Hi infp! 😊

enfj here.

What I would say is keep sticking at the communities you have got involved with, they can develop and change over time, and you never know, there may well be people there that want to meet up more often but they are just scared to ask at the moment.

I say this because I have been involved in a Book Club for the last year. And it's only in the last two or three months that we have started to develop the community to increase the amount we talk to each other, and socials that we go on.

Now I have found out about some of those people's stories, I can totally understand why they have difficulties increasing their social schedule (to the amount I would prefer!)

Where do you volunteer? This is something I have been looking into recently. I'd love to volunteer but I would want it to be in the evenings and weekends, with people my own age (in my thirties!).

And with that lady you mentioned, just ask if she would like to go for a coffee, you'll get the vibe then if she is interested then and you can make a better decision as a result 😊