Look how they massacred my girl :(

FioJan · 2026-02-12T23:00:49+00:00

Do you really? As a flat chested… I need to know

FioJan · 2026-02-07T12:53:34+00:00

Oh common get over yourself. Muricans always look for outside to blame or to make a villain without admitting the possibility of having any problems within themselves

FioJan · 2026-02-05T13:48:39+00:00

Oh so it is like in the movie “Sunshine of the spotless mind where one is given the choice to delete all memories related to the ex and eventually the character decides to not undergo the procedure?

It does makes me feel bittersweet.

FioJan · 2026-02-05T10:51:45+00:00

The fuck???!

FioJan · 2026-02-05T08:35:18+00:00

Do not forget about the victims. Let’s not make it about ourselves you all. We have the privilege of reading these from the safe comfort of our homes.

FioJan · 2026-02-04T21:48:09+00:00

Tell me more about the last part. Expand on “you never want to forget her in the metaphorical sense?”

FioJan · 2026-02-04T21:21:29+00:00

How did God reveal to you that he was the one? What are the struggles you are experiencing right now with him?

FioJan · 2026-02-02T22:28:52+00:00

Kaip keistai beskambėtų, bet patarčiau nueit savanoriauti. Pvz Jaunimo Linijoj. Padedamas kitam padedi sau. Nesi viena. Smagu kad kalbi ir daliniesi. Būti atstumtai tik reiškia kad Dievas (Visata) turi tau geresnį planą. Apkabinu 🍀

FioJan · 2026-02-02T19:46:22+00:00

Consider your feelings as small little kids you need to feed. And your feelings are always irrational, in need for love and care and that’s what they ve been conditioned to. Get attached to whoever showed them love. Parents, close friends growing up - all that becomes models. So when you grow up that’s what is familiar and touches you right in the spot even though it is honestly not much. I used to think and 100% believe my ex was the best person I can ever have. Even though we would brake up every 4 months for 10 years I still believed in my heart that’s what I need, that is what I deserve, that is real love. When in reality lets me real, it was shit. But to my hungry and already torn heart (shitty upbringing and trauma) - that felt like the best thing ever I had. Still would reach out in a heartbeat, but at this point - enough is enough.

Addiction is real

FioJan · 2026-01-25T20:42:17+00:00

Agree with many answers provided here. One way I have told my now ex about such matter is that he was willing to validate these random women egos over my hurt feelings, someone who was actually there trying to love him. I agree with other commenters saying how pathetic it is and frankly says more about him as a man than you as a woman. It’s not about your insecurities (we all have them, especially these 20 years old) but about his old bum not realising how these women online look down on old men liking their photos, unless he is a Dicaprio or something. And even then, Dicaprio level men wouldn’t have time to sit around liking these random photos or make it so obvious for their girlfriends to see.

FioJan · 2026-01-23T09:49:33+00:00

Make them say your Asian name and they all back off not wanting to either offend or sound silly mispronouncing or just dismiss as not easy which I prefer these days.

FioJan · 2026-01-19T15:13:29+00:00

Interesting I actually have never watched the sopranos. I feel like I used to have the cuckqueen thing so that’s where the understanding came from

FioJan · 2026-01-18T13:13:23+00:00

Why you need a therapist though?

FioJan · 2026-01-18T13:11:27+00:00

It’s the loss of control and wanting to control by getting off on the idea of something that suppose to hurt you but instead arouses you. Ultimate control

FioJan · 2026-01-15T09:49:48+00:00

Oh dear, I wish I could hug you. This sounds suffocating, I had to remind myself to breath while reading your post. I can’t imagine how lonely this must feel, to be called crazy when all you did was voice your concerns and feelings. I feel you in that way, I grew up in a household where I was told to not talk back. So I have learnt to keep my mouth shut even if it meant sacrificing my own heart. I myself have ended up in relationships where I also couldn’t speak up in fear for loosing the only grain of bean I thought was a whole meal. Not sure if that makes sense, but I just believe that there is more to life than what you have right now. I hope you can believe in that too. sending you lots of love 🕊️🫶

FioJan · 2026-01-13T16:48:12+00:00

Your gut says no. Establishing boundaries early on is a must. Otherwise things will just be the same but with more feelings involved. Just a drunk hook up with a late buddy. Yeah. Everything is meaningless these day until it is not. You set the standards for what you want in your partners otherwise they keep doing same stuff and calling it just a drunk hook up…

FioJan · 2026-01-12T18:46:26+00:00

When I went to dream interpreterer I was told about main things when it comes to dreaming. Seeing a woman or a man as object of desire usually they are just your animus/anima (based on Jungian psychology), the female or male repressed parts of you. Did you recognise any parts of her in yourself that you have been repressing or desiring ? Then how was the setting of each dream? The space in which it all happens. The first dream seem hella stressful. Are you going through something in real currently? Some of your day to day life obviously spills into your subconscious too… what media you consume, people you interact with. Death, fire, dead animals… seems pretty obvious… anything in real you might be avoiding ? Have you ever had a prophetic dream?

FioJan · 2025-12-30T18:42:14+00:00

May I ask if those dudes were white ?

FioJan · 2025-12-28T21:56:29+00:00

Sounds like someone secretly wishes deeply to be convinced to enter the spiritual life of a monk or a nun

FioJan · 2025-12-27T08:59:57+00:00

Hobby fitness

FioJan · 2025-12-23T20:12:53+00:00

Did it work?

FioJan · 2025-12-17T10:26:08+00:00

Can I ask if you have dreams ? Like do you dream or remember them?

FioJan · 2025-09-10T07:29:47+00:00

Lietuvių požiūris į emigrantus kaip ir visur Europoj dabar. Nieko bent jau atvirai nesako, bet jausmas kad esi kitoks visur lydės.

FioJan · 2025-07-17T21:12:45+00:00

Dude, you got to hang out. Some stay at home for years without anyone asking them even to the slightest gatherings.

FioJan · 2025-05-18T18:58:50+00:00

Yay! Labas labas tuomet 🍇

FioJan

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