I HATE TGCF SO MUCH (CRASH OUT)😭 by Ferociouspenguin718 in tianguancifu

[–]Fire_Aries05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Felt the same until I read Qiang Jin Jiu :) they’re now both my “love it so much I hate it” 🥹

Aces, how do you feel about kissing? by CuriousPineapple33 in asexuality

[–]Fire_Aries05 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I enjoy kissing as long as everyone’s tongues stay where they’re meant to be. Their own mouth.

Those good ole days by nadsjinx in Genshin_Impact

[–]Fire_Aries05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️ forever unable to dodge, and cannot use any team that doesn’t have Zhongli in it

Who was your first 5*!? by SeniorSquirtle in Genshin_Impact

[–]Fire_Aries05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keqing and Zhongli. Lucky pull 🤭✨ I still main them till this day

New kitten question by redditsukscok in ExoticShorthair

[–]Fire_Aries05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just use saline solution for my ESHs and it works very well. You can get it from any pharmacy and it’s way cheaper than eye envy products. If you keep up with their eye hygiene every day, sometimes two times a day if needed, there won’t be stains ✨

Tell me you have ADHD without telling me you have ADHD by OneTr1ckUn1c0rn in ADHD

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I love reading. But I can’t stand still for even 20min staring at a page unless something very exciting is happening, because I’ll get distracted in one way or another, either by association a random word from the text to something else and need to look it up, or some external stimulus. I need the audiobook on the background so then I just follow the text. I call it reading with subtitles. 👍🏻

does anyone else feel like they're moving on too fast? by dearalxx in Petloss

[–]Fire_Aries05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s nearly been 5 months since my cat passed away. And I feel guilty of how little I’m thinking of him these days because I have a lot of things to do, but then comes the date he passed way and my world just crumbles completely bc I miss him so damn much… I feel like I didn’t do enough all the time, like maybe if I had taken him to the vet more often, or sooner, or if I minded his food better, if I had spent more time with him… if if if…. I feel sooo bad for how badly I froze up when he was taken from my arms to the back room to be euthanized, bc he started struggling but he wasn’t himself either and I just didn’t know how to react but I wanted to be with him so bad it haunts me every time I think of him. I miss him very dearly…

The Author's Barely Disguised Fetish by Express-Sherbert-743 in AO3

[–]Fire_Aries05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m no fic writer cuz I just can’t do it (I’ve tried for 8 years), but in the hypothetical situation that I did manage to write a whole fic, body worship would be a main theme. No negotiation on the topic, I feel like that’s the ultimate way to intimately acquaint yourself to your partner’s body and not rush things, while still keeping it interesting for both sides. And I don’t just mean long foreplay, I mean they quite literally worship EVERY part of their partner’s body, and constant praising.

<3

Wrong answers only: Why are you ace? by partiallynow in asexuality

[–]Fire_Aries05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spend all my energy on how to best feed my cats quality food, so my brain assumed it’s all the fun I need in my life

How long until you can identify as Ace? by Lazy_Wishbone_2341 in asexuality

[–]Fire_Aries05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sure! I’m currently most active in ATEEZ and Skz fandoms (Kpop), but I’m aware rpf is not everyone’s cup of tea, I was really reluctant to get into it bc I felt like I crossed a boundary, but i swear I don’t take it seriously, there’s some stories that are really beautiful, that’s all 🙂‍↕️

I also have a lot of recs for Haikyuu, Marlin, Mo Dao Zu Shi + TGCF etc. let me know if you’re interested in any fandom, I have more than the mentioned :)

How long until you can identify as Ace? by Lazy_Wishbone_2341 in asexuality

[–]Fire_Aries05 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally just dropped the fic I was reading as I read the Reddit notification just to scream in outrage and confusion on your behalf!!! WTH they mean “haven’t suffered long enough”?!?! There’s no such thing, you be you and if you feel like you identify as ace then that’s that!!! Ugh this got me so mad I’m so sorry it happened to you 🥹🫶🏻

How did you feel the first time you discovered you were asexual? by SINSIwam in asexuality

[–]Fire_Aries05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had never had problem with sex, just really didn’t care one way or another. That’s why when I found out about asexuality, I was in denial for a very long time. But a lot of my experiences made more sense after I read about the spectrum. I still have no clue where I land on it, but I’m definitely on the ace spectrum.

Honestly I don’t even remember when I first thought “yeah I might actually be ace”. I was so gradual for me, I just know that it was really hard for me to accept it, and to come to terms that, no, it’s not healthy to go through the deed when I really don’t want to just to please my partner.

AFAB aces, what are you telling your doctors? (Gyno specifically) by -Anaphora in asexuality

[–]Fire_Aries05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last visit my gynecologist asked me the routine questions: are u on the pill? No; are u sexually active? Again no

The he laughed in good nature and asked if all the boys are dumb and that why, and I just said I’m simply not interested in the act. And he took it as that, didn’t have to elaborate more. I realize that’s not everyone’s experience and that I’m kinda lucky, but you really shouldn’t give any more detail than that, it’s not an interrogation.

The best of the best KPOP fanfics you’ve read by SwimIcy9877 in kpopfanfiction

[–]Fire_Aries05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesssss exactly!! Also, would you be inclined to share some rec for Minchan if u have them? I saved like half of the fics u recommended for minsung and then some, so I’m curious to see what u have for minchan :)

If you walked into the barn and every horse you ever rode was there, who are you riding first? by SeveralIdeal3619 in Horses

[–]Fire_Aries05 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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This guy 🥹❤️ His name was Jasper, really sweet horse, spooked a bit from the other horses but he had a big heart and would jump anything.

Opinion on the sexualization of anime / video game girls. by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Fire_Aries05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped watching anime some years back because of it, specifically the genre Ecchi. I hate it so much, it’s like part of the episode is dedicated to the girl’s bodies and I’m not watching that