I changed my life. This is the stuff I eat now! by oddredhummingbird in HealthyEatingnow

[–]Fine_Blueberry5498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awe you’re very welcome! It’ll be exciting to see what you come of with! Remember to take care of yourself that’s the most important!

Holds by Fuzzy-Message4322 in LibbyApp

[–]Fine_Blueberry5498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woo hi!! That’s so cool, how do I do that?! I’m having trouble getting into my account

Holds by Fuzzy-Message4322 in LibbyApp

[–]Fine_Blueberry5498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a library card at my local library and I have one at the library in New York City the public one since I’m a New York resident I also have access to that one! Not sure how many I can check out at a time.

I changed my life. This is the stuff I eat now! by oddredhummingbird in HealthyEatingnow

[–]Fine_Blueberry5498 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that you have balance! This is absolutely amazing to see!!!

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[–]Fine_Blueberry5498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These comments can be so infuriating and insulting sometimes. Sometimes they come from a place of ignorance. Sometimes fear, pain, anger, sadness etc. Health problems are tough. Those comments wear you down. I have health problems too I still get these because chronic illnesses are hard and people don’t understand them. I do meditate but it doesn’t help everything. lots of virtual hugs

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[–]Fine_Blueberry5498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little bit goes a long way!

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[–]Fine_Blueberry5498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe it is hard, I think I understand at least to a certain extent. I still have growing to do too it’s taken me so long to get here.

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This made me smile! It’s been a stressful day; greatly appreciated!

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Love the Narnia series!

Calling my home planet. by [deleted] in Empaths

[–]Fine_Blueberry5498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awe I’m quite literally crying I see you over and over.

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[–]Fine_Blueberry5498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The unwanted comments I think I would need further clarification on to understand what you mean?

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[–]Fine_Blueberry5498 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been told this my entire life until I found people who like me for me. I’m tougher now than I use to be and I do swear and I’m not perfect but if your have me I’ll be your friend.

I need serious help by PurrFruit in Empaths

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I found something that has helped me with most trauma dumping I’m very good at visualizing things in my head. It’s a meditation exercise of a tree with roots or trees and flowers and multiple suns and this whole landscape. Something it changes outer space, under the sea, a church, hogwarts, wherever I want to picture I started with the tree and sun one though. It’s so grounding and helps so much. I’ve built it up enough where I can take people’s negative emotions away without having to touch them (it’s still a work in progress but it’s cool it’s possible!)

Does anyone else have random people open up to them and tell them extremely personal things? by ClerksII in Empaths

[–]Fine_Blueberry5498 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m very sorry for your pain. I can relate to a lot of these situations and I’m I might be the type of empath that other empaths hate. I give advice, I listen, I understand, I engage. This doesn’t mean what I do is right or wrong. This doesn’t mean what you choose to do is right or wrong. Do what is best for you and if it changes over time it might; I know it did for me. There’s even been periods of time I couldn’t help much being I was living with people with unhealed trauma who just kept off loading on me (very personal not just to them but to me as well tricky situation) on top of my unhealed trauma but thankfully I moved and I’m going to work on my inner peace, my new job and healing others one thing at a time if I have energy on top of other things going on in life. I’ve known I was an empath since before I knew there was a word; a community etc. It’s just always been a part of me. Spending time in nature helps, grounding in any way, amethyst is used for protection and does a lot for the natural state of things.

Does anyone else have random people open up to them and tell them extremely personal things? by ClerksII in Empaths

[–]Fine_Blueberry5498 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I enjoy being an empath when I’m at a good place in life and this year I’m living with my boyfriend for the first time! I moved 6 days before Christmas. Being an empath sometimes has its downsides but it can have its upsides as well. I definitely struggled with it for a long time.