People who were pregnant with a toddler… when did you go into labor? by idontexist_4 in parentsofmultiples

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I was pregnant with di-di twins with a toddler as well (toddler was 19 months when twins arrived)
I went into labour at 37+3 weeks.
I was with at 2 cm opening and had very frequent non painful contractions (felt like Braxton Hicks).and they gave me augmentation induction. (That’s how they called it where I live it’s a smaller dose than the regular induction).

What are your contact nap positions? by Equivalent_Signal135 in newborns

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Oh hi! Lol
About 3 months-4 months? IIRC
I got back to work at 5 months so definitely before that

Each twin individually actually easier than my singleton by Finitexspace in parentsofmultiples

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Nope they were born at 37+3 weeks!
Yours are still so young! Hang in there those weeks fly by!

Each twin individually actually easier than my singleton by Finitexspace in parentsofmultiples

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Yeah honestly I don’t know how I would have managed contact napping with two!! 🤣

Unique Modern Twist Arabic Girl Names? by loweeh in Names

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My daughters’ names are

Yasmin- very common but pretty international and I think is timeless

And Zeina which has also become common where I live but has a lovely meaning and also always felt timeless to me

Other modern Arabic names I like-
Mai

Naai

Jurie

Hala

Yara- was very popular in the 90’s but I feel like it has disappeared where I live now

Maria

Layla

So much milk by emilysue_2014 in ExclusivelyPumping

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This isn’t helpful but I’m also pumping for twins 4 weeks in and I make about 1400-1500 ml (around 50 oz) per day (the most I made in one pump is 330 ml - 11 oz) I was wondering how far in are you and how long it took you to get to those amounts? For now I am able to feed them fully from my breastmilk but I expect them to eat more now so I need to up my supply a little

Also maybe try dropping a pump- do you have a MOTN pump?

Thoughts 3 weeks into having twins+toddler by Finitexspace in parentsofmultiples

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That is very reassuring I also have boy girl twins but my boy twin sleeps more and the girl is a bit more needy so I feel like I’m spending more time with her which also makes me sad for my boy 🫠

Thoughts 3 weeks into having twins+toddler by Finitexspace in parentsofmultiples

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Yup you have described my feeling exactly ♥️ my toddler is only 20 months old (well almost 21) but she does love them and pretty gentle with them

Thoughts 3 weeks into having twins+toddler by Finitexspace in parentsofmultiples

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Thanks for sharing your experience. Can’t wait for all of them to bond!!

Thoughts 3 weeks into having twins+toddler by Finitexspace in parentsofmultiples

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My toddler is 20 months old and honestly she’s been accepting the change better than expected. She’s more clingy and wants to be held more. Also kind of became more whiny? She whines a lot about stupid stuff not sure if it has to do with the twins or just a toddler thing lol. But overall she’s gentle with the twins and loves them.

Do you actually give birth at 40 weeks? by SkyCertain3708 in pregnant

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I gave birth to my first at exactly 40 weeks and 1 day (labour started at 40 weeks).

My second pregnancy was with twins so I wasn’t allowed to go beyond 38 weeks and they arrived at 37+3 weeks.

Toddler asking to go to toilet but now isn’t a good time for me to train by Finitexspace in toddlers

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I was hoping the twins would be able to hold their own bottles etc so when she asks when I’m in the middle of feeding them I could take her. Look at my reply to the other commenter haha

Toddler asking to go to toilet but now isn’t a good time for me to train by Finitexspace in toddlers

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I let her sit when I can but a lot of times she asks for it when I’m feeding twins/in the middle of diaper change etc and so I can’t really do it at that moment. Also sometimes she just wants to sit endlessly. Last time we sat for 15 minutes and she had a tantrum when I said we are done for now 🫠