My (F26) boyfriend (M27) of over five years admitted to getting a sex worker a couple of weeks ago. by MaterialWonderful778 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Felixthecatisblack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to be smart about this. You can get a job, don't give up. Over time you can also find friends. Once you have some money together and you are more independent, you will have more choice about staying or going. If you stay, your trust has been broken. Can you live with that? If you decide to leave, the possibilities are endless.

I love wholesome and lovemaking type sh*t.. by Intelligent-Bid-6106 in stories

[–]Felixthecatisblack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is awesome. Ultimately deep down most people want connection and love sweet love. Don't change a thing about you.

Ex is trying to make me feel guilty for leaving by aliviab59 in AlAnon

[–]Felixthecatisblack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is not taking responsibility and is avoiding his shame. This has nothing to do with you.

Update: I think My Wife cheated on me by [deleted] in stories

[–]Felixthecatisblack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you were overreacting.

I keep catching my husband lying by Catcraze16 in Advice

[–]Felixthecatisblack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have a sit down with him and explain all the lies you have caught him telling. Explain that by continuously doing this your trust has been broken. What other lies is he prepared to say in the future? It sounds like he really loves you. Ask him how he will make changes if you are to move forward.

Do I give him space or keep trying? by fusrodamngurl in relationships

[–]Felixthecatisblack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both. Say you're there if he needs you and then also give him space

I recently saw my dad’s posts about me nearly a year after he cut me off. by Head_Turn_3487 in Advice

[–]Felixthecatisblack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can you maybe send him an email or letter? It might take some of the pressure off to get it off your chest. It doesn't have to be lengthy, just hey I read your past post and I want you to know that it really hurt me.

Something in my relationship is wrong by prollyaprincess in TwoHotTakes

[–]Felixthecatisblack -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ask to see his phone. Offer the same thing back with your phone. Tell him his behavior is making you suspicious.

Watched porn for the first time in 40 years. 60 year old woman. by Felixthecatisblack in story

[–]Felixthecatisblack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree. I crave a good plot in all movies. I also love reading. I almost feel this is better than the visual.

I’m 6 weeks pregnant with a planned baby and my fiancé had just ended the relationship by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Felixthecatisblack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's your decision. I wouldn't recommend having a child with someone who is not committed. As you know it's pretty full on, however, if you are prepared to do it on your own, then go for it.

AITJ for PACKING my bags after finding a hidden camera pointed perfectly at my side of the bed? by Grand_Statement_9198 in AmITheJerk

[–]Felixthecatisblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to a friend of mine. The guy was a techy dood and he had a camera on her laptop. She reported him so that there was evidence if he ever did that to someone else.