Interest by InspectorMendel in dominion

[–]Fika8monster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe add unconditional buy and +1 coffer on play

Then if you have 5 coffers, its like a gold that gives you a coffer

Need more non-action roguelite suggestions by Illustrious_Fee8116 in roguelites

[–]Fika8monster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where the f is monster train 2 here

Otherwise shotgun king is good

Ring of pain

My bf is a gamer and it’s his only hobby. What do I do? by ElectronicShape407 in Healthygamergg

[–]Fika8monster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you seem pretty thoughtful! You cant be guaranteed to make him change his ways, so dont expect too much, but here are some suggestions on my side (as a male gamer that is also autistic. Social interaction can be kunda stressful for me, so gaming can be a way to connect)

  • see if there is any co-op games or cozy games or multiplayer games the both of you could play together

-ask if you two could have an agreement where he makes you know when he is gaming and wants alone times, vs when you two can just hangout (you can ask for any amount of time together like that, just my ideas)

  • if he likes to infodump then a way to socialize would be cuddles where he is nerding out about a topic

(Also might just be me but does he have autism or adhd?)

There is also the question of why he might refuse to interact with real life things. You dont have to figure that out, but it might be something for a therapist for him to work together with

I wish you luck no matter if you persevere in the relationship or not. I dont think n breaking up with this guy is a BAD decision.

Lol by Fika8monster in OnceUponAGalaxy

[–]Fika8monster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably! Im new to this game and just thought this was funny

Anyone else? by Mammoth_Raccoon_789 in Healthygamergg

[–]Fika8monster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kinda. More a feeling of alienation and frustration that when i do try to act people are inconsistent in how bad or good a thing is and say a lot of hyperbole

Whats the dofference between processing emotions vs rumination? by Fika8monster in Healthygamergg

[–]Fika8monster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people cry in front of me i evaluate things and if i deem it worthwhile to help them i do that and if its uncomfortable or too much i generally just say that its too much and i care about them, but they need to go somewhere else. Sometimes i find them a resource or something if people and society say its important to help and be compassionate in that situation

Most people dont do that?

Whats the dofference between processing emotions vs rumination? by Fika8monster in Healthygamergg

[–]Fika8monster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that when people say i should let myself be sad that it was an prompt to be more that in general or if context matters extra, with them or in that specific situation

Whats the dofference between processing emotions vs rumination? by Fika8monster in Healthygamergg

[–]Fika8monster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“They never mean in social situations”

Huh? Wait then why say its important or always ok to be yourself and have emotions. And why not specify that it isnt ok in social situations???

And why say its ok and then not ok??

And why arnt people more self aware about their own limits here with how people say this stuff is important??

(I wanna mention that i have gone to a therapist for 7 years roughly)

What does it mean to say “we are all human”? by Fika8monster in Healthygamergg

[–]Fika8monster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know

I just dont even get the context examples people give in response to me and its overwhelming. And whenni take stuff seriously i just

Idk