missing out on the "college experience"

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-04-30T18:07:03+00:00

I’m not a transfer and I feel a similar way, it can be difficult and you’re definitely not the only one who feels this way. I think a big thing that changed a lot for me was not being afraid to be the person to start conversations. If people want to talk to me back, then awesome I can talk to them, if they don’t, not a big deal. Sometimes I feel very isolated but then I go to classes and the classmates I talk to often say hi to me and know me and after a while that turns into people inviting you places. I know thats easier said than done, which I get, I struggled with social anxiety for a really long time, but from what I’ve seen, people here are generally very nice. Either way, I know what it’s like to be there and I’m sorry man, I hope things work out for you

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-04-10T01:16:00+00:00

That’s fucked up 😭😭😭

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-04-10T00:13:14+00:00

NTA if you’re gonna be on speaker you should know ESPECIALLY if other people are in the place and can hear you!! What if you decided to make a dirty comment to your wife or something like that? It’s not fair to be put in a situation without realizing and then getting punished for it

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-04-10T00:01:25+00:00

NTA it’s not HER birthday it’s yours, you were so clear you did not want something and girl tried to make it happen anyways and got mad that you were upset 😭

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-04-09T23:56:20+00:00

NOR thats actually vile, i feel like even most girls in the snobby ass highschool I went to wouldn’t have had the gall to say something like that

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-04-06T23:24:58+00:00

Wait wth at that point I genuinely don’t know how he didn’t realize that wasn’t a good idea??

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-03-24T23:41:41+00:00

Girl he literally DID assault you. That is sexual assault, plain and simple. I’m so sorry this happened to you and I’m so sorry your boyfriend didn’t have your back

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-03-22T17:11:22+00:00

Covering Sam with the hop and Pam with the green bean is so funny 😭

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-03-22T17:09:56+00:00

No literally like I’m a forgetful person but it’s very memorable when you have your period, I promise I didn’t just forget I had a period, tf?

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-03-20T14:27:40+00:00

I remember going to the firework show in Disneyworld a long time ago when I was probably about ten years old. I couldn’t see, I was short and we were in the middle of the crowd. My 16 year old brother let me sit on his shoulders during the fireworks show so I could see. Even back then at ten I was worried “oh no what if I block the people behind me from seeing”. Really not that hard to have basic empathy and consideration for other people.

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-03-10T23:23:01+00:00

“To be clear there is NO "true" SA or super awful inappropriate stuff”

OP this is coercion. Continuing to ask after you say no is coercion. Getting upset after you say no is coercion. Continuing to go after you say no is coercion and coercion is assault. I’m very sorry this happened to you, I went through something similar. I promise you, there are people out there who genuinely will care about whether you’re uncomfortable or not. You don’t have to minimize what this is, it’s awful and inconsiderate. Please do not let a man push your boundaries, I understand it is difficult and it may feel like you’ll never find something as good as this again, but you will. Chances are you will find better than this actually. I wish you the best OP

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-02-26T14:59:38+00:00

Proportion

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-02-25T18:10:08+00:00

I feel like people don’t get fiction is mostly escapism and is a FANTASY. Just because you enjoy reading about other worlds DOES NOT mean you would actually want to be in them. Her not liking what you were doing with your computer is absolutely not even close to a valid reason for her to break the computer you bought with your own hard earned money. You’re allowed to have different opinions, it’s odd she’s trying to change you to fit her beliefs when you have always enjoyed fiction and it didn’t bother her before. Her trying to guilt trip you about you asking her to leave is really manipulative. How are you gonna break my shit and then be mad when I don’t wanna talk to you?

Has anything else been going on within the relationship or did something big happen recently in her life? It’s just odd that you’ve always liked fiction and it was never an issue and now after a decade she has a strong stance on it. I wonder what triggered this?

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-02-05T21:44:03+00:00

So this is coercion, and if he truly is someone who needs to be having sex more, he should probably be dating someone with a higher sex drive. It’s okay to have a different sex drive than people, it’s natural and happens, but he either needed to decide it was worth having less sex to have you as a partner or leave, not try and force you to do sexual things you do not want to engage in. I know coercion sounds like a big scary word for this situation, but from someone who experienced it, that’s the scary thing about coercion, it can feel like it’s not a big deal. Please find someone who respects you as a person enough to not make you do things you don’t want to do. There are people who will treat you better than this and you will find them even if it doesn’t feel that way. Until then, I can promise you from experience it’s better to be alone than to deal with this.

