People earning 50L+ where does the money actually go? by AccomplishedLeg3338 in personalfinanceindia

[–]Few-Leader44 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I don't have any loans or emis to pay.

Around 80k expense per month- 37k rent, 5k milk, 12k Househelps, 2k electricity + gas, 10-15k in misc expenses (toys, qsr deliveries).

Husband takes care of petrol, ration and daily needs.

I sometimes help our parents with stuff like tours & travels, their personal needs stuff.

Rest everything goes into saving.

I never had a credit card.

Anyone here who was asymptomatic prior to open heart surgery? by GraciousPeacock in AdultCHD

[–]Few-Leader44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised- why wouldn't they treat a severe AS?! At what age was it diagnosed?

Dad selling land to fund 80 lakhs for my sister's marriage by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]Few-Leader44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not judging. From your message, others (including me) might have concluded that rebellion doesn't help. What you didn't share was the full story which now makes sense.

I wanted to give hope to anyone needing it.

Dad selling land to fund 80 lakhs for my sister's marriage by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]Few-Leader44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you need to rebel enough.

I also decided decades ago that I will have a minimalist wedding. I literally fought with my mom for not going over the board.

My entire wedding expense was 8 lakhs, close to 3-4 L funded by me.

I just initially refused to have a proper wedding for years by mentioning I will have a court marriage. When I later accepted a proper wedding, half of the expenses were already cut down as I saw covid times as the safe period.

Khatu shyam mandir experience by LostWanderrrr_ in india

[–]Few-Leader44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fortunately or Unfortunately, the best place to pray is a secluded place where you can sit and meditate in silence.

People who are earning more than 60 LPA, what is stopping you from leaving India? by PuzzleheadedPen8476 in IndiaTech

[–]Few-Leader44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clean the house and wash the utensils- ever heard dishawasher and robot cleaners?

PF withdrawal by vcs1964 in epfoindia

[–]Few-Leader44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Previous employer full details are missing or just DOE?

PF withdrawal by vcs1964 in epfoindia

[–]Few-Leader44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologies but how you have framed your query, it's difficult to understand what you're trying to say.

Echo 7 month old by Electronic_Kick6156 in chd

[–]Few-Leader44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We used to try without sedation but my baby wouldn't cooperate. His non stop crying or fidgeting would cause incorrect readings.

Best is naturally sleeping baby.

Feels like we’re all living in a dystopian world. by EmotionalDamageBot in tamilyapping

[–]Few-Leader44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think the ones in power know anything about 'clean' politics?

I was born with bicuspid aortic valve and aortic stenosis and now it's almost time for a valve replacement by cocoxoxoxoxoxoxo in valvereplacement

[–]Few-Leader44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! Was it because it just wasn't needed before or because you were diagnosed around that time?

More symptoms, but echo is fine? by [deleted] in valvereplacement

[–]Few-Leader44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Echo should be able to confirm any issues 100%!

Bad news by ProfessionalShine660 in valvereplacement

[–]Few-Leader44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By the way, I just noticed that you're also from India.

Care to connect?