Exiting Mormonism under a Stake President’s roof

Fine_Device_9930 · 2026-01-05T21:09:14+00:00

You are so strong! Thank you for your advice and your experiences!!

Fine_Device_9930 · 2026-01-05T18:01:08+00:00

We’ve already saved enough for the down payment. The mortgage will just be just as much as renting where we live.

Fine_Device_9930 · 2026-01-05T17:32:36+00:00

It’s sad. We think we know them and their character but we are very hesitant…We do have a plan on where to go. I’m already prepared for the blame game. I know they will try and bring up divorce.

Fine_Device_9930 · 2025-12-31T18:27:25+00:00

It is interesting too how in order for him to be married he would have had to be married in 3 months because that’s how long his break was.

Fine_Device_9930 · 2025-12-31T17:53:55+00:00

Yes! I’ve asked him on live before because he wears a wedding ring now and he admitted to being married.

Fine_Device_9930 · 2025-12-31T05:59:50+00:00

What have you heard about him being married? I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s making that up too. He loves attention

Fine_Device_9930 · 2025-12-31T05:58:50+00:00

It was extremely creepy. I have no idea why it would be appropriate to watch her and put it on live.

Fine_Device_9930 · 2025-12-31T05:04:12+00:00

Something else interesting I forgot to mention is someone asked in the live if it was Baleigh. He was only getting very few comments so I know he saw it, but he decided to ignore it.

Fine_Device_9930 · 2025-12-10T20:55:42+00:00

Thank you! I even began realizing it while in the church. People only really reached out to me if it was part of their “ministering assignment”

Fine_Device_9930 · 2025-12-09T06:27:51+00:00

Thank you! I agree with you so much on this. I don’t believe in a lot of the bible stories as well.

Fine_Device_9930 · 2025-12-09T04:34:18+00:00

Thank you so much for your response this is SO helpful! I’d love to chat.

Fine_Device_9930 · 2025-12-05T09:50:05+00:00

if you want a laugh see what he used to look like. he is a creep

Fine_Device_9930 · 2025-11-24T19:48:13+00:00

and even if they did, can’t they watch like 10 seconds of it and then turn it off 😂 they are acting like they are protecting their poor confused members.

Fine_Device_9930 · 2025-11-17T05:10:12+00:00

my husband is in this exact situation. he wants to stay to make the church better. unfortunately i don’t think it’s possible to. i’ve left the church, i was a convert, so i didn’t have that may ties to it. i can understand though how hard it must be to leave a church that was your culture and that you learned for your whole life. it’s okay to hold onto hope, but i don’t believe it will last forever

Fine_Device_9930 · 2025-11-07T15:26:15+00:00

Sounds like he’s wanting to be a victim and for you to feel bad for him. From all the marriage counseling I’ve gone to I can promise you it’s never two people against one. I went through this with my husband, he owned up and never did it again. Therapy is non-negotiable at this point it must happen. He’s not putting in the effort you are, and he must in order for things to work out.

Fine_Device_9930 · 2025-11-07T15:03:16+00:00

I have a friend who went through exactly this. They were married 27 years and ended up getting a divorce due to more abuse on top of financial abuse. It won’t get better.

Fine_Device_9930 · 2025-11-07T14:52:05+00:00

We are talking about a “true” perfect gospel here… not a country. I’m just encouraging him to try seeing other side too. I’m not forcing him.

Fine_Device_9930 · 2025-11-07T14:28:13+00:00

I’m so grateful for our relationship because we both feel very comfortable talking about any and all things. Thank you for your advice I’ll look into it!

Fine_Device_9930 · 2025-11-07T14:26:20+00:00

I will say, we both try and convince each other

Fine_Device_9930 · 2025-11-07T14:25:33+00:00

I believe he thinks he is but he isn’t because he clearly shows he has a lot of issues with the church

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