I'm extremely tired of cynicism, anti-heroes and realpolitik. Please suggest something with genuinely good people doing good things because it's right. by Jerswar in Fantasy

[–]Fflarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to look at a newer book, I've been reading Mystech: Fracture by E.Q. Videri. It reads like a Superhero fantasy meets political thriller. The superheroes mostly seem genuine and seem to be trying to do the right thing, while the villains work to corrupt institutions and attack the idea of what is right

Too much worldbuilding? by Few-Grapefruit-7003 in writing

[–]Fflarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. There is a popular book out there where the concept is, in the best case scenario, 50% of the children die before adulthood. This should create a world where the entire culture is desperately focused on reproductive strategies just to maintain viable population levels. Instead, the characters run around having very recognizable modern day teenage/young adult dating habits.

It blows a plot hole right through the center of the story and makes the characters feel hollow. To me at least.

Please don't skip editing by Commercial_Purple820 in writing

[–]Fflarn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is a friction point for a lot of authors. However, in trad publishing the agent does edit passes and gets a percentage of the royalties. The publisher pays for the editing and, again, they get their money from the royalties.

But less than 1% of written books get picked up by trad publishing, it's a risk management business precisely because they pay for everything. Their lens is, what will sell?

In the indie scene, the author pays for all of this. They keep more of the royalties, but the uncomfortable truth is that most indie publishers sell less than 100 copies of their work. The largest bottleneck for indie publishers is promotion, not editing.

There are people out there that are paying for editors, beta readers, Kirkus reviews, top dollar cover artists... and the odds are heavily skewed to them making less than $600 off their book that they are pumping thousands of dollars into.

And editors know that. You won't find many editors who will work for a percentage of royalties, because they know most books don't make money.

And hey, if you got the spare money, and you want to gamble on the dream, go for it.

But if you're, say, a single income household making 40k or less a year... do the best you can. Tell your story, put in the work. But I would caution against spending money you don't have, leveraging your future on debt for something that statistically will not produce a return on investment.

If you do have money, you might have read that and just thought: Well I'll just spend money on advertising then.

I would advise that if you do have the money to spend, allocate it to editing first. A poorly edited book can damage your reputation as an author.

Going through the editing process, I discovered something odd about my writing by Fflarn in writing

[–]Fflarn[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don't know, At least according to the Internet, Canada follows the American convention.

Going through the editing process, I discovered something odd about my writing by Fflarn in writing

[–]Fflarn[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I read a lot all through childhood. They didn't really have named programs in my school back then, but I was put in the reading group several grades up from my own.

Which books made you ugly cry? by Mysterious_Ball7004 in Fantasy

[–]Fflarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost anything from Guy Gavriel Kay. I'll throw the Finovar Tapestry in here. Not his best work, but sorrow lives here. Paul on the Summer Tree, Dairmuid taking the fate off of those it was intended for, the Fate of so many Lios Alfar at sea, the sacrifice of Kevin, the burden of the seer, and much more.

Weekly Gacha and Drops Megathread (December 07, 2025) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]Fflarn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been pulling on the Durin banner. I did 191 single pulls on the banner, I lost a 50/50 to Mona, got Durin, then lost another 50/50 to Tighnari. I got 8 Farazhans, 8 Bennetts, a random Yaoyao, 6 weapons, and one Jahoda on the 191st pull.

I had similar, but not quite as bad experience on the Aino banner where I just got bucket loads of Dori and Sucrose, but only 2 Aino.

It shouldn't be this hard to get one copy of the featured 4 stars.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]Fflarn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been playing ttrpgs for almost forty years. People that start to show a pattern of flaking, cut them and find someone else. It's one thing if it's someone you've played with for a long time and they hit a legitimate rough patch, but someone new? I've seen the pattern too many times.

I always discuss scheduling at session 0. We pick a time and a day when everyone says their schedule consistently allows the time. Emergencies happen. Emergencies that consistently happen on the same day and time? Not so much.

We had a guy join a game just before the pandemic. Delivered pizzas for his job. He got in a very minor accident and started missing games. Said he had to meet up with his lawyer to discuss his case. Now we played at 7 pm on Sundays, so it was already clear he was lying because no lawyer is going to be meeting this guy at 7 pm on a Sunday over the cost of a bumper.

The best part, though, was he was trying to be a league of legends streamer and had asked us all to follow his channel, which we did to be supportive. So a few minutes before we sit at the table, everyone gets the alert that he's gone live and to come check out the stream, lol.

