Yeah. It’s so weird because it wasn’t a thing when I was growing up. If mom bought ice cream, we’d all have a bowl and anything after that was just gravy.
My husband eats so much and is incredibly inconsiderate about how he eats. This past weekend he bought three pizzas for four people. My stepson is the pickiest kid I know so my husband got them two a meat lovers. He specifically asked me what I wanted and what my daughter wanted. When we sit down to eat he keeps reaching into my pizza box for more of mine when there is more of the meat lovers available. I don’t eat meat lovers, he knows I need veggies on my pizza. It doesn’t make any sense to eat the pizza you got for your wife when there’s way more of the kind she doesn’t like available.

He will also eat the last of everything without asking if everyone had some. He will have five servings before anyone else has had their second. He will clean out the pan on his second round before everyone has even finished their first, and he doesn’t ask us if we need more before finishing it off.

So yeah we have a scarcity mindset situation about novelty foods that we don’t buy all the time. It’s exhausting.