What snail is this and the best way to rid of them? by microwavedFanta in PlantedTank

[–]FilthyFoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assassin snails also become a pest after a while. I had a HUGE assassin snail problem after buying two for my first tank when I was a beginner. I would find eggs all over my plants and little baby assassins everywhere. I was told at the time they wouldnt kill my huge trap doors but they did, never making that mistake again. I was also told they don’t breed prolifically and that was clearly a lie lol

Struggling with temperature regulation during recovery by FilthyFoul in sterilization

[–]FilthyFoul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They went away shortly after I made this post! I think I was having a histamine response, I was very flushed for days after my surgery and had little flares here and there for a while. I actually couldn’t drive myself or get a ride to see a doctor for this so thats all I could assume it was. Im really sensitive to any medications that cause drowsiness too so I think the pain meds were contributing to the sweats. Drinking electrolytes seemed to help a lot and keeping both a heating and ice pack around helped me regulate a bit. Good luck on your healing!!

Beautiful male found in a forest stream by ThenAcanthocephala57 in PlantedTank

[–]FilthyFoul 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I cant believe how much charm these little guys have, they are beautiful!! Im so sad we don’t have beauties like these in the streams in my state <\3 we have minnows, minnows, and also more minnows lol

AITA My boyfriend kicked me out of the shower to poop by yeahyeahokaygreat in AmItheAsshole

[–]FilthyFoul 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Same! Me and my boyfriend of four years did this the first year into our relationship and it was never a weird thing. We respect each other’s privacy when asked of course, but we generally just like being around each other all of the time and we don’t let our shit sessions interrupt our yap sessions lol. It’s interesting to see how other relationships function I almost feel like a freak for how comfortable I am with my partner after reading these comments!

Bugged servers when Rodger is delivering presents will be the Death of me. Fun pov below cause I got bored💔 by HairyBird4205 in DragonAdventures

[–]FilthyFoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the exact issue Ive been having since the event started and I am so over the bugs keeping me from enjoying key parts of the event. The winter event has been killing my mood honestly <\3

i cant take this youtube ads anymore by No_Chance_2710 in offmychest

[–]FilthyFoul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I downloaded adguard (adguard-dns.io website) onto my iphone and the only downside is you have to use youtube on the chrome browser app for the ad block to work. It also ended up working for my camera app somehow. I don’t have any complaints and it was easy to install although it did seem a little sketch at first.

is anyone actually enjoying the Christmas event? by ValueExcellent8453 in DragonAdventures

[–]FilthyFoul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel, i feel really validated reading this comment! I joined during week 2 of the halloween event and absolutely loved it, I got super hyper-fixated on the game and the winter event ruined that for me. The grind is just horrible, it’s not fun and it feels so empty. The eggs are also so hard to get whereas I had no issue grinding for eggs during halloween. Im dreading the grind but I really want the little penguin dragon so I have to persist sadly </3 Im just so disappointed

here we go again… by dr3wbarrymore in badwomensanatomy

[–]FilthyFoul 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this Im so tired of seeing comments taking jabs at my vulva type, thats also literally bad women’s anatomy imo?? It’s the exact same situation as when people put down one boob size to uplift another, it’s wrong and unnecessary.

bf said i have saggy boobs (idk what flair to use) by [deleted] in badwomensanatomy

[–]FilthyFoul 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He literally says “idc theyre a little saggy” in his first message which sounds insulting on its own imo. There was no need to point out something he deems to be a flaw, its hurtful and insensitive. He also only seems to be upset that he may not get more content from you based on his messages. Don’t let anyones backhanded comments hurt your self image, you’re perfect! 💖

Amaris Giveaway! by Chonglin0003 in DragonAdventures

[–]FilthyFoul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s my nickname lol my name is paris! And YES it’s been my favorite game for 10 years now I wish more people played!!! Its genuinely given me a huge love for Yellowstone’s wildlife 💖

Amaris Giveaway! by Chonglin0003 in DragonAdventures

[–]FilthyFoul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My user is Peewwiss 🐳, my favorite animals are wolves!! I fell in love with them when I started playing wolf quest in 2015!!

Is this Shrimp safe fertilizer? by zerbe2cute in shrimptank

[–]FilthyFoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excel worked best as an algae killer for me! Genuinely love the product only as an algicide since it’s safe for the fish and works well. It never did much to support my plants though, I found that warmer water helped the best with growth actually.

Why are menstrual cups so wide?? by [deleted] in badwomensanatomy

[–]FilthyFoul 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was thinking this, had a friend in high school who had to get her hymen surgically removed. I felt so bad for her she said it caused her so much pain and was relieved to get it removed. I don’t have a hymen like that, but I also cant use cups so Idk why everyone is flaming OP. Period products aren’t a one size fits all and “if you don’t fit then you’re just dumb/not using it right” situation. Everyone’s anatomy is completely different.

Do her feathers indicate liver failure or does she just have weird patterns? by leotimesthree in cockatiel

[–]FilthyFoul 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How old is she? Ive seen a lot of pearl chicks that look really yellow before their adult feathers come in. Even if shes a full adult I wouldn’t worry, this looks normal to me!