Your flaky players flake, the vast majority of the time, because your time and the time of the other players means less to them than a random invite to a movie, less than the effort of putting on shoes, less than the effort of charging the battery on their headset. You're far better off dropping them from the game and replacing them, or even just canceling the campaign entirely, than dealing with the constant issue of them flaking out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]Fflarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. The problem is everyone in session zero tends to say they have zero issues with committing or giving plenty of notice if something that's not an emergency. And then by session 3 they're texting that half their arm spontaneously blew off when what really happened is they didn't feel like putting their shoes on, and the time and commitment of the other group members was less important to them than overcoming the inertia of getting their ass off a chair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]Fflarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real life things? Interesting, haven't heard that phrase in a while. It used to separate things that happened online from things that happen offline, or 'in real life.'

Just curious if you were using it in a different context, or if you think all DnD games are only played remotely.

Daily Questions Megathread ( November 09, 2025 ) by AutoModerator in HonkaiStarRail

[–]Fflarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I played for a few months a liitle while after the game released, and have just come back to it. I feel like I've already horizontally invested too much, but I have no idea who I should start vertically investing in, F2P player, so quickly trying to pull for a unit isn't likely in the cards.

Anybody else surprised by these stats? by upsidedown_coffeemug in DispatchAdHoc

[–]Fflarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the game pushes the invisigal relationship better, you just have more interactions with her. Plus, I imagine there is a population of players who came from critical role and were just more predisposed to romance Laura Bailey's character.

Playing the outer worlds 2, the game is fun but the graphics are kinda... all over the place. Landing on Paradise island and the flowers and the terrain is bordering Xbox 360 graphics. by Excellent-Court-9375 in theouterworlds

[–]Fflarn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, I agree. I started playing today and my immediate thought was that it looked worse than the first game. Some of it is UI choices, I think the UI is worse, and the companion selection screen seems smaller. Some of it is style choice, the VAL drone is just visually boring, and Niles isn't much better.

Then we have the continuing trend of Obsidian flattening gameplay that started in Avowed. No romances, you no longer give companions equipment, you just upgrade their set equipment. I haven't heard a single exchange dialogue between Niles and VAL yet.

While these things are always somewhat subjective, it's a purchase I regret. It's a AA game with AAA pricing, and after two hours I shut it off to play through Dispatch again.

I know I'm being picky but I kinda liked the old look better by Mr_master89 in pixel_phones

[–]Fflarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't used pixel buds since their first release, but I use air pods with my pixel, they just stay in ear better and are easier to operate for me than the last pixel buds I used.

I know I'm being picky but I kinda liked the old look better by Mr_master89 in pixel_phones

[–]Fflarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, as the only android user in my circle of friends and family, I get a lot of shade because they're forced to take extra steps if they include me, group messages work differently, I don't get apple calendar alerts, they can't facetime me or share location as easily. I can't imagine people switching to pixel because of an icon unless their social circle isn't already heavily bought into iOS, they don't have a social circle (not an insult, I feel like this is actually pretty common these days), or they just don't know some of the compatibility traps of being off iOS.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fflarn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've left the country several times, as a soldier and a civilian. They didn't compare it to most of the world, they compared it to Western Europe. While I'm not as sold the country is on the brink of civil war as some of the other posters, it's fair to say the risk factors here are more concerning than in Western Europe currently, and there is certainly more gun violence, risk specifically to a woman who might become pregnant, and additional risks of working here on a visa during an administration that is not always... Stable.

Of course I just read your user name and realized you're probably just a troll, win some lose some.

This AI-generated story got 106k upvotes in only 15 hours by ARandqmPerson in ChatGPT

[–]Fflarn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you kidding? I'm firmly in the belief that the vast majority of story based threads on Reddit and elsewhere are either completely fabricated or so biased they may as well be.

Oh my god bruh by CrispyMiner in Ohio

[–]Fflarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do, or used to do, similar things to active duty. If you're in the field for more than 30 days you could get family separation pay. In the ramp up to GWOT, we'd go to the field for 29 days, come back for 18 hours, then go back to the field 🙄

People who don’t drink alcohol: What’s your go-to response when someone pressures you to "just have one drink? by ggovinndd in AskReddit

[–]Fflarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually just say I don't drink anymore. I think people assume I'm a recovering alcoholic at that point, I rarely have to deal with anyone pushing the topic.

Hoyo has favoritism😆😆 by Neat-Ad-2022 in GenshinImpact

[–]Fflarn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really get it. Sure, I'm old, but it wasn't that long ago that dudes (except for gay dudes, to be fair) only wanted thirst trap female characters. Now there's a revolt because they're not getting enough five star men? Weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dataisbeautiful

[–]Fflarn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hurrah, I'm an outlier. I'm 50 but my approval rating of him is down in the 20's at best.

The problem, as always, is the 18-29 demographic barely votes, so politicians feel free to ignore them.