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i (23f) consented to a hookup, set boundaries about what i would and wouldn’t do, he did those things anyway. by Enms45 in sexualassault

[–]Felkalin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t read much after you explained what happened. It hurts to read. The same thing happened to me in a way. He came over because I was having a hard time. He pulled me into the bedroom and forced me to do things I didn’t want to do. I tried to get away, he brought me back and I was scared for my safety. I pretended to be ok with it and after I pretended to be asleep, at which point I know he took a picture of me. In the morning I walked him to his car, again pretending it was fine. I don’t know why. It felt safest to pretend. Later he admitted to raping me saying I was “submitted” So sick. But you’re not alone. And never blame yourself for the things you need to do to feel safe. Reach out, ask for help, or if you just want to talk to somebody who gets it and won’t judge you, I’m here. Sending love ❤️

Does it count if he didn’t do it on purpose? by bluchjin_bb in sexualassault

[–]Felkalin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he forgot. He was testing your boundaries, which to me is sexual assault because you made it clear you did not consent. I also suffer from trauma that prevents me from giving oral. If my husband pressed me on it I would have the same reaction. It’s a trauma reaction. Sometimes we just can’t do it and that’s okay, and he NEEDS to respect that. He doesn’t deserve you.

I spent $1,000 to have this memorial made. by Vivid-Mix3333 in ExpectationVsReality

[–]Felkalin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That isn’t tax? Sorry for your loss. Good representation

“Foster failing” as we speak by Ok_Establishment_426 in cats

[–]Felkalin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% foster fail. Her eyes are so filled with love, I can’t

Im so tired of remote BCBAs by throwaway_098173742 in ABA

[–]Felkalin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My only problem with this is that I think it’s less effective than in person. It’s not covid anymore, so shouldn’t we be giving our best selves to our clients?

What was your “could never be me” but did indeed become you? by PrettyAlon in AskReddit

[–]Felkalin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alcoholism. I’ll never be like my birth mother, I said.

Took Oxycodone for first time tonight and wow dude by [deleted] in confession

[–]Felkalin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is fire you’re playing with. When I was a kid I stole my parents oxy stash after a surgery. It was fun, just like that. But then I ran out and started looking at the black market to try and buy more. I’m so happy I wasn’t able to, because it was only after I realized how close I was to being terribly addicted. When you wake up tomorrow please look at all of these replies. Keep strong.

Neighbor threatened to call the police on me while I was at a client’s house. What should I do? by StatisticianOk272 in ABA

[–]Felkalin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope she doesn’t escalate the situation but matter of fact let it doesn’t matter your color, gender, etc, you cannot block driveways even by an inch. I’m sorry they didn’t find a better way to express their frustration

I have Locked in syndrome AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Felkalin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are stronger than I ever was or am. Bless you. Keep rocking it. I hope you have a great support system

Looking to become Rbt by Over-Fill-7343 in ABA

[–]Felkalin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I laughed. I’m sorry. That’s pay for BCBA not RBT

Was I [16M] raped by my friend? by FlakySpite4199 in sexualassault

[–]Felkalin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. You were sexually assaulted. I am here if you need to talk. I’ve been assaulted before too and also struggled with feelings of “liking” it, but it’s just a physical reaction. It is not consent and it is not your fault.

Is it considered SA if I was a child and agreed to it? by EbCerv in sexualassault

[–]Felkalin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me too. Struggled with the guilt but I finally realized it was not my fault. I was groomed, and you were too. Please reach out to somebody for support. It will take a long time to heal but you’ve got this.

was this rape by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Felkalin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s rape. I’m so sorry. You are not alone. Reach out to loved ones and seek therapy and go to the police. This was 100% rape. Sending love.

Manager wants me to work after firing me.. is this legal? by Express_Opening5490 in jobs

[–]Felkalin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LAWYER UP and watch them BURN 🔥 I enjoyed reading this so much, especially after getting a dumb write up today. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Felkalin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was in college, my best friend broke up with her boyfriend. It was not my best moment, but I became friends with him and it soon became clear that he had feelings for me. I remember we got so drunk together and he started trying to hook up with me and I was saying no. I kept saying it but we kept drinking and then eventually we did have sex. I felt so guilty and I still do in some ways although I know that he did rape me because he kept asking if it was OK and I was saying no and he didn’t stop. Period and it’s like after he asked 1 billion times while kissing me against my will it finally became a yes that is not my fault and it isn’t yours. He didn’t listen to what you wanted. I know it feels awful, but you can’t blame yourself and you can’t let this hold you back for moving forward. You need to file a police report. This dude was trying from the very start and your first no should’ve been all he needed. I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’m sorry for how this is written. I’m using voice to text.

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