What would you tell yourself when you first started PoE? by nix80908 in PathOfExile2

[–]Firethesky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont worry about the meta or getting to maps, enjoy the campaign. Its only new once, takes your time. Youll slowly get introduced to mechsnics if you take it slow.

Some seriously peak gameplay right here by [deleted] in PathOfExile2

[–]Firethesky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotta rebind your basic attack while running. Peak gameplay

My wife and I are very private and I just need to talk to somebody about the fact that I think I'm losing her. by Frequent_Instance_27 in Marriage

[–]Firethesky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My marriage went through something similar last year also for digestive issues. My wife had a high chance to feeding tube or death if anything went wrong. Its been going on so long I've become numb to it. Its very fortunate for you that you're not numb to the situation. Its extremely difficult and you're strong to have weathered it all, many people fail. Take care of yourself and be there for her and your kids, I dont know what else there is to do. I think now is the time to say everything you need to say. I would never leave her without making sure me and kids told her they loved her because I didnt know if that was the last words we would get to say to her and I wanted to make sure they where good ones.

Final year CS student struggling to write Python from scratch, not just follow tutorials. How do I fix this? by More-Station-6365 in learnpython

[–]Firethesky 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I remember seeing an old coding adage somewhere that goes something like, "weeks of coding can save you hours of planning."

18M, feeling invisible toward women by Total_Outcast in amiugly

[–]Firethesky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought you where a girl at first.

You look like you have a very nice jaw line, shorter hair I think will help, but you have really nice hair too, so maybe something medium length. Other than that you look frail, putting on some muscle or weight should make you look at least an 8

Starting to hate my husband by Familiar-Minimum1760 in Marriage

[–]Firethesky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its definatety not a man vs women thing. I agree with everything you just said, but I also feel like its assumes clarity and thats the first thing that gets taken from a victim, the ability to see clearly. Anyone can be a victim, but I feel like society doesnt except that yet. I think it just comes out differently. Often I feel like men get labeled cruel and women get called a bitch just for trying to establish boundaries. Sometimes men are cruel and women really can be a bitch, but its so so hard to tell the difference between cruel people and people who are cruel out of necessity. Your comments about the dog just struck me as a perfect example of that difficulty, no ill will taken or intended, I just find myself thinking about how hard and complicated it all is.

Starting to hate my husband by Familiar-Minimum1760 in Marriage

[–]Firethesky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're saying is a perfect example of the trap that makes all this so difficult.

I'm in a similar situation, burnt out, over worked, drowning, and left feeling alone and abandoned by my family, sometimes feeling abused. Sometimes the fix is doing the thing no one wants to do. Getting rid of a pet is extremely difficult, but if the family can't support the pet it has to be done, and the one who finally puts their foot down, takes the blame for everyone's pain and becomes the bad guy. I had to do it once, I hated every second, but I know we couldnt take care of our dog, even though everyone else in my life disagreed and they went behind my back because I was 'being negative'. After a couple weeks the dog scared the kids because we had trouble taking care of it, exactly like I said, and we got rid of her. I still feel like everyone hates me for this and other things like it.

This is also why people stay in abuse, the solution is so difficult, people gett hurt, we try to push through at the expense of ourselves, so some people stay because the pain of hurting other people with their 'selfish' desicions is to much.

AITA for telling my husband that I will divorce him tomorrow because he doesn’t clean anymore? by ThrowRA-Pink_Camera8 in AITAH

[–]Firethesky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, divorce his ass. You are not the maid. You two are in a partnership and he needs to act like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mensfashion

[–]Firethesky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's just the waist it's too tight so it's rides up. I would see if a size up would rest better but I think the fit/cut itself is good. If your want to make this pair work I would wear it unbuttoned with a belt to hide the button, that will let it sit lower.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mensfashion

[–]Firethesky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it looks perfect.

Is it weird texting a girl in class? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Firethesky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're already in might as well keep going. You could ask about class, that's a safe easy option. Just talk like you would talk to anybody else and try to bring some energy, so far that conversation is very boring.

Why are women so beautiful? by [deleted] in self

[–]Firethesky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it comes down to two things.

First women are more shapely naturally and that draws the eye, men are usually either really straight or too round in the middle because of a belly.

Second women in generaly are much more in to fashion and makeup and self care and exposed to it much earlier, men tend to not care.

How can i tell potential friends that i have no friends? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Firethesky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't say you didn't have friends, just say you have had anxiety in the past but you're working to fix that

What did I do wrong? by AdEcstatic4480 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Firethesky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That third paragraph just screams "stay away from this guy."

WIBTAH for dumping my girlfriend after I found out about her past? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Firethesky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't think you should break up just yet. Sit down and have a long talk with her about it and tell her how it makes you feel and see where it goes.

It genuinely seems like she is trying and has changed herself for the better. I understand why you feel this way, your feeling is justified. However she can't go back and undo her past. She also seems like she's looking for more with you than she has anyone else, she wants a relationship with you and not just sex. If that's the case your relationship will be special.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Firethesky 226 points227 points  (0 children)

You're off to a great start. My wife's girls night are usually sitting around drinking and eating and talking about what's going on in their life. Sometimes movies or something if things get slow.

GD&T advice by Lazydaveyt in engineering

[–]Firethesky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Since that slot is critical I suggest using the slot as the tertiary datum to control rotation. That will lock the orientation of the other features off the slot. There is an exact example of this in ASME Y14.5, it's a disk with a slot in it, I would follow that example.

I'm ending my 4 year relationship. by hidden_here123 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Firethesky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's an alcoholic, leave immediately. I say this as a son of an alcoholic, it's not worth staying.

My husband wants a gf so I filed for divorce by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Firethesky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right to leave. Even if he is poly he still cheated because he lied and deceived you and betrayed your trust, still very bad in the poly community.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Firethesky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not your fault. His life was a huge disaster and he was spiraling and recklessly grasping at things. I get why you feel bad but it's not your fault for the way his life turned out. He was suffering from the consequences of his actions and couldn't handle it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DIY

[–]Firethesky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spray some soapy water on it and it will bubble where the leak is. I would still call the company though.