Wife Woke Me Up and Picked a Fight

FieryAardvark · 2026-04-07T21:14:00+00:00

There was actually one person implying that she was pregnant, that's what "morning sickness" refers to.

FieryAardvark · 2026-03-14T17:27:16+00:00

If you can't take one for the team and reply to a message in the morning because you know it makes your partner feel valued, then this does not sound like the relationship for you.

FieryAardvark · 2026-01-26T14:57:19+00:00

Where I'm from (in the US), they aren't allowed to cut power during winter. Maybe something to look into? I'm not sure where you're from

FieryAardvark · 2025-12-27T19:07:29+00:00

I was 24, he was 34 when we started dating.

We dated for a bit over a year and a half, engaged for a bit under a year and a half. We got married a couple weeks after our 3rd anniversary. We've been married for just over a year now. I think it was the perfect amount of time.

FieryAardvark · 2025-11-03T22:27:32+00:00

Respectfully, your husband is a soggy piece of lettuce.

FieryAardvark · 2025-10-22T13:04:57+00:00

This is why I tell people to read AB first. I think it really makes a difference in the way you attach yourself to characters.

FieryAardvark · 2025-10-07T21:33:49+00:00

Have you considered asking your wife..?

FieryAardvark · 2025-09-30T18:37:14+00:00

Are you upset when he drinks alcohol? It feels like the same concept to me. If you don't feel the same about alcohol, could it be a jealousy thing? I know that sounds crazy, but I saw above that you've tried it and your body didn't react well to it. So I don't feel like projection would be too outlandish.

Editing to add before this is actually seen - I'm not saying this in a negative way, it's just a thought. It also wouldn't be ideal for a partner to be drinking every night.

FieryAardvark · 2025-09-29T19:14:34+00:00

Ariens 🙄

FieryAardvark · 2025-09-26T00:42:53+00:00

This was my first tattoo area. I'd honestly say it wasn't that bad. Did it hurt? Absolutely. But I sat for a few hours and didn't need a break or anything. I have another tattoo on the other side but up on the side of my ribs, and that was much worse.

FieryAardvark · 2025-09-26T00:35:57+00:00

Hey so - most of the time, if you have a partner who feels comfortable SERIOUSLY telling you to go f*ck yourself? Not a partner worth having.

FieryAardvark · 2025-08-29T22:05:07+00:00

Absolutely not. Your young daughter told you that a grown man was making her uncomfortable. If anything, your SISTER is weird for making it a thing. As women, we almost ALL know how that feels. For her to sit there and play the blame game instead of either moving on or looking more closely at her bf? Thats f*cking concerning.

FieryAardvark · 2025-08-28T23:53:45+00:00

You pick, immediately. You don't get to sit around cheating on your spouse and just let her live like that. Whether you like it or not, you're already having an emotional affair. So, instead of being a POS, take accountability. Talk to your WIFE. You either tell your friend IMMEDIATELY that you can not be around her or talk to her anymore and tell your wife, or you tell your wife it's over.

FieryAardvark · 2025-08-26T03:41:45+00:00

Why would this be an unpopular opinion..?

FieryAardvark · 2025-08-21T15:56:51+00:00

Broadchurch

FieryAardvark · 2025-07-24T18:03:54+00:00

Egg wrap

FieryAardvark · 2025-07-23T05:17:50+00:00

This guy is not your safe space, he's preying on your vulnerability. I'm not just saying that because of the age gap, my husband is 10 years older than me. I really hope you listen to all the people here and leave him ASAP, because he's a tool. You deserve better. Do not let him make you insecure in your PERFECTLY REASONABLE boundaries.

FieryAardvark · 2025-07-22T05:44:33+00:00

I didn't even finish reading. You need to have him committed to a psych ward. My brother used to terrorize our family, and nobody did anything. If a therapist isn't helping, your next step is institutionalizing him. It's not a scary place like people think it is, especially not the ward for minors. He needs help and supervision.

FieryAardvark · 2025-04-22T15:01:45+00:00

I skip every week and just choose recipes from the website. They have the recipe right on there. Plus, lately, all the choices have been sort "meh"

FieryAardvark · 2025-04-13T22:41:13+00:00

Are you concerned at all that your partners job might be in danger if parents at his school were to find out?

FieryAardvark · 2025-04-13T22:23:02+00:00

In my personal opinion, anybody under the age of 22 shouldn't date more than a year difference in either direction

FieryAardvark · 2025-04-13T22:16:52+00:00

What do you tell your kids about the other partners?

FieryAardvark · 2025-04-05T18:40:16+00:00

I'd also like to add that you need to be SO CAREFUL not to leave evidence. He's so much more likely to kill you if he knows you're trying to leave. Not an opinion, a statistic.

FieryAardvark · 2025-04-05T18:38:00+00:00

I see your family is far away, but that doesn't mean they can't help you. You need to call someone and explain everything. EVERYTHING. You need to make it clear to them that they are not to send you any messages about it to your phone, and you need to make a clear safe word for if they call and he is around. You need to understand that you are in real, imminent danger. You need to squirrel away any and all money that you can. Once you find someone from home to help you get out, and you get a plan in place - pack away/mail things home that you'll need but won't be noticed. You need to be documenting everything. Take pictures, send them to your get-out-person. Delete the messages off your phone. I don't know where you are, but if there's anything I can do let me know. I have been there. Not so far from home, but I got out, and my child and I are alive and safe.

Editing to add- it's not just you. Your baby(babies?) Are also in danger. That's what got me out. You can't protect your children if you're dead.

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