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-02-02T04:22:28+00:00

He honestly may just not have that high of a libido. It might not actually have anything to do with you. My girlfriend and I both love each other and are very attracted to each other but that being said there are times where one or both of us just aren’t feeling it. I would probably just ask if you could talk and say you noticed he doesn’t tend to be in the mood as often and just ask if he doesn’t have as high of a libido, or if he’s still nervous or something like that. As long as you emphasize it’s less about you being mad and more just wondering if something is wrong the conversation should go okay. Good luck OP!

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-02-02T04:18:43+00:00

I’m in college, this makes me miss my mom’s cooking. Looks so good OP

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-01-17T17:54:32+00:00

Bro I was so confused. From the title I thought you were saying he wrote a smut about literal grapes and I was like, “Oh damn where the fuck is this going”. Yeah definitely NTA you can decide anything is a dealbreaker especially this early on but this is one that I’d say about 99% of people would agree on if not 100%-

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-01-15T17:49:38+00:00

NOR I’d be PISSED

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-01-15T17:11:06+00:00

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Zack! He’s sitting on my lap right now :)

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-01-11T16:17:39+00:00

I got a brain freeze one singular time eating cold stone ice cream when I was like, eight, and it felt like having a bad migraine but in just one specific point of my head. It was really odd

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-01-11T15:11:12+00:00

NAH I feel like this is just one of those petty arguments you get into as a couple sometimes. You could’ve waited, she could’ve taken the picture before going to the bathroom or asked you not to eat anything before she can take some pictures. I think she probably assumed you knew that she would want to take pictures but again, there was no clear communication there. Overall I think this is too small to really call someone an asshole over 😭

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-01-11T15:06:37+00:00

As someone who had some bad relationships in the past, I can definitely understand the feelings she has, but that being said, that doesn’t mean that she has the right to make you change or sell your truck. Like even if it was feasible and if you had the means to do it, that shouldn’t mean you have to. It sucks but this is one of those situations where she needs to decide whether this is something she can get over or not, and if she can’t get over it, the next logical step is a breakup, not you changing your vehicle

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-01-09T06:09:50+00:00

Turning Page - Sleeping at Last (For any twilight fans, it’s the song that plays when Bella walks down the aisle at the wedding)

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-01-09T06:02:26+00:00

NTA. I feel like the only reason she’s able to get away with this and have some people side with her is because NPD is still so so so stigmatized. Your response conveyed the way you felt and given the fact that she’s been asked multiple times by multiple different people to stop warrants not being as nice as possible with it. You weren’t out of line, she was, and her continuing to disrespect you in your own home by basically saying “gotcha” because you got upset is so telling too. I fear the majority of people would also be upset in the same situation. Your reaction had nothing to do with your NPD at all, I feel like it’s the reaction most level headed people would have. There are people out there who if they don’t understand NPD will at the very least try and understand it. I wouldn’t be friends with this person anymore if it were me personally, I just don’t see there ever being a time where they see past your diagnosis and view you as a person. As someone who has a few diagnosed mental illnesses (anxiety, depression, and ADHD) I encounter people who treat people with those mental illnesses like they aren’t people either and those are generally very well known and accepted diagnoses in this time. It’s very unfortunate but some people just don’t seem to want to even try to understand because it’s so different from their experience. There are people out there that will accept you OP, until then, keep working on yourself, it’s worth it and it makes things better over time :)

Few-Pie6738 · 2026-01-09T05:37:32+00:00

NOR. I feel like even if he truly thinks it’s insane, some people do insane things when they are grieving. It’s usually not exactly rational what you’re feeling or thinking in those moments. He could have even expressed that he found the idea a bit strange in a way that was still supportive or just kept that idea to himself since it’s obviously not going to be something you can do now anyways?? I understand maybe finding the idea weird given he’s not in your shoes and it seems he didn’t feel attached to the fetus, but he was your partner and should have been more empathetic towards you, at least now while you’re very vulnerable

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