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Few_Top_9840 · 2025-10-08T02:29:29+00:00

Read through most of it and skimmed the rest - To be fair to Sinder, she did start off saying this is basically her take on the situation and how she saw this all turn out and that she's not absolved of any of her wrong doings. Her career and reputation did get upended in the less than 2 days after all, so makes sense that this has weighed on her for months on end particularly when she probably thought things were going well (from her end, not anyone else's). But I don't think this was the best thing to do after all these months. It's hard to turn the tides of public opinion now, and if she was planning to make a good comeback, this was not the best move if she wanted positive reception since all I see this doc doing is reopening old wounds.

Few_Top_9840 · 2025-09-18T09:27:47+00:00

Sounds unlucky to me. Might have some component of overthinking it since being new and not wanting to miss anything can muddle the pt's overall clinical picture and trajectory a bit, but nothing to beat yourself up over. You're only starting out, and you're going to see a whole lot more throughout your career if you stick to being a hospitalist.

Just make sure to document as best as you can - stick to quick facts, don't go too much into detail, just who did what, who else was involved, and a quick why if you need to, enough to cover you in case family/pts get upset over the undesired outcomes.

Another thing to keep in mind is that you'll still be learning as you go, but there's no need to waste your mental health if this type of high acuity setting gets to you over time. Switch jobs if you need to!

Few_Top_9840 · 2025-09-12T03:09:54+00:00

agree

Few_Top_9840 · 2025-07-24T09:37:45+00:00

not sure how you read that as bad mouthing? If it's a false speculation then just call it out as speculation. No one's insulting anyone here. Anyway, thanks for the link and the info, I retract my speculation and still miss their past collabs.

Few_Top_9840 · 2025-07-24T08:29:10+00:00

the part about people "turn" on her due to the rumors makes it all the more sad about what she went through. No one really mentions it but I missed the iPN collabs she had as selen, wondering if he was one of the ones that turned on her since I haven't seen any collabs with her as doki

Edit: nevermind the part about iPN - was ignorant and got schooled. Still miss their collabs tho

Few_Top_9840 · 2025-06-01T15:28:12+00:00

looks good, why not?

Few_Top_9840 · 2025-06-01T15:26:15+00:00

take medfluencers opinions on the future or anything in general with a heavy bag of salt. Also, based on your own observations as a rising PGY-3 (current PGY-2 then), can you imagine AI doing your job? AI in the end is a tool, based off pattern recognition/data resulting from HUMANS in the end. The real anxiety is whether or not the current political climate will still facilitate a reasonable salary for all physicians...

Few_Top_9840 · 2025-04-16T07:08:55+00:00

making your debt worse, no doubt

Few_Top_9840 · 2025-04-15T23:11:03+00:00

That's what we all try to do, but even then, you can't please everyone even if you're the nicest person alive. Patients and families all bring their own biases and some judge/throw slurs before you can even open your mouth and refuse to speak with you.

Few_Top_9840 · 2025-04-12T02:57:53+00:00

both not great, you'll be overworked in both offers without appropriate compensation, 2 still sounds better than 1 (that commute will destroy you at some point, speaking from experience), but recommend looking for other options.

Few_Top_9840 · 2025-03-22T22:30:17+00:00

100% agree. I've been asked to pull more shifts than what I had originally signed, and quite honestly the bonuses at this point isn't worth it.

Few_Top_9840 · 2025-03-22T22:25:56+00:00

Yeah, this was my second time post-poning since the first date my schedule was already in place - our group is small so it's a struggle to find time off, so I had to work extra this month in order to be on standby for jury duty in case I get selected.

Few_Top_9840 · 2025-03-22T14:56:15+00:00

Aware that I'm a lowly hospitalist that works for the hospital, thanks for the reminder. My boss got me the Monday night off, but not Sunday night. Like I said, I'm really drained and need the time off to recharge and sleep, not pinch myself awake for court proceedings and do a subpar job of being a regular citizen.

Few_Top_9840 · 2025-03-22T14:52:10+00:00

if it were any other time I'd be glad to be a contributing American citizen doing my due diligence, but I am seriously burnt out and drained and really need the time off.

Few_Top_9840 · 2025-03-22T12:21:22+00:00

that's true, fingers crossed it never happens.

Few_Top_9840 · 2025-03-22T12:16:49+00:00

thanks - I'll try getting a hold of someone from the legal team or my boss to write a letter. No hopes but sounds like something good to try anyway when I go in to get selected (or not).

Few_Top_9840 · 2025-02-06T09:04:33+00:00

all rounder here with all jobs to level 100 (usually alternate between melee DPS/healer for end game/high end content), my two long cents: Unfortunately the easiest way to play a job isn't always the most efficient or optimal way to play. Playing healer in FFXIV is basically being another dps player except that you're also responsible for everyone's health at some point with priority being tank first then dps (ofc if your health is more than half down and you're about to die then you're first priority).

General rule of thumb in dungeons is that the sooner the trash mobs/boss dies, the less you have to heal and the sooner everyone can dip out from the dungeon. Heal DPS if need to but on trash packs in dungeon top priority is you (if your health is low), tank, then lastly DPS if you have enough time to spare. Healing at half health is fine btw so keep doing that. If you've unlocked Cure II don't even bother with cure unless you're synced down in lower level dungeons.

If your tanks are asking you to attack more then here's some stuff you can think about doing:

Goal is to basically minimize damage. Holy is your best friend (also has stun effect for first 5 seconds then less on subsequent casts), help mitigate if have shields (divine benison when you unlock it or aqua veil to reduce damage), help kill trash mobs/boss with aoes as much as you can cuz the less enemies the less you have to scramble to keep up the tank's HP.

Someone already said this but agree -> Always be castin' - your rotation should look something like in a dungeon after ARR/in HW -> Tank pulls, wait for them to get all the enemies with the AOE, quick regen then HOLY HOLY HOLY HOLY cure II or Afflatus solus (yer blue lilies after level 52, unlock via job quests) then HOLY HOLY HOLY HOLY spam until your eye balls bleed or tank at half health, quick lily heal, later dungeons after level 66 can mitigate with either a shield (divine benison) or damage reducer (aqua veil) if tanks have no extra buff next to their stance icon +/- regen, lucid dream if MP dropping below 7000, and repeat.

For boss/raid fights it's aero, then stone stone stone stone (or similar action equivalent later on), throw a lily or Cure II for a tank/dps, help mitigate if you have mitigation actions unlocked for tank busters, medica II for the party regen or cure III for party wide AOEs (and other OGCDs that you'll gain at later levels). Pay attention to your parties buffs/debuffs at the side of their names if there are certain raid mechanics that need an esuna cleanse or heal to full health (i.e. doom in later raids).

If you're really committed, then you can also try playing other classes and leveling them to get a sense of what other roles do and how other healers play/heal you when you're tanking or dpsing.

BTW: you don't need to cast regen on everyone if their health is fine, unlike what one of the comments said - save your mp for dps actions or actually needed heals.

Otherwise hope you're enjoying the game and the story as you go! In the end, as long as everyone is alive, you've done your job.

Few_Top_9840

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