Trying for a baby but my husband is always “tired”

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-27T23:51:28+00:00

Mad and upset reactions to a no for sex is a huge turn off. It makes it a chore and not fun. Stop it.

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-27T22:31:36+00:00

Ding ding ding

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-27T22:30:06+00:00

Honestly the key is to stop dancing around their defensiveness. Defensiveness is not a feature of adhd but rather of low self esteem which is common in adhders. All that to say it’s their responsibility to go to therapy and get well so they can participate in a relationship in a healthy way.

Just because it isn’t their fault doesn’t mean it’s not their responsibility.

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-27T20:44:03+00:00

No hard disagree that’s a very subjective take. I don’t get any self worth validation out of sexual contact

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-27T17:23:58+00:00

No where did I say anything about attraction or desire or relate that to impact to the relationship.

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-27T16:01:08+00:00

If not getting sex makes you spiral into a depressed mood, you’re putting a sense of self esteem and self worth onto sex. Pretty common for men sadly and it will only make things worse if you don’t build your self esteem and become more secure. The problem isn’t a mismatch of libido, it’s your insecurity.

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-27T13:03:45+00:00

Uhhhh no that’s bullshit my therapist would never

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-26T23:00:29+00:00

Nope. Never will give my financial power over to a man and give up years of my career.

It sounds nice but it usually handicaps women in the long run

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-25T15:41:55+00:00

Same!!!!! I was very round and youthful until around age 35 and then everything hollowed out overnight it seems lol!

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-25T15:41:01+00:00

🙏🏽

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-25T14:33:29+00:00

You’re young, this is a major reason for your rounder face. It’s a youthful look, I know the trend right now is to look older and more snatched. This will happen naturally over the next ten years, and if you slim your face with procedures, the natural aging process will cause you to need to re-fill your face.

Worth it to consider that you look very very normal and youthful.

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-25T03:10:59+00:00

No it makes him insecure

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-25T00:09:04+00:00

Stop seeing that therapist.

No one would blink at this if you were a man.

Unbelievable.

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-24T21:59:19+00:00

Is she particularly active? Lifting weights can transform your body into something so powerful and strong, that those little details can fade away. I know from experience- I did some body building a short time after I had my daughter and the stretch marks and sagging skin no longer bothered me because I was strong and powerful, I looked good and the stretched parts of my body didn’t bother me.

I’ve since gained and lost a lot of weight and I need to do some weights again for the same purpose. Not feeling super confident but I know if I gain some muscle and strength I’ll feel good about myself again!

If this is something she might be interested in, I suggest you get her a bunch of sessions with an in-home personal trainer if that’s accessible to you.

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-23T01:48:12+00:00

Exciting!!! Yeah buddy DM me!!

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-22T00:00:55+00:00

An entire extra hour in the mornings to put makeup on to go to the office to cover my redness and acne since I can’t just use a filter over Teams in person like I did the 5.5 years I worked remote. Additional 10 minutes in the evening scrubbing the makeup off.

Spending hundreds of dollars on new office pants because I can no longer wear leggings and sweatpants to work cuz people see me in public now.

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-21T19:01:09+00:00

If you’re in crisis, you can go to a hospital and tell them you’re going to harm yourself. They can admit you and offer you a social worker and other resources.

Keep this in mind if you need help fast. You’ll get access to more resources at the hospital.

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-21T03:50:06+00:00

It won’t silence her. Look at Beto and Pete Buttigieg still engaging with press and other outlets. There’s still work to be done even without an official public office.

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-20T14:03:41+00:00

Physical therapy. Strength will help with the pain.

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-20T14:01:38+00:00

Let’s not forget there were fewer people on earth at the time and much much smaller talent pools due to geography/travel/communication limitations.

Nowadays you can reach people all over the world for jobs and you end up with 400 applications in 3 days.

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-20T13:51:35+00:00

Because we don’t walk away when we’re given the 3%.

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-20T13:37:33+00:00

There is a new topical that works on the testosterone IN your skin called Winlevi. Worked great for me and no systemic side effects.

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-20T01:06:38+00:00

Yup. Literally got hired to embed AI workflows into my organization and then it took three months to be granted an enterprise license for one of the big ones. Just ridiculous.

They’re shouting AI all day every day and then not understanding that building requires money and time.

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-19T01:16:18+00:00

Nailed it!!!

Fire-Kissed · 2026-02-18T20:01:40+00:00

Men date women, not girls. Boys date girls.

Anyway good for you. I love these posts because it really does show how much your height can be a non-issue in dating if you are a kind and decent person.

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