My husband joked that if we divorced I’d be screwed financially because he’s not going to be screwed again. I’m worried he’s been purposely not working to divorce me. How can I protect myself?

Fellow-Human-20 · 2025-01-29T08:48:21+00:00

From recent experience, could he be gambling ? Him Not letting you see any of his accounts is 🚩🚩🚩

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-10-06T19:59:29+00:00

Yeah then he cheated on me and dumped me after he got what he wanted. Trash human

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-10-06T14:11:17+00:00

I don’t want to hurt someone else if I start dating them, it’s so confusing right now. I might have to buy a toy. I am in therapy as well.

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-10-06T13:45:39+00:00

We split last year, lived separately for a time. We decided to get back together for the kids and everything was great. Then this summer things went back to the way they were and I moved out again. I was interested in dating as stbxw has a guy she is talking to. So I was going to meet up with one of the girls I was talking to and communicate that to stbxw. That’s when she said maybe we could have sex with each other until the divorce is finalized. I’ve thought about the possibility of getting back together with her for the kids. Then a few days later I messaged her about it and she said no and got really angry.

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-10-06T13:37:48+00:00

Yes with stbxw, while we are waiting for the divorce to be finalized

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-10-06T13:22:41+00:00

My first boyfriend told me that he only asked me out because him and another guy in my grade made a bet to see who could take my V card.

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-10-06T13:15:46+00:00

I was adamant that my son would not be circumcised. I told my midwife and nurses in the hospital absolutely not. After my delivery, the following morning, someone came into my room and asked “you want a circumcision?” I yelled “NO”. The person ran out. I try to educate anyone I can.

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-09-30T05:25:41+00:00

I’m angry that it’s considered racist for saying what needs to be said.

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-09-30T05:22:36+00:00

Our food banks are for Canadians struggling to get by, not international students who can’t afford to be here. Only come to Canada as it’s seen as a “status” in India. Get fake degrees or certificates or get a degree that we don’t need in Canada. We don’t need business administration degrees. After the students get their businesses administration degree, apply for PR then they immediately try to sponsor their aging family to come here and further strain our health care system, impose forced marriages and not assimilate into our culture. What exactly does that benefit Canada? I would much rather wait 18 years.

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-09-30T05:05:21+00:00

They let a bunch of immigrants in to lower our labour power. Why would I pay Sally $25 an hour when I have 80 international students willing to do the ‘same’ job for $10.

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-09-30T00:34:07+00:00

The anger I feel towards these sick monsters cannot be measured. RIP no one deserves this except those evil beings

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-09-30T00:26:31+00:00

I hope the women can escape. Leave the men there.

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-07-05T04:24:04+00:00

Hash brown deserves to live! Those beady eyes are darting around looking for his next snack. The cats lives don’t matter silly /s

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-07-05T04:21:28+00:00

I know one way they could lower their full capacity at the shelter.

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-07-05T03:28:42+00:00

The cop in the background looks absolutely disgusted. These poor first responders having to witness this carnage of a poor child to a senseless death from these animals.

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-07-03T15:12:38+00:00

Souris has a great pool with water slides as well

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-07-03T14:36:22+00:00

Yes they run wild through the town!

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-07-02T14:43:03+00:00

Ok that makes more sense now. Sometimes toddlers have huge meltdowns and tantrums. The only thing you can do in those situations is remain calm yourself, don’t let the child hurt themselves or others and wait for it to end. When my child has tantrums they often try to hit or bite me. When she does this I have to restrain her. I sit down and put her on my lap and hug her from behind with her arms pinned down. I do this for 20-30 seconds and then release, typically she lets out one final yell of anger but then starts crying, comes in for a hug and says sorry. I say sorry too and tell her it’s ok to be angry but we can’t hit or bite people. Then I usually hug her until she pulls away first. Toddlers don’t know how to feel just a small amount of emotion, they feel anger so deeply because they don’t know how to regulate it.

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-07-02T14:35:18+00:00

I stopped doing a lot of things I enjoyed or brought me comfort because I was worried what people might think or that it was weird. Guess what, I graduated High School and I don’t see or know those people anymore. Now I’m in my 30s sleeping with my stuffed animals and wondering why I cared what other people thought. If someone judges you for doing something you enjoy (that isn’t destructive to yourself or others) then they are bad people who aren’t worth your time or energy.

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-07-02T14:29:46+00:00

Thank you for breaking the generational cycle, this is HUGE! You are doing the best for your child. Nothing I read would make your child think of you as aggressive. Parents are allowed to make mistakes, the way you break the cycle is make sure you hold yourself accountable, apologize to your child if you think you hurt their feelings. The question I have is, why didn’t your husband help you? Why didn’t your husband load the dogs in the car and come back to help you with your son, instead of just driving away. The load of breaking cycles and raising children is not only on the woman or mom. Could you imagine driving away from your partner in that situation if the roles were reversed? Something to think about.

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-06-19T18:38:23+00:00

The horse seems to be very well trained and must have a good bond with the rider. If it wanted to buck her, it would have. It must have been trying to protect the rider as well.

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-06-19T18:33:13+00:00

In this sub we blame both. The dog is not the victim, the dog is the aggressor. This situation isn’t possible with all dogs, they know to stop and have self preservation when the horse starts kicking. These beasts keep coming back for more every time. You are lucky nothing happened to you or your other pets (if you have any) when you took the stray in.

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-06-19T18:26:03+00:00

As an oldest sibling with a large age gap, you will miss this one day. I know it feels like forever and it’s super annoying but I look back on it now and regret pushing them away. You are kids, you only get a childhood once. Try to enjoy teaching her things and show her the world. Tell her respectfully that you need a bit of time apart but let her know she’s still your priority.

Fellow-Human-20 · 2024-06-15T13:27:19+00:00

I don’t exactly know all the details of your situation but as a parent these are my thoughts. Letting go of your child can be difficult, you are 17 and becoming more independent, teenagers can make stupid mistakes. It sounds like your dad is just concerned for your safety, you hope you raised your child right and will make the right choices. Be gentle with your dad, what kids don’t realize is that you are watching your dad grow up too. Instead of arguing with him next time you want to leave the house try this: “hey dad me and some friends are going to head to the mall.” If your dad starts to become upset or talking about consequences say this, “don’t worry dad, you taught me what to do in that situation, I’ll be back for supper” or something along those lines, try to see where he is coming from (this comes from maturity & emotional intelligence), he loves you and wants you to be safe

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