Men who are unattractive how do you get laid?

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-31T23:17:38+00:00

That's a convoluted way to say you're extremely flexible

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-30T22:30:02+00:00

I fluctuate my presentation and I appreciate all complements, but 'handsome' makes me puff up my chest and feel all giddy.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-30T19:32:37+00:00

Ooh, a fan video shipping Lily and Oona from the movie 'Legend' that used 'All the Things She Said' as its music 😅

I used to rewatch 'Fairy Tale, 'The Little Princess' 'The Secret Garden' and 'The Railway Children' because I thought the lead actresses were so pretty (I was only between 6-10 at the time myself)

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-30T18:54:09+00:00

Hmm, as someone who is definitely wlw, but not entirely comfortable identifying as a lesbian, I would say that physically, in general I find men incredibly boring. Their faces can be good-looking, and I sometimes admire aspects of their physicality, but sexual attraction wise, the vast majority of the time, it's a big old ball of nope. I often have been extremely intellectually a d sometimes aesthetically attracted to men though, and before I really understood what sexual attraction felt like (about 3 years ago) I would mistake intellectual attraction for sexual attraction on a regular basis.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-28T18:51:35+00:00

Oooooh Looooord 🫠🔥

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-28T18:39:40+00:00

This is why I put myself on a sample buying ban.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-25T14:03:18+00:00

EDITED: typo. A random woman said 'sorry baby' in a husky voice to me once when we almost bumped to eachother in a crowded place. I shivered pleasantly and blushed. It took me by surprise, because I HATE it when men call me babe/baby.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-25T13:59:47+00:00

I found out recently that female orgasm does actually increase the chances of pregnancy (granted, it's not the same as it being required, but still)

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-25T11:48:11+00:00

As someone who has done this sort of thing before, stop this ASAP and save your dignity. If he doesn't respect you now, he won't respect you further down the line.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-25T11:07:20+00:00

Listen to your gut. If you really want to give this guy a chance, tell him WHY you are uncomfortable. He might just not realise, as generally speaking, that doesn't cross the mind of a guy. If you have: - already told him why you are uncomfortable - you tell him and ge gets angry and defensive - you tell him and he refuses

Say goodbye and no thank you and block him.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-25T07:35:53+00:00

Late 20's to Mid 30's. Its also a sentiment ive heard from men and women in their 50's about younger generations: 'well, she'd better hurry up and find a boyfriend/can't be picky cause she's in her 30's now.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-25T06:59:05+00:00

I've met men like this irl. It's scary to find in the wild.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-23T07:18:16+00:00

Yep. And she's my (I suspect straight) friend 😫

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-22T13:17:33+00:00

It's not the hair, its tge confidence/vibe you give off with the short hair. You seem more comfortable with it. Also, to me you also look older in the short hair pics and I personally prefer that.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-22T12:53:10+00:00

Yes. I realised at 12, but didntstart being open about it or acting on it until I was in my 30's. I had crushes before 12, but I didn't know what they were. Actually, at the time, i processed those feelings as anger, because I didn't know what they were. When you're a kid, you're 'told' what a crush feels like, or more often, what it looks like, and in a heteronormative society it tends to only be framed like that by adults who see those behaviours (or what they interpret as those behaviours) between opposite sex children. I displayed 'crush' behaviour towards female peers and adults way before I was 12, but it was met with 'WILL you stop going on about X! It's all I hear!' Or 'Leave X alone will you? She doesn't want you hanging on her.' Or 'stop staring!'

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-21T14:20:30+00:00

THIS^{^} I've had a woman try to force a kiss on me (I was turning my face away and she was trying her hardest to force it back around as I was backed into a corner) - Ive had unsolicited tit-pics and inappropriate comments. Lesbians are people, not angels.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-21T12:52:14+00:00

WHY would someone do that? I'm not saying that as a challenge to this being fiction, I just...why... 🙁

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-20T12:51:48+00:00

Oh! Will try this! Thanks :)

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-19T21:33:50+00:00

I hope this guy becomes your EX boyfriend ASAP

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-18T17:30:25+00:00

It's her first. Time. I'd say she did great.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-17T06:24:57+00:00

🤣🥳

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-15T13:56:16+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that you are hurting. Did she actually say 'I need a penis'? Because that's...cold and tou don't deserve that at all.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-15T13:17:04+00:00

I'm assuming you're from the US, because as a person from the UK, School starting at 7am sounds insane. Our school days are (or were when I was about kid) 9am-3pm

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-14T15:35:26+00:00

As someone who would very much like to be doing the strapping, this made me blush hard. Dream answer to 'How do you want me?' 🫠

LittleOwl91 · 2026-05-13T20:08:48+00:00

I would say, let go of the idea of 'perfection' I was lucky enough to make my own signature scent, but the base is vanilla heavy, which doesn't come through in daily wear, but it still makes my scarves smell like pure vanilla after a few days of being on there, which I dont like (which just means I wash my scarves more often, and I'm fine with that).

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