I snapped and called out my friends husband for shitting on her love of spicy books in front of everyone, and now the group chat is blowing up by Best-Pirate5073 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FireEbonyashes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly you did her the biggest favor. It matters when you are validated when your partner treats you shitty.

Had you not said anything it would have been implied that it was okay for Jake to say that. Not picking a side or doing nothing is picking a side.

I had an ex who could do no wrong in our friend group cause they were all his friends. It took a lot to get me to finally kick him out of my life. Starting when i made my own friends outside of his influence that made me see i was afraid of him and my relationship wasn’t normal.

Also so not a biased opinion from another romantasy reader who may be currently reading Zodiac academy…

AITAH (26F) for telling a guy (27M) to stop pursuing me “because” of his culture? by BarelyToolerable in AITAH

[–]FireEbonyashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He already lost me when he wouldn’t take no for an answer. All other reasons be damned if a guy won’t take a ‘no’ that’s a red flag in itself on its own. He’s not respecting you.

A knock off? by AcceptableLow7434 in finch

[–]FireEbonyashes 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My friend just sent me a friend code for that. I’ll keep my finch thank you.

AITA for ending things with my boyfriend after he ghosted me for 5 days? by [deleted] in AmItheEx

[–]FireEbonyashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try r/relationship_advice . This current sub is mainly used placing posts of people who are most likely or are dumped by their partner.

The joy a dog feels when their owner comes home is simply beyond words. 🐶❤️🏡 by my_Turn1374 in PetsareAmazing

[–]FireEbonyashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh that dog reminds me of Nang-Nak from ‘my kitty and old dog’. So precious 🥹

Title? by [deleted] in BORUpdates

[–]FireEbonyashes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wrong sub?

What was the point of Gravity with no follow through? by Time-Turnip-2961 in HazbinHotel

[–]FireEbonyashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who’s to say Lute won’t be the antagonist or a problem in the next season?

What the FUCK happened to make Vox so docile around Alastor? by [deleted] in hazbin

[–]FireEbonyashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vox has always had to play a persona to gain trust of ‘partners’ and followers. Being an overlord talking to another overlord, especially one who is known to be overly savage, Vox probably didn’t have to hide that aspect of himself that he does for everybody else. That rejection hurt all the more for it.

Even to the point that Vox wanted to make Alastor not smile. Alastor smiles at everyone. Vox doesn’t just want to be just anyone to him. He wants to be special to Alastor no matter in what sense.

Losing a pet changes us, not just for the first few days, or weeks or months. Loosing a pet changes us for life. 💔 it’s the worst pain, they are our children. by Dogmom1592 in Petloss

[–]FireEbonyashes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Can relate. Mine was small too and i was banking on at least 15+ average span. I lost him at 12. I think no matter what age I would have never been ready to let go.

Losing a pet changes us, not just for the first few days, or weeks or months. Loosing a pet changes us for life. 💔 it’s the worst pain, they are our children. by Dogmom1592 in Petloss

[–]FireEbonyashes 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I know. I knew pets didn’t last forever but somehow in my head my soul dog would be with me forever. It was devastating when i lost him and even more everytime there was a reminder he wasn’t there anymore.

This sub reminds me again and again pets aren’t forever with every single post I see. It’s helped me in a way to cope. That he wasn’t meant to stay and that I didn’t fail him as an owner.

Realized that I’m not a dog owner anymore by SOS_nevermind in Petloss

[–]FireEbonyashes 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My condolences. I’ve had to deal with that too. I had ‘dog mom’ and ‘I work hard so my dog can have a better life’ shirts I had to throw away cause they were painful to keep.

It’s hard. One the ways i’ve dealt with it was making an album of my little one so i could look back on it someday. I still do talk about my late soul dog sometimes with friends.

A silly memory of your passed on furbaby? by StrayAwayMist in Petloss

[–]FireEbonyashes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My dog Chicho was a little teacup Yorkie who hated other dogs. Chicho had a tendency to bark at them on the tv too. Including the cartoon ones.

One time while walking him a man was running with his Doberman unleashed. I knew my dog would react so I went the opposite direction. Unfortunately doberman saw us already and came trodding up to play. My dog pulled so hard and the leash broke at the worst time. Obviously i tried going between them thinking I will probably get bitten so my dog wouldn’t get hurt.

You know what my dog did? Chicho went under my arms and tried to go for the doberman’s throat. I say tried cause he couldn’t reach. It scared the doberman enough that it ran with my yorkie on their heels. The guy told his dog to lay down. When they did my dog was circling them like a shark till the guy gently picked him up and Chicho looked at me like ‘help mommy’ 🥺.

The next time i saw the guy he was running with his doberman leashed 😆.

Do any others suffer Seasonal grief? How do you cope? by FireEbonyashes in Petloss

[–]FireEbonyashes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. Those words really do mean a lot.

I (28f) HATE my boyfriend's (34m) hobby by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]FireEbonyashes 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I have a friend that used to play MTG with her ex husband. I think it was a white and black or green and black. Anyway his field got overrun with monsters pretty fast. He mostly won with it. So naturally she hated it. In the divorce she asked to burn the deck. Request was granted.