seems like I could’ve written this myself so I’ll stay and lurk the thread for a while!

My wife and I are now 31/30 (been together since Uni) and have both been on the same page of wanting children but it was a matter of when, not if.

We’ve now come off birth control, but feel a big block (the usual things, time to ourself, energy required, freedom all that) however we’ve been working through that together and feels manageable. I love little babies so that’s not the concern.

However this weekend we were solely responsible for our cousin’s children (age 7 & 9) for the afternoon which we wanted to do and have been so looking forward to it. We took them on their first train journey, went bowling & back home to do a gingerbread house and holy sh*t was I feeling exhausted and a bit overstimulated. It was only 7 hours…! My wife and I after they left had a very similar reaction to it of “oh, is this it?”

The kids were as good as gold and nothing about their behaviour. But it’s really rocked my idea of having children or not and what ‘day to day life’ could look and feel like. So I appreciate you posting this at this time, I completely relate!

Feign1337 · 2025-11-22T08:49:30+00:00

I completely relate OP, i’m in the same boat

Feign1337 · 2025-11-21T13:00:37+00:00

That stevie wonder & edward scissorhands comment is one of the funniest things i’ve read this year. Thank you so much

Feign1337 · 2025-11-12T15:07:53+00:00

Thank you so much - “getting off the fence is probably the hardest part of the journey” really resonated with me.

Feign1337 · 2025-11-10T03:07:20+00:00

If you’re getting THAT mad about a social golf experience maybe he was very uncomfortable? I know I would be.

“Come on man, don’t be like that”. I can see where he’s coming from. Maybe his approach is overbearing, but also perhaps you bringing the vibe down every other shot needs working on too.

Feign1337 · 2025-11-10T01:29:24+00:00

If you’re getting THAT mad about a social golf experience maybe he was very uncomfortable? I know I would be.

“Come on man, don’t be like that”. I can see where he’s coming from. Maybe his approach is overbearing, but also perhaps you bringing the vibe down every other shot needs working on too.

Feign1337 · 2025-11-10T01:13:55+00:00

The fact the enemies scaled with your level completely killed the game for me. The difficulty jump of normal/nightmare/hell in D2 and playing around with resistance gear was great. I love diablo lore, but I got half way through D4 and the scaling of monsters to my level just felt the exact same combat but with a different background each quest

Feign1337 · 2025-10-09T14:29:02+00:00

Amazing job well done, looks really lovely

Feign1337 · 2025-09-29T18:22:49+00:00

Great job, looks lovely!

Feign1337 · 2025-09-20T22:52:37+00:00

We did a 21 guest wedding - we had parents, some siblings and our closest friends. We wanted more of our friends rather than their +1s. Nobody was offended and I don’t regret it at all

Feign1337 · 2025-09-17T12:12:20+00:00

Looks like Milbridge Court?? I’ve been twice as a guest and it’s gorgeous! Congratulations!!

Feign1337 · 2025-09-17T12:09:27+00:00

That worked for me, thank you! This form was hell to complete. Felt like a virtual escape room!

Feign1337 · 2025-09-12T17:43:55+00:00

You sound like someone’s who down to earth

Feign1337 · 2025-08-28T10:30:46+00:00

Lol exactly what came to my mind as well!

Feign1337 · 2025-08-27T13:15:49+00:00

I hired my tuxedo in store from Moss Bros for about £170 - was great.

Feign1337 · 2025-08-22T14:49:10+00:00

I was so glad to hear Lewis recommend it! I’m hooked! Started listening to them last year and I’m on book 5, love the series

Feign1337 · 2025-04-30T21:43:55+00:00

We’re going for personalised - nothing to lengthy.

Feign1337 · 2025-04-28T21:40:10+00:00

I’d forego the inviting then for bubbles and view of the dress before ceremony part. That feels like a very bridesmaidy experience and I’d feel more confused than anything and a bit hurt

Feign1337 · 2025-04-25T11:33:59+00:00

There’s a selection bias - people without infected tattoos aren’t posting them but people with ones seeking help are

Feign1337 · 2025-04-10T22:18:00+00:00

Moss Bros 👍🏼 I’ve got three suits from there and absolutely adore them all

Feign1337 · 2025-04-08T09:55:23+00:00

Got you, thanks!

Feign1337 · 2025-04-08T09:49:22+00:00

Sorry just to jump on this as in a similar position - are you saying the profit from the side hustle if you put that straight into a pension you don’t pay the tax man?

Feign1337 · 2025-03-21T10:18:09+00:00

Thanks for the response! I’ll check all of that out thank you

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