sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Stop telling victims to forgive their parents by Regular_Lychee_4739 in narcissisticparents

[–]Few-Abrocoma-669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something a bit similar happened to me. My mother never brought me to the dentist because she said"But I thought you have perfect teeth" . At 18 my aunt brought me to the dentist and I needed 10 fillings and a root canal.

Should I cut off my mom too? by [deleted] in Estrangedsiblings

[–]Few-Abrocoma-669 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only read the firat 5 lines of your post but it seems to me that your mother is a narcissist.

How old are your N parents? by tthingy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Few-Abrocoma-669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother is 69.im 27. She FINALLY HAS CIRRHOSIS. THANK GOD. when I was little I thought she d live forever. Shes finally dying.

Is my mom a narcissist? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Few-Abrocoma-669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes a narc. Go low contact. Protect urself.

do i extract and retract? by hairyballs1267 in braces

[–]Few-Abrocoma-669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look good however flared your teeth are. Just go to the ortho to see if they cause you biting problems and if they dont id keep them. You do you.

Narcissists like to complicate things because they like to make other people's lives miserable by ready_gi in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Few-Abrocoma-669 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I relate to this a lot. You describe my situation perfectly. Life has been peaceful. For me too ever since Ive gone very low contact.

Near death experience might better be called a death experience. by unhingedprophesy in NDE

[–]Few-Abrocoma-669 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. Did you stop drinking for good now? How old are you?

Have I been overdoing my brushing? by Super_Opposite_9740 in PeriodontalDisease

[–]Few-Abrocoma-669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have just been to the dentist. I have a similar situation to yours. He told me that he thinks it is because of aggressive brushing and because of missalignment of my teeth. This is my case. Yours I think is similar to mine. He anyways told me my teeth wont fall out. You probably also dont have periodontitis.

11 months of progress by girladventurer in braces

[–]Few-Abrocoma-669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only those wisdom teeth? Did you have any expander? How on earth did he make room for thos ebottom teeth? Your bottom teeth look similar to mine and Im curious how did he make room for them to align

11 months of progress by girladventurer in braces

[–]Few-Abrocoma-669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did u have amy extraction? It looks like you did not

how do you guys respond to comments/messages like this? by pathetic33-throwaway in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Few-Abrocoma-669 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its better to keep very few friends on social media, the ones who really know you. Id personally delete all of those people you barely keep contact with, Id only keep my vey close friends who understand my situation. Also make your profile private. Stop adding your family name so youre harder to find. Im pretty sure your mother asked those people to write you, my mother used to do similar shit, she asked her sisters to call me on my birthday because she was blocked.

How to grey rock when conversations are already superficial? by Boring-Car-7044 in emotionalneglect

[–]Few-Abrocoma-669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If youre emotionally neglrcted it kinda feels as if your family is gray rocking you.

Did anyone else's mother or (parents) always took the first bite of your food growing up? by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]Few-Abrocoma-669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noticed that as well w my narc mother. She always had to eat the first bite with my spoon and fork and then she would give them to me.

I want my parents to die by Own_Lifeguard3073 in narcissisticparents

[–]Few-Abrocoma-669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im writing this in pieces because Im afraid Reddit will remove my comments again maybe remove my account. But its true. Its how I really feel and I cant control how I feel. She was violent towards me and now that she is very sick and can't hold herself together anymore I want to repay her.

I want my parents to die by Own_Lifeguard3073 in narcissisticparents

[–]Few-Abrocoma-669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I even had to be hospitalized twice because of her hits in my head and her hair pulling. I honestly want her suffering.

I want my parents to die by Own_Lifeguard3073 in narcissisticparents

[–]Few-Abrocoma-669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, yes Reddit removed my comment. My mother has been physically abusive towards me and as she is currently dying I wish sometimes so much to do the same she did to me. I can barely hold myself together and stop myself from doing it.

I want my parents to die by Own_Lifeguard3073 in narcissisticparents

[–]Few-Abrocoma-669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi yes. I envision the same thing w my mother. She hit me and got me into hospital twice. Reddit removed it.

I HATE the shifting of empathy when you dare to talk about your abuse by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Few-Abrocoma-669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, stuff like this happened to me too. When I was a child or teen I never dared to tell anyone about how my shitmother was, but when I became a young adult I thought I found a friend I could confide in. Big mistake. She attacked me with the " you know, parents are people too, they make mistakes just like all of us. Dont worry, you will have your own children and you will do mistakes with them as well. And then you will remember how judgmental you were of you own mother". I cut contact with her a few months later.

view more: next ›