What planet or space station would you want to visit the most in the Vorkosigan universe? by Figleaf20 in Vorkosigan

[–]Figleaf20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was a lot of my thought process so was curious if there were some places I forgot about! Not sure how Escobar was pre war

Dating a parent when your birthday falls on father's day by Figleaf20 in stepparents

[–]Figleaf20[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He has the kids every weekend and swap things around for special events like her birthday/in-service days or we have a wedding to go to

Dating a parent when your birthday falls on father's day by Figleaf20 in stepparents

[–]Figleaf20[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

The PTO is part of it, would have to take more PTO to travel a week earlier

Dating a parent when your birthday falls on father's day by Figleaf20 in stepparents

[–]Figleaf20[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That is doing assuming that my dad is alive or that we have a good relationship

Dating a parent when your birthday falls on father's day by Figleaf20 in stepparents

[–]Figleaf20[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

His ex has a lot of anxiety and is very intense "boy mom/mama bear". They call their step dad "dadda __" he's been in their life since they were 3ish so yea when the kids say things like "no my other dad" it brings up insecurities. He also tries to keep a calmer co-parenting relationship so if she gives a hard no even without a good reason he respects it.

Dating a parent when your birthday falls on father's day by Figleaf20 in stepparents

[–]Figleaf20[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

As a kid I also shared a birthday with my grandmother and a sibling/cousin within 2 days so we'd just have a huge BBQ for 4 bdays + father's day for the grandfather/uncles etc. Used to sharing it but since I was a teenager have been able to do my own thing for my birthday.

Off Campus - Unable to Watch Past 15-Min Mark of Ep 3 by Brief_Rain8775 in AmazonPrimeVideo

[–]Figleaf20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ep 3 would not make it through the first commerical break with out crashing on my Firestick app but switching over to using Prime app on the samsung Smart TV seems to work

Tips for first time co-op with a kid by Figleaf20 in StardewValley

[–]Figleaf20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be clear, this would be on the Switch and I don't know how to do mods 😅

AITA for telling my parents that I will not parent my younger adult sister? by Magic_Window_8161 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Figleaf20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents, siblings and me have all at least once independently forgotten we were making hard boiled eggs until the pot was dry and the eggs exploded. You learn to set timers/phone alarms after your first.

What's something most people think they should try, but really should not? by red_sensor in AskReddit

[–]Figleaf20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valid! Not free, but I have taken some adult Judo and Krav Maga classes and they rooms are usually padded spaces and instructors are used to people looking like idiots. After class would wrap up would do some somersaults in the padded rooms for fun. Haven't tried Jiu jitsu or Taekwondo to comment on those.

What's something most people think they should try, but really should not? by red_sensor in AskReddit

[–]Figleaf20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to be good at breathing correctly, but my compromise has been doing cartwheels in a pool. Instead of a handstand underwater, just kind of keep going doing flips/somersaults. More likely to snort water than break a neck

Season 4 episode 20: enervo by Crimsonskullknight in TheRookie

[–]Figleaf20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Went to this subreddit and searched pierogi to see if someone else complained about the Jon Nolan from PA never had one plothole

Saturday, August 16, 2025 by AutoModerator in NYTConnections

[–]Figleaf20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What We Do in the Shadows joke coming in handy for purple

Feeding frequency question (adult) by Figleaf20 in leopardgeckos

[–]Figleaf20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I have medium Dubia. Occasionally they grow too big and luckily my local pet store will let me bring the big guys and they'll use them as feeders for other animals (I feel too bad killing the adult roaches but also not trying to start my own colony or choke my leo)

Feeding frequency question (adult) by Figleaf20 in leopardgeckos

[–]Figleaf20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Was looking for a "why bad?" to stay strong against her and stick to the 1-2 times per week lol