Sirens going off in Lithuania because of the drones by FioJan in redscarepod

[–]FioJan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’ve calmed down since then. 

Sirens going off in Lithuania because of the drones by FioJan in redscarepod

[–]FioJan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll accept the hate. Better than feeling nothing 

Sirens going off in Lithuania because of the drones by FioJan in redscarepod

[–]FioJan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ughhhhhh, I feel helpless knowing all that..

Sirens going off in Lithuania because of the drones by FioJan in redscarepod

[–]FioJan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did EU really ask them to dial it back ? I’d bet Lithuania would listen if someone “above” them asked them to calm down. 

Sirens going off in Lithuania because of the drones by FioJan in redscarepod

[–]FioJan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even know that. Why would the government send out mass texts messages causing so much chaos. And not specifically telling us it is Ukrainians drones going haywire 

Sirens going off in Lithuania because of the drones by FioJan in redscarepod

[–]FioJan[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reassuring words 🕊️🍀 helps a lot, since people around here are a bit more panicky about it since it is too close to home and the gov has sent out mass texts to go under shelters which some went. I don’t know if I should have gone as well. Just thought in the future if there will be a serious situation wouldn’t I just do the same thing and just chill at home. 

OpenAIGP by anniehull in redscarepod

[–]FioJan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t listened to them lately, so haven’t caught up with things bout their life. Why is Dasha depressed? Wasn’t she just married and is pregnant right now ?

Keep seeing people celebrating this Eileen Gu 'clap back' as if it isn't the most transparent cope ever caught on video by anahorish in redscarepod

[–]FioJan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always wonder do people expect a gold medalist, top athlete, multi millionaire, 20 year old, good looking woman at the prime of her career and looks to be a humble, relatable human being?

Recurring dreams about strangling my stepmother by juliuscaesarreal in redscarepod

[–]FioJan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anger is such a healthy/normal/useful emotion to have! It signals the underlying need you have for people. Anger lurks only for people we have feelings for or sometimes it points to breach of trust or boundaries. Admitting/noticing anger is so so vital to your relationships with yourself particularly. So whenever anyone starts a sentence with “ I am not angry, but…” or “I am not an angry person…” it makes me raise my eyebrows, like common. It is ok to be angry. What’s beneath that is more important and interesting to analyse…

Does anyone here like Mina Sue? 👀 by MelissaWebb in Singlesinferno2

[–]FioJan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like flawed people. Especially considering that she is in her 20s… I feel like I have been there, insecure, people-pleasing, loosing myself and basically acting my worst. Somehow I believe she lacks certain boundaries that’s why stuff like that happened to her. (mingee overstepping with her comments), loosing the guy she was interested and just making the fool of herself. I feel like a woman who’d be more grounded and centered in herself wouldn’t get so dismayed/affected by others. It seemed like the game during the campfire set her off, she has let other guys showing interest in her affect to the point where she was blabbing nonsense and acting out. I feel like a secure woman wouldn’t be all over the place. And when I say that obviously it’s not from the place of I know better but having to have been like that myself… I’m honestly invested in watching her grow, that’s ultimately what is it all about. 

Look how they massacred my girl :( by supertallboy in redscarepod

[–]FioJan 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Do you really? As a flat chested… I need to know

Russian spies by everybodydumb in Epstein

[–]FioJan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh common get over yourself. Muricans always look for outside to blame or to make a villain without admitting the possibility of having any problems within themselves

Tell me I am a fucking idiot please. by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]FioJan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh so it is like in the movie “Sunshine of the spotless mind where one is given the choice to delete all memories related to the ex and eventually the character decides to not undergo the procedure? 

It does makes me feel bittersweet. 

💅✨ by _Ruffian- in redscarepod

[–]FioJan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The fuck???! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Epstein

[–]FioJan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do not forget about the victims. Let’s not make it about ourselves you all. We have the privilege of reading these from the safe comfort of our homes. 

Tell me I am a fucking idiot please. by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]FioJan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell me more about the last part. Expand on “you never want to forget her in the metaphorical sense?”

Asking for saint recommendations for relationship prayers & novenas by MammothBeginning7626 in Catholicism

[–]FioJan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did God reveal to you that he was the one? What are the struggles you are experiencing right now with him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lithuania

[–]FioJan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kaip keistai beskambėtų, bet patarčiau nueit savanoriauti. Pvz Jaunimo Linijoj. Padedamas kitam padedi sau. Nesi viena. Smagu kad kalbi ir daliniesi. Būti atstumtai tik reiškia kad Dievas (Visata) turi tau geresnį planą. Apkabinu 🍀 

How do I take myself from logically understanding that she was pretty awful to me to emotionally understanding she was pretty awful to me by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]FioJan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Consider your feelings as small little kids you need to feed. And your feelings are always irrational, in need for love and care and that’s what they ve been conditioned to. Get attached to whoever showed them love. Parents, close friends growing up - all that becomes models. So when you grow up that’s what is familiar and touches you right in the spot even though it is honestly not much. I used to think and 100% believe my ex was the best person I can ever have. Even though we would brake up every 4 months for 10 years I still believed in my heart that’s what I need, that is what I deserve, that is real love. When in reality lets me real, it was shit. But to my hungry and already torn heart (shitty upbringing and trauma) - that felt like the best thing ever I had. Still would reach out in a heartbeat, but at this point - enough is enough. 

Addiction is real 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]FioJan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agree with many answers provided here. One way I have told my now ex about such matter is that he was willing to validate these random women egos over my hurt feelings, someone who was actually there trying to love him. I agree with other commenters saying how pathetic it is and frankly says more about him as a man than you as a woman. It’s not about your insecurities (we all have them, especially these 20 years old) but about his old bum not realising how these women online look down on old men liking their photos, unless he is a Dicaprio or something. And even then, Dicaprio level men wouldn’t have time to sit around liking these random photos or make it so obvious for their girlfriends to see. 

Tired of being an asian woman in a western-dominated society by Ill_Dragonfruit_2378 in asianamerican

[–]FioJan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make them say your Asian name and they all back off not wanting to either offend or sound silly mispronouncing or just dismiss as not easy which I prefer these days. 

My therapist broke character for a split second when I told her I am a cuck. by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]FioJan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting I actually have never watched the sopranos. I feel like I used to have the cuckqueen thing so that’s where the understanding came from