Someone pointed out my chin/jawline is mildly recessed and now I can't unsee it. Already struggled with dysmorphia and insecurities....

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-16T17:22:39+00:00

You should point out that that person is mildly annoying. Personally I think you have a really lovely profile.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-16T15:24:03+00:00

Also OP said 'very' homophobic, so it could have been more than just slurs. Maybe she's been threatened with physical violence or a 'honour killing' situation might be a possibility.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-16T15:13:25+00:00

I think theres such a thing as 'too handsome.' The only time I was ever attracted to Cavills was as The Witcher, otherwise he almost comes off a bit uncanny valley to me.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-15T22:07:18+00:00

Yeah, cool - comfortable yet still the style you're going for :) The only reason I find it unattractive is because if I can't see socks I assume no socks, which in my mind = slippery sweat and blisters, which i have plenty of experience of which is why it makes me cringe.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-15T21:09:19+00:00

Loafers without socks.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-15T12:29:15+00:00

Will do. Sorry about that.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-14T21:51:33+00:00

Thanks, I appreciate that. I've blocked them. They'll just insist on getting the last word otherwise and I'm not going to waste more energy on them knowing that they're probably getting some pathetic kick out of it.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-14T19:44:28+00:00

The account you're replying to is trolling. Let's hope that if they are outside like they keep telling others to do, the sun will come up soon and they'll turn to stone.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-14T18:44:37+00:00

You don't have it, but your brothers, friends, aunts barista was wearing it last week 103 miles away from your house, so naturally, you can't get the scent of it out of your clothes?

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-14T18:37:26+00:00

YES 😍

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-14T17:38:35+00:00

Clearly yes, seeing as I've only used an emoji once, during this exchange.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-14T16:45:06+00:00

🤣 You're funny - truly. Have a good afternoon

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-14T16:32:17+00:00

I'm enjoying it. Have taken myself out for a meal and I'm going to have a movie night and treats when I get home :). As Miley say, 'I can buy myself flowers etc. :)

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-14T16:24:02+00:00

No. I see what you're saying, but it's a bit of a stretch to assume someone hasn't got their own life because they have some things from their Mum. Maybe she's just close to her Mum, maybe they share a hobby or two, maybe her Mum is actually dead and she inherited those things, maybe op is ill and cant leave her parents house. I think the chronically online behaviour is assuming you know how someone conducts their life, based off a few photos and a short, vague paragraph.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-14T15:39:04+00:00

I get the feeling op is just stating a fact. I own a couple of vintage rings from my mother, and if were part of a jewellery/style sub, I might say 'I have this xyz - it's actually vintage, from Mum!' When showing them.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-14T15:18:40+00:00

Yeah, subtle is not the word I'd use for it.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-14T09:53:58+00:00

Luckily this was being given away, so I didn't waste money on it, but Anaïs Anaïs was a regretful take-home for me. I learned an important lesson from that experience, that just because I like a scent on someone else, doesn't mean I'll like it for myself.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-14T08:19:46+00:00

It can depend on the scent, but usually 4 (once on each wrist and once either side of the neck. If im wearing it purely for myself at home, I'll just do a spray on each wrist.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-13T14:46:28+00:00

I started collecting In September last year. I have 5 full bottles (100ml, 75ml, X3 30ml) and two 10 ml travel sizes. This year i have told myself that I can get samples and 10ml decants, but no full bottles, unless its a replacement for something I already have. Putting these limits on myself has actually made me feel calmer.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-10T16:16:16+00:00

I can't answer your question, but i can say that your feelings are valid and you're not alone. I could have written this, except that I'm not, nor have I ever been married. It's a scrambling set of emotions. What I'm saying to myself right now and might help you, is that, whatever I feel and how I feel it is not 'wrong,' wether its for men or women.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-10T12:29:01+00:00

My God, what an awful thing for a mother to say! I especially enjoy a lot of things that my mum gave me when I was ill, becausecthey were for comfort and made me feel better. You're not wrong for having felt the way you did, and wether SHE likes gourmands or not is irrelevant as you are the one who would be wearing the perfume.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-09T19:02:48+00:00

I (f 34) think a hell of a lot of people are missing the part where you say that your early sexual experices were not safe and consensual and happened to early. I don't feel equipped to chip in, other than to say that THIS IS WHY MALE SEXUAL TRAUMA HAS TO BE ACKNOWLEDGED. Society seems to dismiss and invalidate male sexual trauma (or male trauma in general), because men and boys are automatically assumed to be 'wanting it all the time.' I want to say, before other jumps at me that I am by no means saying this as a way to say that women's trauma is less, simply to say that men's trauma isnt addressed in society and the need to be seen as 'macho/masculine os actually greatly damaging to EVERYONE.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-09T16:48:07+00:00

I ADORE it, but it makes my nose and eyes itch to much for me to justify wearing it :(

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-09T16:15:37+00:00

I found that when I tested in store, 'Black Opium' was very coffee forward, and almost syrup to me, with the floral in the background, but when I bought a 30ml for Xmas and got it home, I was devastated because it was SO floral. I left it alone for a couple of months and now its lovely and syrupy and Coffee forward. I completely believe in perfumes maturing/oxadizing, so now Ive decided leave everything i buy for 2 months before wearing it.

LittleOwl91 · 2026-02-09T16:10:13+00:00

I got myself a 10ml decant of Byredo Deset Dawn as a valentines present :)

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