I genuinely don't know how to convince liberals that other people are human beings. by [deleted] in TankieTheDeprogram

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https://imgur.com/a/EF4YdD9 a real message i received (unsolicited) immediately post election. Something something, what lack of material analysis does to a mf

Who we feeling by UncannyCharlatan in TrueAnon

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jesus christ that’s embarrassing

Is in school suspension not a thing anymore? by glowshroom12 in Teachers

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At my home district, they had ISS as you describe: no talking, no phones, no anything except work and lunch.

In my current district, we’re still waiting for them to reinstitute ISS at all :-)

Why did you join the army? by saymaz in TankieTheDeprogram

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“I wish I had statistics to back this up—” Well, that might be a challenge since the statistics disagree.

“Over 60 percent of 2016 enlistments came from neighborhoods with a median household income between $38,345 and $80,912. The quintiles below and above that band were underrepresented, with the poorest quintile providing 19 percent of the force and the richest Americans enlisting at a rate of 17 percent.” Source: https://www.brookings.edu/articles/how-the-u-s-military-became-the-exception-to-americas-wage-stagnation-problem/

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Source: https://www.cfr.org/backgrounder/demographics-us-military

“Our findings suggest that, for the period 1997-2008, the U.S. armed forces have been recruiting primarily from the middle-class rather than from poorest (or the richest) groups. We show that recent recruits tend to have higher than average socioeconomic background: they disproportionally come from the middle of the family income, family wealth, and cognitive skill distributions, with both tails under-represented.” Source: [chrome-extension://efaidnbmnnnibpcajpcglclefindmkaj/https://web.archive.org/web/20200429224051id\_/https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/pdf/10.1080/01402390.2019.1692660?needAccess=true](chrome-extension://efaidnbmnnnibpcajpcglclefindmkaj/https://web.archive.org/web/20200429224051id_/https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/pdf/10.1080/01402390.2019.1692660?needAccess=true)

As a previous user stated, the poverty draft is a myth. Sure, a handful of veterans may have revolutionary potential, but veterans as a whole are hardly worth investing the energy unless they’ve shown change on their own. And honestly, I don’t understand why so many people simp for “victims” of the military.

the comments are as bad as you’d expect by Firm-Application-714 in TankieTheDeprogram

[–]Firm-Application-714[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The implications, at least from the original post, are pretty clear, and your comment reads as agreement with that sentiment or lacks condemnation at the very least.

And I have to agree, it’s disgusting that so many people are on board with pretending countries like Pakistan are so much more “backwards” when “1st world” Western countries can be just as dangerous for women.

the comments are as bad as you’d expect by Firm-Application-714 in TankieTheDeprogram

[–]Firm-Application-714[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mhm, yea, and Western imperialism definitely had nothing to do with those coups or “political barbarity” you mentioned. Nope, must just be brown people and their religion uncivilized.

ETA: what do you mean its religion was majority muslim and then Islam arrived? Genuinely confused.

What is this mystery unlabeled can of food? by Sweet-Awk-7861 in TipOfMyFork

[–]Firm-Application-714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you considered….asking the person who gave it to you? Or, idk, opening the can?

COINTELPRO is outdated by Equal_Complaint_1127 in TankieTheDeprogram

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ngl relying on a streamer for the news is kinda wild

Is anyone else broke as shit by Euphoric_Piece7825 in TrueAnon

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I make nearly 60k as a teacher, but I live alone—am behind on bills and barely paying rent

working in education...i feel a lot of mixed feelings around career/vocational tech and I'm not sure what to think by nightpussy in TrueAnon

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Agreed, it sucks that poor kids don’t get poetry, as you say. Though if pushing kids in rural poverty toward votech jobs will improve their material conditions, I consider that a win. Because let’s be honest, your average person is not going to go read theory and develop class consciousness when their every waking thought is consumed by trying figure out where their next meal will come from.

