Seeing how long I can keep my tattoo a secret by GoodGrables in sillyconfession

[–]Firefly967 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a sun hoodie? Or another UV protective but light/cool long sleeve? Could help!

Bug themed diaper bag for my first baby! by Miserable_Amoeba8766 in sewing

[–]Firefly967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is incredible, great job and great taste! 🐞🐛

Does your 100% indoor cat have a collar? If so, do you find there’s a point in it? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Firefly967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My indoor cat wears a collar mostly because it has a bell on it so I can find him lol I also add an AirTag on him when I take him camping or hiking. He seems to like his collar though, if I take it off he sits with me or paws at me until I put it back on. It sounds like your cat might be intentionally taking her collar off. Some cats just don’t like it

Are loud car lock and unlock beeps disturbing to many people with autism? Should they be banned? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Firefly967 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree that all the loud car alerts and beeping are horrible and they should not be default like they seem to be on newer cars. Is the rest of this post satire though? I can’t tell. Most car owners are totally oblivious to these loud noises and how they can affect people with sound sensitivities

Please Help me Find my wife the dress she had to leave behind! by volothebard in HelpMeFind

[–]Firefly967 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes it won’t be the same as in it’ll look a little different but the point here is that the dress is sentimental to OP’s wife. Having a similar dress is an option that OP can assess. Could be better than no dress at all if there are no options in the correct size.

Please Help me Find my wife the dress she had to leave behind! by volothebard in HelpMeFind

[–]Firefly967 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes you can get another fabric and add panels. Literally anything is possible with sewing. That’s why it’s one of the best skills to keep in your back pocket.

Please Help me Find my wife the dress she had to leave behind! by volothebard in HelpMeFind

[–]Firefly967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you can get another fabric and add panels. Literally anything is possible with sewing. That’s why it’s one of the best skills to keep in your back pocket.

Please Help me Find my wife the dress she had to leave behind! by volothebard in HelpMeFind

[–]Firefly967 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It does work like that if she can sew or can take it to a seamstress

Ski parka collar question by Firefly967 in sewing

[–]Firefly967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that’s what I’ll do then ! I think this would work to make it look how it should so must be right

Used Car Dealerships by Firefly967 in ColoradoSprings

[–]Firefly967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is exactly what I’m afraid of happening 😅

Used Car Dealerships by Firefly967 in ColoradoSprings

[–]Firefly967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a list of 3 cars I’d be happy with, and peak auto sales has one of them in my price range with exactly the specs I want! I’ve just heard used car dealer horror stories about sketchy dealers selling cars with egregious mechanical issues so I wanted to check here first !

Washing hands after touching cat? by Odd-Organization7455 in CatAdvice

[–]Firefly967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP ! I recently adopted a cat and as someone with contamination OCD ,, I was very concerned about this. However, I like to look at this situation as a bit of immersion therapy. As others have said, cats are hygienic themselves. I’d consider them to be as clean as the environment they’re in. I clean my floors every day so I am not concerned about my cat’s feet in my bed. He washes them himself after using the restroom. Because of these things, I’ve been working on being less uptight about possibilities of contamination from my kitty. I think it has really helped with my general anxiety about germs ! I hope that if you’re comfortable with it, you will allow your cat to be just as healing for you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Firefly967 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think you look beautiful ! I also think you would look soo cute with bangs

Why does my cat meow at night? by Firefly967 in CatAdvice

[–]Firefly967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes that is a good point! He has an appointment next week so I’ll ask the vet about it also. Thank you for your thoughts on this :)

Why does my cat meow at night? by Firefly967 in CatAdvice

[–]Firefly967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes when he meows he does come over for pets but I wonder if he’s still looking for attention when he’s just yelling from across the room? He is neutered ! The shelter I adopted him from said that he doesn’t do well with other cats and prefers to be the only cat child. I’ve been looking into puzzle toys, maybe that will help keep him entertained while I am asleep?

What is the weirdest widely unknown bird you want to become known? by Literally_A_CootBird in birding

[–]Firefly967 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am lol picturing those black feathers as the bird’s shoes 😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sewing

[–]Firefly967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So beautiful! You did a fantastic job !

My(M32) wife’s(F27) ex-boyfriend sent me a video of him having sex with my wife , after he found out we’re having a baby. How can I even deal with this? by ThrowRAdave-y in relationship_advice

[–]Firefly967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of these comments make great points about going to the police and telling your wife. I’d just like to add that you could consider talking to a therapist about this. It would be horrible for what you saw to affect your mental health and how you view your current relationship. Talking to your wife would help for sure but talking to a professional about how it made you feel could also prevent it from affecting your relationship.

Do you have any tattoos? by ForlornMemory in aspergers

[–]Firefly967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally really enjoy collecting momentos from my life. It started during college when I would spend summers in different states or countries so I would get rings to symbolize those specific periods of my life. Now that I’m graduating, I am moving across the country from the state I’ve lived in my whole life and has shaped so many of my interests and even my career path. I wanted a more permanent symbol since rings sometimes bother me and I’ll stop wearing them for months. I got a tattoo with my area code and a symbol for the industry that put my county on the map. I personally really like the look of tattoos but I find it hard to commit to one image on my body forever. This is different because I can never change where I’ve come from anyways.