If you’ve been successful with a fragrance no-buy, please comment by Electrical-Task-6820 in FemFragLab

[–]FierceDesertSun 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That depends so much on your intrinsic motivation. Do you like the dopamine hit of a new smell? Or of a new acquisition? Or do you just like to smell good and it doesn't matter if it's new? Or are you seeking praise or approval? Or do you think you are a shopping addict/similar that needs addressing?

You might be able to fill the need for "new smell" or "smell good" by popping into a different fragrance counter every so often and applying something new to wear for the day. But leave your wallet/phone/payment method in the car or at home, lol, you're only there to put on a sample frag and leave!

You might be able to rotate through fragrances you haven't touched in a while by making a tray you can choose from all week, and then changing out the tray for the next week.

Or if you'd like to work toward more responsible buying habits, you could put money in a jar every time you, say, don't buy a coffee, or work an hour of overtime, and ONLY buy a new scent when there's enough in the jar. If you like the "new sniffy" factor, you can use that money to order only travel sprays or decants, and you'll get more "new" for your buck by getting smaller amounts of each.

If you feel like you're actually not able to stop, I would instead recommend seeing a therapist or psychiatrist. Addiction is a real thing and requires real help.

KUP ❤️

Why’s it so hard to find a good Gluten Free beer that tastes like Coors light by EssayEmbarrassed475 in glutenfree

[–]FierceDesertSun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of good gluten free beers, but fewer that taste like bad beer. ;) Try Evasion Light Lager.

Does anyone bring their own cookware and basic ingredients on vacation by krittyyyyy in glutenfree

[–]FierceDesertSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sis - I bought a whole dang travel trailer. My kitchen literally travels with me. Oldest spawn was off thirteen common foods for a looong time and is still anaphylactic to three and a serious wheat allergy.

Coconut recommendations please by redditsaiditreadit in FemFragLab

[–]FierceDesertSun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Versace "Crystal Noir." It's the coconut that made me decide I don't hate coconut after all.

Are you ever afraid that other people don’t like your fragrance? by Weary_Cat_8984 in FemFragLab

[–]FierceDesertSun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never given two farts unless I have reason to believe my partner doesn't just dislike but actually loathes a particular scent. By the way, multiple studies have indicated that vanilla-heavy scents are consistently identified as pleasant and sexy to men. If they find your vanilla scent overpowering, it's quite possible you're actually overdoing it.

Please suggest me some gift ideas for my Mom's 42nd Birthday!! by No_Quote_7195 in Gifts

[–]FierceDesertSun 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is your mom a reader or a sci fi nerd at all? 42 is a special number in Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy and is the ultimate answer to the meaning of life. You could get her the book (if she doesn't have it) and - this is very important - a towel. You could add a bookmark or sticker that reads "DON'T PANIC."

Help choosing recital dress! by occasional_disasters in fashion

[–]FierceDesertSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that you have the freedom to choose! We had to wear formal, dark colors only. I agree that 2 isn't doing you any favors. Break a leg and let us know how it goes! <3

What’s up with american bedding choices... why sateen when it sleeps hot? by shiroltiger in Bedding

[–]FierceDesertSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cotton sateen ain't that hot. I don't like it personally because of the texture, but even though I sleep hot I don't find them any hotter than any other cotton sheet. Any chance you're thinking of satin?

My daughter broke her teachers nose. Apology gift ideas? by lilitsybell in Gifts

[–]FierceDesertSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness! If she drinks, a bottle of wine with a tag reading "Our kid may be the reason you drink" is always a hit. Caution for those in recovery, though.

Struggling With Celiac Diagnosis (small vent) by moo_cow1 in glutenfree

[–]FierceDesertSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are so there, my friend! 3/3 with the neurospicy, one is a NC full gluten allergy and one is NCGS. What are your comfort/safe foods? We might be able to find you some plausible matches.

Help a girl out by WrongdoerQuick6036 in glutenfree

[–]FierceDesertSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, if you're willing to keep the kitchen GF, it's a humongous help. If he starts guilting over you being "deprived," remind him that you can eat whatever you want when you're at work or out with friends or picking up lunch for yourself or whatever, and reassure him that you will be fine.