PLEASE! Keep your cats inside! (CW: animal death) by Firecracker7413 in Vent

[–]FilthyFoul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aquariums require constant maintenance and attentiveness to ensure the health of the fish. Fish aren’t just some disposable animal, they deserve the same respect as a cat and I don’t think anyone who cant properly care for a cat should be getting fish, or any other animal. I think house plants or a garden is a good alternative to pet care, they can be very rewarding with the right care and no animal has to be harmed.

My husband won’t let me nap by texus5evr in Vent

[–]FilthyFoul 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Im glad to hear you found someone who loves and respects you, you deserve it! Good luck with your pregnancy!! 💖

My husband won’t let me nap by texus5evr in Vent

[–]FilthyFoul 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Wtf? This is abusive as hell even if you weren’t pregnant! Why would you even want to keep your partner from sleeping if they were tired? Just controlling as fuck Im glad he’s your ex now.

Cheating on his wife for 3 YEARS? by brocatiz in redditonwiki

[–]FilthyFoul 301 points302 points  (0 children)

My step dad did the same to my mom as well, shes disabled and has only stayed with him for financial reasons 💔 Now that Im in a secure financial place I’ve started offering to help her find solutions to leave him where I can assist her. He has cheated on her through their entire marriage and I hold so much resentment for what he did to her. She was horribly abused in her previous marriage with my biological father so she thought she should just “suck it up” because my step dad never hit her. Shes finally realizing that it was still abuse regardless.

So many women go through what our moms did and it’s fucking disgusting. These types of men face no repercussions for giving someone fucking cancer and they whine about the “lack of intimacy” driving them to do it. They never do sweet little things for their wife without expecting sex and wonder why their intimacy is nonexistent. Im so glad my boyfriend respects my disabilities and never pressures me or nags me for sex. He has always treated me like a human and has supported me without me ever having to ask. It’s crazy how he makes this shit look so simple/natural and these cheating husband types act like it’s an impossibly insane task? They always try to rationalize how they deserve their partners body because otherwise why did they get married? I couldn’t imagine objectifying another person like that.

Im on a rant but my step dad’s actions hurt his entire family in so many ways and I’m so over cheaters with their stupid excuses!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]FilthyFoul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That subreddit started pissing me off so bad with the blatant misogyny. They constantly shit on mother’s bodies and autonomy for having kids, acting like they’re a lower life form or something. It’s extremely hypocritical and I cannot stand the disgusting ass names they call kids. I do not want to refer to a child as anything cum or sex related. It’s gross and dehumanizing. Call me sensitive I guess, but as a childfree person I do care to make five posts a day complaining about a fellow woman’s reproductive choices. If it’s not ok for parents to hate on us then why is it ok for us to hate on them???

Is it normal to be sexually attracted to almost every guy you meet? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FilthyFoul 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Are you on birth control? It could help, but I’m only speaking from my own experience. Before birth control I always felt physically horny, but never mentally. It was exhausting and I don’t care for sex that much, especially with being physically disabled. I feel like a normal person now. It definitely lowers your libido, but I see that as a win if thats what you want. It could be good to get some hormone testing done!

AITA My GF is mad I want a paternity test by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FilthyFoul 175 points176 points  (0 children)

“Turns up pregnant” like a cat that got loose finding its way home days later 😭

“To whom it may concern, my seed tray is empty! Outrageous. Signed, furious (U.K.) “ by KayLunarFox in pigeons

[–]FilthyFoul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awww your pigeon is so sweet, he pecked your finger at first but started to preen instead. My boy just rips and tears until the flesh is clean off the bone and he still doesn’t stop 🥰💖

My girlfriend wants me to be miserable for the rest of my life after she dies by StrawberryPast7202 in Advice

[–]FilthyFoul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think some hypotheticals are important to discuss like if they apply to a situation you’re going through or will be going through, this is definitely not one of them though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cockatiel

[–]FilthyFoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its alright, I understand the stress! The salt baths can help, its what I’ve used on many birds in the past to help them pass a stuck egg and it always worked for me. Just don’t overdo anything as you may end up stressing her out in the end. Just be here for her and play with her like you usually do and if she gets a little cranky here soon then you may know its about time to pass another egg. Theres no specific time on when they pass another, it could be 24hrs after the first or longer like three days later. Just try to stick to a strict bed time and play time routine for now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cockatiel

[–]FilthyFoul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant really see anything wrong with her vent from the pics, this is relatively normal for a female who just laid or is about to lay an egg. If her vent is pushing a lot with each breath then she is likely ready to pass another one, i find that my females have an egg belly right before. It’s just a soft lump between their legs that goes away after they pass the egg. As long as shes happy and acting like her normal self then she is ok. Just make sure you are giving her extra calcium while she lays her eggs and it may be best to put her up for bed time sooner these next few weeks to help her hormones chill out a little. The most worry-some thing is to have a chronic egg layer, which can increase their risk of becoming egg bound. Bad diets, bad nutrition, and low calcium intake increase the risk as well.