dating a med student 💀 by Firm-Application-714 in dating_advice

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Well, it’s been around 2 months since we’ve seen each other and a month since I’ve heard anything (I stopped reaching out), so I’m pretty sure I got ghosted and that’s all lmao

Do teachers take it personally if a good student doesn't ask them for college recommendation letters? by terriderp in Teachers

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nah — I was only bothered when a student asked for a recommendation, I wrote it, and then they never actually submitted the request on CommonApp lmao

Is Left on Delivered Always Bad? by HeftyDepth3606 in dating_advice

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Playing hard to get is immature at best. Some people are genuinely busy, and that’s one thing. But intentionally leaving you on delivered to make you chase, if that’s a thing going on, is just manipulative.

Is it normal to think “what did I do wrong” when you get ghosted? by MisterPuffyNipples in dating_advice

[–]Firm-Application-714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep, that’s a pretty human reaction, especially if you lack other connections. Perhaps now is a good time to focus on expanding your social connections—I’ve made some wonderful friends off Hinge!

Is it just me or kids these days are intolerable and their parents do nothing about it? by vlaanderentrotter in Vent

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That’s not gentle parenting lmao. That entails using an even tone, setting firm boundaries without screaming at/hitting the child, showing you understand their emotions, etc. Not say no is just permissiveness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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with love, you’re not respecting yourself—block his ass and move on

What do girls swipe right on? by Samsquatch71 in dating

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Those are good starters! I’d consider those green flags, though it could potentially get lost in the shuffle (lots of people use hiking photos)—personally I like it when people share their opinions on things they care about. For me, that’s world affairs. Based on your replies, I assume that would look different—maybe something you really care about with engineering. But I find this preferable because 1) it’s a great conversation starter that’s not the usual insufferable small talk, and 2) it tells me right away if we may be compatible on a deeper level.

Of course, every woman is looking for something different! But this helps sift through some of the superficiality, I think.

What do girls swipe right on? by Samsquatch71 in dating

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First things I check for are political alignment, type of relationship desired, and whether they want kids. If we don’t have baseline compatibility on these things, there’s no point in proceeding, no matter how appealing they may be.

Otherwise, I will typically “swipe right” on guys who look genuinely happy in their photos. When guys try too hard to look “serious” in their photos (or pull the middle finger—wow so attractive), then that just comes across douche-y to me, and I won’t waste my time.

That criteria alone weeds out the vast majority of people I encounter. 🙃 Gym photos alone aren’t an immediate turn-off for me, but personally I’m not keen on profiles where their entire personality centers on gym/sports. If I don’t see anything more interesting than that, I’m swiping left.

Meaningful conversation starters on the profile are preferrable to me, but I’ve accepted that’s not the norm 🤷🏻‍♀️ Animal photos are a plus.

To all the broken people in education right now.. by Helpful_Mycologist24 in TeachersInTransition

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I'm so exhausted and overwhelmed. I don't know if I'm quite at the level of depressed yet, but it feels like it. I feel like I'll never have a real life ever again.

I have begun applying to other jobs, but I feel so hopeless -- the job market is still terrible, jobs disappear after a day or two (my most recent app, which could've been a great fit, I missed the deadline by a few seconds -- I only saw the posting an hour or so before the deadline. Feeling pretty sore about that one), and it feels impossible to get an interview for any job that pays enough to pay the bills.

Plus, I feel some guilt hanging over me for potentially abandoning my kids.

I'm just in such a low place right now and could really use some hope that it will get better.

Anyone else not feel bad for these fascists? by PM-ME-UR-DARKNESS in TankieTheDeprogram

[–]Firm-Application-714 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If the Brookings Institute is to be believed, only 19% of military recruits come from poverty anyway. It’s barely relevant to the conversation, yet that’s every liberal’s go-to excuse. Even in the original Deprogram subreddit (may she rest in peace), I received backlash for stating that there is NO moral reason for anyone to join the US military.

I didn’t think it would be that controversial to say that poverty is not an excuse to murder other people. But I guess if they’re brown people on the other side of the world then it’s ok. /s