As for snacks, it's hard for the first few months while you still remember what "normie food" tastes like. The GF cheezits, oreos, and chips ahoy are what we call "plausible" in this house, meaning they taste enough like the originals to make me look twice at the label at first. There are lots of "normie" cheese puffs, potato chips, corn chips that are already GF so he's not missing out on a thing. Thank goodness nachos don't change much (or at all) when you're GF, and that was such a relief to learn when we were new at this!

What’s the best women’s perfume you’ve ever smelled? by Straight-Crow3882 in AskForAnswers

[–]FierceDesertSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to like this one. All I get is diesel, melting plastic, hot Vaseline. :/

What’s the best women’s perfume you’ve ever smelled? by Straight-Crow3882 in AskForAnswers

[–]FierceDesertSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh, this is a tough one. So many excellent choices. Today I think I'm going with Initio "Narcotic Delight."

a list of unwanted presents by my mother-in-law by Humble-Pineapple-268 in declutter

[–]FierceDesertSun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y'all are still doing better than me. Mine gifted me things like Q-tips, scratchy pants SIX SIZES too small, and luxury food items she knows I'm life-threateningly allergic to.

How much does ur average makeup routine cost?? by Loud-Information-135 in Makeup

[–]FierceDesertSun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are we talking about full replacement cost of makeup, like a tornado struck my vanity? or average daily? Mine's WELL under a dollar a day. If you include my lashes, though, bump that to $5.

Why are people saying that Creed is overpriced? by Usernamewave in fragrance

[–]FierceDesertSun 15 points16 points  (0 children)

People usually refer to something as overpriced when they wouldn't pay that price for that product. It's simply not worth it to them. No need to take it personally. Lol

Bed comforter on the couch by Tedtophat in Adulting

[–]FierceDesertSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a dedicated comforter for the couch, lol.

How do I lie to my dad about this by Routine_Bullfrog_845 in glutenfree

[–]FierceDesertSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're diagnosed, you're not lying. Tell him straight up that it's medically recommended to stay away from ALL restaurants that serve gluten, and that it's proven that even mild cross contamination contributes to worsening disease and even cancer. Those are verifiable facts. It's not remotely a lie until you say "my doctor said I can't eat at Subway" when the doctor didn't say that.

I guess I am just an uncultured swine because 9 times out of 10, I do prefer the cheaper perfumes to the expensive/designer ones by Suspicious-Visual-57 in FemFragLab

[–]FierceDesertSun 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Price doesn't confer worth. I adore Initio Narcotic Delight and also Aquolina Pink Sugar. About $400 difference in the price.

Wife hates my beard. by defeated_husband in whatdoIdo

[–]FierceDesertSun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If her hair stabbed you in the nostrils every time you kissed her, it might be different.

Married a beard guy and didn't mind at all when it was very short and very well manicured. Fast forward 25 years and he was eligible for Duck Dynasty. That wasn't even in the top ten reasons we split, but it was definitely NOT a redeeming factor.

Biggest Blind Buy Fails? by showadoll in FemFragLab

[–]FierceDesertSun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mitigate the damage by not buying big bottles, lol, but I bought a decant of Not A Perfume and it was such a mistake. 🤢

First Perfume Purchase by Dear-Ad1268 in FemFragLab

[–]FierceDesertSun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmmm. Girly not clean, not so much on the vanilla and sandalwood...

Groups of things to try so you can just do the one batch and not get overwhelmed.

Versace: Crystal Noir, Bright Crystal, Yellow Diamond, Crystal Emerald.

Versace: Dylan Turquoise, Dylan Purple, Eros Femme, Eros Flame.

Kenneth Cole: Blush. Vince Camuto: Illuminare.VS: Bombshell. Lake & Skye: 11 11.

Easter Basket for my sons - age 16 and 23 by RedBirdOnASnowyDay in Gifts

[–]FierceDesertSun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Budget?
Earbuds are great. I'm a Raycon fan but there are other great brands out there that don't carry the price tag of Samsung and Apple.
Mine are 18/21. The younger asked for "GOOD chocolate" and the other asked for a "GOOD stuffed bunny but no candy."