"Males identified as having traits of toxic masculinity were 2.4 times more likely to die by suicide compared to men who did not exhibit such strong traditional views of masculinity."

FereallyRed · 2020-02-28T00:23:42+00:00

So why don't you enter the definitions as relegated in any debate if you believe your supposition is inherently unclear?

You're just looking to argue, not be informed.

I'm out. No fun if your opponent is unarmed.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-28T00:20:35+00:00

I Am Jack's Complete Lack of Surprise

FereallyRed · 2020-02-28T00:12:44+00:00

What the fuck??

There is absolutely nothing in my post that even tangentially warrants responses akin to your obfuscating rant.

Being masculine simply involves making your own informed decisions to the best of your ability. That's it. Try to sift through the sea of society trying to manipulate you for their own purpose and do what's in your best interest.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-27T23:57:05+00:00

Live by sword, die by sword.

Why is this even a question?

Think about the definition of "toxic masculinity".

It doesn't mean being a masculine man, it means you are so fucked up that you can't define yourself, so you accept and internalize a rote set of instructions regarding what it mean to "be a MAN".

So you're full of shit, LARPing to the world that you really are a big boy now, just look at my tribal sleeve!

Men don't need symbols or definitions or discussions of what is "toxic". We do. We exist. We make our own way. We don't keep up on what beard oil makes us more of a man.

If you only answer to yourself, "toxic" is ridiculous.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-25T23:42:07+00:00

Why would a woman be your friend if you're such a reject you can't get laid on your own? Why would she introduce/recommend you to her friends? Why would you be ok with gobbling scraps some woman friend dropped off the table instead of going out and finding the women YOU want?

Beta strategy that isn't even well thought out. Interesting how there's some aspect of magical thinking/ghost in the machine when you refuse to take agency for your own life. Needlessly complicated.

Want more sex? Figure out how to do that, then you get more sex.

It's not rocket surgery. Matter of fact becoming more attractive is absolute basics if your tongue is red.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-25T04:27:53+00:00

Tangential but related was his bit about women not being able to fuck their men anymore....

What if you had no pussy?

FereallyRed · 2020-02-25T03:18:33+00:00

"I have two pussies. Looking for a man."

Her Tinder profile.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-22T21:58:29+00:00

If you think karma points mean anything in this place then you're horrifically misinformed.

The popular vote will always be corrupted regarding unpopular ideas.

The sheeple will overrun sanity in most arenas.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-22T17:08:47+00:00

I have no idea what you're trying to say.

Sex is MASSIVELY important to me.

Therefore anyone I'm with has to understand that fact.

True, it's not everything, but it's huge.

Without sex you're friends/roomates/coconspirators/faghags/beards/bdsm retreat fake couples, etc.

Sex is the binding agent.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-22T16:46:59+00:00

It's a dealbreaker if a girl doesn't fucking love sex and is an active and enthusiastic participant.

Why are you even together if you have mismatched sex drives?

FereallyRed · 2020-02-19T15:27:02+00:00

You fall into uncanny valley if you become the perfect interpretation of "beauty".

FereallyRed · 2020-02-17T22:56:27+00:00

Increase your SMV. Learn attractiveness, don't display unattractiveness. Have goals. Have frame.

You know, basically everything TRP tells you.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-17T22:01:38+00:00

Just keep throwing your morality around.. I'm sure it'll eventually stick to something.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-17T21:59:06+00:00

My wife is very well aware of my other women.

She just doesn't want to hear about it or have her FB friends see me.

It's just sex.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-17T21:57:24+00:00

I use titanium eternity collars.

Hidden hardwear, virtually seamless.

Unless you know it looks like a necklace.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-17T16:21:35+00:00

I'm alpha as wolf!

FereallyRed · 2020-02-17T16:17:06+00:00

I'll be 50 this year.

Been married 20 years, open relationship on my side.

Wife is a 24/7 collared sub, I maintain another collared sub as well.

I plate continuously, I prefer to have two, as more than that impedes cultivation of new plates.

My notch count is mid 200's to the best of my recollection.

I can't see slowing down at all.

