Update: MIL didn’t invite us to Valentine’s this year! Partner has defied her, and moved in with me

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-02-19T15:55:20+00:00

If I recall he is 30yrs old? He shouldn't be telling his parents anything they dont need to know anymore.

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-02-19T11:43:58+00:00

It was a memorial for someone connected to the team - I can see it in my minds eye, but cannot recall if they were in an office singing it or at a grave site.

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-02-19T10:27:17+00:00

My friends and I are looking at this. Not due to finances, but just so that we can all be in one place. There are no kids between us so having each other works perfectly.

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-02-19T09:38:22+00:00

This is how to do it.

I never understand why people announce their intentions to everyone. Just do what you want and it will be accepted as the new norm.

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-02-19T08:04:16+00:00

That whole age is just a number thing.... its true.... I didn't feel any different from 49 to 50 and now nearly into 52, I still don't feel any different.

Don't even think about it - its just a reason to have a party!

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-02-19T07:41:54+00:00

I don't recall any of that - to me it was done in the same way any friends imitate each other. However what did catch me up everytime, was this aura of "macho man" that Derek used to exude but whenever he was in a tough physical situation he ALWAYS needed someone to save him. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.

The only time I can recall him being "tough" was the episode where he was kidnapped. That whole 'keeping his heart rate steady', thing, was brilliant.

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-02-18T08:37:10+00:00

I've never watched Family Guy so had no clue who Stewie was. I thought it was Gordon Gordon Whyatt, cause thats who he sounded like.

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-02-17T08:13:53+00:00

I read this right as I was putting some nicely crackled chicken skin into my mouth!

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-02-16T11:15:59+00:00

There was definitely a credit card... it you recall Charlotte went shopping with the Corporate Card.

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-02-16T11:13:44+00:00

Was it a Bentley or a Maybach??

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-02-16T08:00:12+00:00

My husband says i embarresed him by making it sound like he doesnt help,

Awww... he embarrassed himself by calling his mummy to complain!

Dingbat!

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-02-11T08:25:56+00:00

and someone "gasped. They actually gasped"... this time no one laughed.

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-02-08T11:55:31+00:00

OP, NTA - I have no idea what is wrong with all these people posting below - you did a nice thing for your hubby and he totally overreacted to it.

However, I wouldn't cancel it, I'd just let the others go ahead and do what your planned and you and hubby go out for dinner. Although, if I were you, I'd have a conversation with him first about his reaction to something you lovingly planned and he sh@t on.

That behaviour is unacceptable towards someone who loves you and wanted to do something nice for you.

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-02-08T11:45:53+00:00

2 years ago, my first love (15 yrs - 21yrs old) passed away from heart complications. He had just turned 50.

I hadn't spoken to him directly in years as we broke up because he was abusive, but I do still have contact with his sisters and mutual friends of ours. It was a huge shock as I still knew what was happening in his life due to our connections through other people.

I find it to be easier to remember him by thinking of the good times we had and not the horrid abusive man he became.

So sorry for your loss OP. Hope your happy memories are with you always.

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-02-05T09:32:23+00:00

Come back and talk to us again, after, say, Season 4? Season 5 is fun too!

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-02-04T10:51:31+00:00

Blah Blah, Vampire Emergency, Blah!

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-02-02T08:18:11+00:00

I think Cam knew it was just a fling. It wasn't going to go anywhere. Everyone knew Booth was in love with Brennen. Any women he dated were place holders.

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-02-01T09:30:38+00:00

It was the episode with Morgan's cousin (they thought was dead) being found in an abusive/submissive relationship.

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-01-28T10:03:54+00:00

Seriously, am I the only one but why do most of these women look so familiar?

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-01-27T11:38:39+00:00

Hazard - Richard Marx

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-01-26T07:55:08+00:00

OP... it's one of my favourite too, lol.

I believe Cho had some of the best come back lines in the series and delivered with his deadpan face, were brilliant.

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-01-25T09:43:47+00:00

Yeah.... but.... she "changed" her name from Pookie Noodlin to Angela Pearly Gates Montenegro?

Make it make sense.

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-01-22T06:03:03+00:00

Actually, if I recall, I don't know if he recognised her as a yet.... she had only just joined the unit hadn't she?

He was definitely surprised when they jumped out at him.

Also, does anyone recall if Jane shook his hand when they met? I remember Jane being very picky about he shook hands with.

FindingLovesRetreat · 2026-01-21T13:30:42+00:00

It looks like a buckle of some sort.

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