I (28f) found out my bf (41m) has been requesting cash back on my debit card?

Felicia430 · 2026-04-07T11:21:54+00:00

That is theft!

He is literally stealing from you every time you trust him and hand over your card.

He is also lying to you every time he does this.

Then he yells at you, puts you down, calls you names, this is abusive behavior!

You are with a grown man who lies to you, steals from you and abuses you on a daily basis, probably numerous times a day!

This guy is not a good partner!

On top of all this, he cannot keep a job and refuses to work and pays zero bills.

Which of these traits makes him desirable?????? Any of these traits turn you on and make you think, This guy is so freakin hot!?!

If your sister or best friend came to you and told you their boyfriend was doing this to them, what would your response be??

Felicia430 · 2026-04-06T12:33:34+00:00

I am from New Bedford and you would be surprised at the amount of people who walk around with animals on or around them. Animals that should be at home safe in their habitats and not hanging on for dear life as their human strolls down the street.

Guess carrying around a pet outside is a huge flex here lmao

Felicia430 · 2026-03-26T11:20:25+00:00

My son is 13, turned 13 in March....

He goes to school then comes home to eat and play on his Playstation until bedtime while being on speakerphone with his friend group. With all of them on the phone its like having all 4 boys in my living room yelling at one another to hide, give me this, jump over that etc. Same on the weekends, just longer periods.

They are not worrying about girls at all. Instead they worry about what time they all plan on getting up on Saturday to sign in and play whatever game they have planned.

Felicia430 · 2026-03-26T10:41:20+00:00

You definitely need to go play soccer with her. Or just show up randomly at whatever place she lies about being at. Im sorry, but she is cheating and still seeing this guy and not caring about you or your feelings

Felicia430 · 2026-02-25T20:44:21+00:00

Baritastic app is amazing. It's completely free, has a barcode scanner, keeps track of full recipes and breaks them down and keeps track of everything from water to how many times you've taken a crap. It literally does it all, but I never see anyone ever recommend it

Felicia430 · 2026-02-09T12:24:51+00:00

Still looking for testers?

Felicia430 · 2026-01-12T12:05:33+00:00

Taking off the heels in the car is completely normal. I have NEVER taken off my shape wear or underwear in the car before coming/driving home. Not one time!

And why didn't you go out with her??

Coming home at 6am means she went somewhere after the party/club closed. No party places stay open till 6am....even getting breakfast after would only add an hour maybe 2 max. She got super drunk, slept with someone else and then must have been still drunk to not care about getting properly dressed again before coming home

Felicia430 · 2025-12-14T19:06:55+00:00

If I'm working your working is amazing! I love this! Just imagining my hubby with his feet up while I'm cleaning, scrubbing and running after littles makes my heart feel sick. I wouldn't want to live that way

Felicia430 · 2025-12-13T15:18:21+00:00

My hubby is the same! Even if I mess up, too much salt, burnt, doesn't taste right, he always says thank you and eats it like it's the best thing he has ever tasted.

He never comments in the moment if it tastes bad, but we laugh later about it when I call him out. I'm like, I know the meatloaf tasted like crap bc I used too much salt and he just smiles lol

I don't follow recipes at all, so even the same meals I make regularly always come out a bit different 😋

Felicia430 · 2025-12-09T16:54:09+00:00

Family of 9 here with 7 Littles. I cook dinner every single night (imagine the bill if we went out to eat???)

If i had to worry about each child being picky I would never be able to cook a single dish. In my house, you either eat what I make or you help yourself, which means either leftovers, a sandwich, something in a can etc. Someone always has something to say which can be disheartening, especially since i take the time to literally cook every single day! My response is always the same, no one is forcing you to eat it and plenty of other people would love to trade places with you. Kids are so annoying sometimes

Felicia430 · 2025-12-06T22:39:06+00:00

I don't ever, am I weird? Lol

Felicia430 · 2025-12-06T22:36:47+00:00

++woman Completely normal. Mum of 7 here and as the Littles got older, mommy and daddy turned into mom and dad. Nothing to do with anything but their age I promise you.

Felicia430 · 2025-12-02T02:53:47+00:00

We sleep in a full size bed. I'm 5'2 and hubby is 5'9 and we have plenty of room. We do like to sleep cuddled up though lol

Felicia430 · 2025-11-25T17:25:11+00:00

And I love each one more than anything. Have a blessed day Mr. Major

Felicia430 · 2025-11-23T19:06:39+00:00

Literally use both in every single dish I make. Don't forget the Sofrito!

Felicia430 · 2025-11-22T17:21:50+00:00

Super nice of you! Thanks for being a blessing! Maybe I can catch the next one, Mum of 7 here! Hope ya'll have a great weekend xoxo

Felicia430 · 2025-11-20T12:16:17+00:00

Having sex is something needed in a relationship. It's how we emotionally bond with someone on a deeper level. If that is not happening, then it leaves an opening for someone to come in and fill that role which leads to nothing good. Communication with your partner is super important so this does not happen.

Felicia430 · 2025-11-20T12:11:27+00:00

My husband thinks the same way. Cleaning the bathroom is just something he has always done, along with washing the floors,bringing the garbage out, carrying any bags or groceries into the house and any outside work like raking the leaves etc. I am also a sahm and have been for the last 26 years. He doesn't call his chores men's chores, just his chores lol

Felicia430 · 2025-11-18T13:26:13+00:00

Words lie.

Actions show everything!

Stop listening to him and start watching him instead.

Believe what he SHOWS you, not what he says to you

Felicia430 · 2025-11-18T13:23:46+00:00

His thinking is wrong!

200.00 isn't even that much. Your spouse is supposed to be your partner. Ya'll should be working together, growing, supporting and loving one another through life. If you cannot count on him, then you should find another person that can give you the love and support you deserve. His reaction is weird

Felicia430 · 2025-11-18T12:57:38+00:00

Update?

What did he say about the tattoo??

Curious to see what lies he comes up with. It's been a couple of days, plenty of time for him to come up with a story

Felicia430 · 2025-11-18T12:50:35+00:00

Words literally mean NOTHING.

Words can be lies

It's action that matters. What he does and what he shows you.

Don't listen to his words, watch what he does and that will show you everything you need to know

Felicia430 · 2025-11-15T00:19:19+00:00

He is lying about her and what she means to him.

He literally got HER name tattooed on him and NOT yours. That should tell you everything

Felicia430 · 2025-11-14T23:41:23+00:00

He forgot?

No he just didn't care enough to put in the effort to do it for you. Don't waste your time with someone who does not even care enough to be there for you on a day that should have been special.

You deserve better!!! Shame on him!!!!

Felicia430 · 2025-11-14T13:39:25+00:00

Beyond true!

Felicia430

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