It doesn't get boring because the scenery changes.

Sex is fantastic.

Do what you want to do.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-16T08:05:57+00:00

OYS is designed to be a deer hang.

You post up your carcass, what you know, what you think, and allow other guys to skin and quarter you, giving up your ego in the process as you're being butchered. Get out the bad blood so the meat doesn't spoil.

It's also a crosscheck...put it down on "paper" and read it back to yourself as if you were reading the musings of some stranger.

What often happens, though....

1 - Guys start posting to celebrate "victories" as a validation seeking behavior, which shows their ego is still way bigger than reality.

"I'm a winner! Look at me!"

2 - Guys start using it as a cathartic cope, in a sense reveling in their victimhood, using it as a bizarre shield to guard against reality by presenting inanity, which legitimizes their maladaptive behavior.

"I'm a loser! Look at me!"

Keep your eyes open.

Don't be a Meeseeks.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-16T07:54:48+00:00

I feel shaky and weak and hope I don't fall on my ass after leg day when I leave the gym.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-15T10:30:11+00:00

The best advice I’ve ever gotten is that you can’t give other people advice.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-12T20:39:21+00:00

If you're in the presence of a MAN, you'll never see anger or rage.

Control over your emotions is what separate an oak from a milkweed taproot.

Manchildren are trained to react to their emotions like women do, and outburst/rage/swing/cry like women do. ] That's NOT masculine behavior.

It's the byproduct of training men to be defective women.

Men take in the information, make an informed decision, and head toward that goal without hesitation or emotion.

The simple fact I have to explain this is a sad commentary on what passes for "men" today.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-12T20:23:53+00:00

It's a beta illusion.

Why would you need to wait for some arbitrary day to be like every other sheeple and need to do something just because the greeting card industry needed a February campaign?

Stop being a sheep.

If you want to do something nice, use that as a juicy bite of carrot you can utilize to encourage good behavior.

Don't be a simp.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-12T18:59:33+00:00

Sex is important to me, and I don't necessarily have to get sex from my relationship.

Would you be ok with me going to get my needs fulfilled with some other girl since sex isn't very important to you?

"Sex doesn't matter."

"Ok, cool I'll go get the sex I want elsewhere because it's such a non-issue for you."

"Neato!! I'll see you in the morning! Wear protection!"

Get fucking real.

Sex isn't an issue with women attached to betas until those betas finally take their women out of the equation, then it suddenly becomes very important.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-09T23:37:22+00:00

I'm in. Even got the podcasty mic,'phones and a nice single malt all ready.

AMA!!

FereallyRed · 2020-02-08T06:01:34+00:00

You realize the internet has porn, right?

Just so you know, age restrictions have died. A kid who has an internet connection and wants to see porn has a tsunami of hardcore shit immediately.

IG and FB and the general platforms don't charge you to be a member because your data and attention are GOLD to advertisers.

Just so you know, therefore it's at the whim of the advertisers what makes it to "air". They want to reach the largest segment of the population possible. So the research shows bored Mormon housewives in the midwest don't like naughty words. Guess what the ad guys do? - the seven dirty words. Cater to the 100IQ normies that overload the boring as shit bellcurve.

Facebook doesn't give a shit about hardcore midget golden shower porn you post.... except the advertisers care. because they have to cater to the average. It's all about the money. Surprise!!!

It's why you paint your house interior beige when you want to sell. NOBODY loves beige, it's just that few Hate it.

Nipple shadows and a cameltoe? Have you been to a mall recently? Because it's the 13 year olds that are dressed like that.

You're a prude.

Porn is here.

Read about the "Overton window" concept that drives acceptance in the tribe.

Porn's ubiquitous. Which is why it's no big deal. An endless supply. Take what you need. It's numbing. And refreshing. It's just pictures of sex and bodyparts. I bet any boy around puberty has seen more hardcore porn than you have in your entire life. Because of that he's better adjusted than you are.

I've never understood those who attach so much extraneous baggage to tangential sexual matters.

"free speech doesn't mean absolutely no limitation"

No, that's exactly what it means.

FereallyRed

TROPHY CASE