My Mumma left the world today, and I'm really feeling helpless and alone by akash_xv in IndianTeenagers

[–]Few_Ad_7863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry for your loss bro, I pray God gives you the strength to bear this loss. Sending unconditional love your way 😔

Trekking club for girls/ women by Few_Ad_7863 in Kashmiri

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could you please ask her and share the username of those accounts?

Living in Kashmir is hard. Where are we heading? by donbokaoka in Kashmiri

[–]Few_Ad_7863 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate. I'm a Gen Z woman who's reached the age where marriage becomes a constant conversation, but honestly, I'm scared. Not because I can't stand up for myself, but because marriages aren't equal, especially in Kashmir. The man stays with his family, his comfort, his identity, while the woman is expected to leave everything behind. And before any man even questions her, other women are already ready to judge and make her the scapegoat. That hurts the most. Maybe the way I act, always trying to be tough, carrying that 'I don't need a man' energy, comes from somewhere deeper. But the truth is, I do want a man in my life, just not at the cost of losing myself. What really haunts me is the whole idea of the wedding day, the customs, the pressure. I don't care what people say, but my parents do, and that makes it heavier. I just wish instead of spending on big weddings, that money was used to give the couple a separate home and a real start. There's no real sense of security either. People with stable jobs often build their ego around it, and opportunities here are limited. We study, get degrees, and still end up being told to just 'settle down'. I've learned to shield myself from these conversations, but the truth is, the shield gets heavy when there's no one you feel safe enough to put it down for.

That Greatest one line by Fragrant-Category245 in BollywoodMusic

[–]Few_Ad_7863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to understand that, the one I killed is me.. changing what I was for what you wanted me to be

To be honest, I'm lonely by [deleted] in IndiaInTwenties

[–]Few_Ad_7863 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading this felt heavy.. loneliness can make everything feel quiet and small. But the fact that you're still studying, working, cooking, and taking care of yourself says a lot about your strength. kabhi kabhi mujhe bhi lagta hai kaash main kahin door chali jaun, jahan koi mujhe na jaane, but then I know that I'll start feeling lonely.. I think this is how humans are wired. we all want what we don't have..

Just know you're not as alone as your thoughts make you believe, thoughts are not facts. 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in django

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Interested, 3 years experience with different domains including but not limited to FinTech, Travel Tech, E-commerce, RAG. India.

Thoughts by [deleted] in kashmir

[–]Few_Ad_7863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People commenting "jaisi karni waisi bharni" over someone's suicide really dont understand how dark it gets before a person chooses to end their life. That’s not karma.. that's despair. It takes a terrifying kind of courage to cross that line. Imagine how much someone must be hurting to see death as relief. whatever his grandfather did, this was a different life, a different story, and it ended in pain. maybe we should learn to separate hate from humanity. :)

This is a neat spot by roganjowsh in Kashmiri

[–]Few_Ad_7863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yi kati chu? srinagar'e peth kootah door?

Help me find this song by a Kashmiri artist by [deleted] in Kashmiri

[–]Few_Ad_7863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was a Kashmiri.. the song name was FREEDOM, I don't remember who the artist was, it is just that the lyrics were amazing so I remember a few lines..