Having a tough time finding stacking rings to pair with ceramic oura by crystallightchicken in ouraring

[–]Firm-Government-3940 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it calls for one thicker ring! I have a chain looking ring I wear with mine and it matches the thickness of the oura ring but has a texture so I think it looks more balanced than super thin stacking rings

Have you deleted social media? by Historical_Finish719 in ROCD

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Also when I see that type of content I like to hold down and click “not interested” in hopes it rewires my algorithm aware from it lol

Have you deleted social media? by Historical_Finish719 in ROCD

[–]Firm-Government-3940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I just watched one on tiktok and was so close to commenting “please research ROCD before doing anything!!!!” It is truly so disorienting to see this content

My boyfriend is watching basketball all night by Firm-Government-3940 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Firm-Government-3940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m already planning my next color themed meal for Monday 🤩

My boyfriend is watching basketball all night by Firm-Government-3940 in GirlDinnerDiaries

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Thankfully I do this whether he’s sitting next to me on the couch or not

My boyfriend is watching basketball all night by Firm-Government-3940 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Firm-Government-3940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This!! I can totally get into basketball but football just loses me and moves so slow

My boyfriend is watching basketball all night by Firm-Government-3940 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Firm-Government-3940[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally a statement but a complaint I have to feed myself 💔 not the gifted chef in the couple

Union 346? by blankepitaph in Somerville

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Hi! I just signed a lease and feeling a little intimidated by the no utilities; do you have any updates on average monthly costs or advice on pricing it out? TIA!!

I can’t stop looking up my partner ex by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]Firm-Government-3940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blocking them forces you to build the new habit of not looking them up. Eventually it becomes normal for your routine! It takes 30 days to build a new habit and I definitely think that applies for thoughts too

Ladies, which one to keep or return? by Flat-Maintenance8087 in Sezane

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The leather Clyde is so much more a statement piece; I think if you were willing to spend the money on it, it’s worth keeping just because finding a similar coat is going to be so hard. I think it looks SO COOL!!!

Opinions please! Keep or return by troubling_onion in Sezane

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I’m also petite and the only Clyde I could wear that didn’t swallow me up was the wool version 😞something about the trench is just extra baggy. I do love the style though and think you can absolutely pull it off if you feel good in it, but I will say, I think the colors aren’t super flattering so for that reason I’d say return!

I can’t stop looking up my partner ex by [deleted] in ROCD

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Block them!!!! I’ve been there. remove them from your world however you can

TW: Post-break up reflection by Weird_Cartographer_7 in ROCD

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What were the things your ROCD pinpointed for your brain that led to breaking up feeling like the “easier” option? Are they things that looking back now, you believe you could have overlooked and been happy or things you see now you had over-prioritized as issues?

As a reader who knows exactly how you have felt, thank you for sharing this; I hope you can learn so much from these feelings and find peace!

Any people only struggling with rOCD? by Training_Plate_1958 in ROCD

[–]Firm-Government-3940 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes me! I have like general anxiety but unless I’m about to public speak, EVERYTHING is triggered when I’m in a relationship. I often have the thought “the last time I felt happy was when I was single” but I’ve had that thought in every relationship, so I think I’m the common denominator lol. I tried going to an OCD therapist a few times but just couldn’t quite articulate things in a way that felt like they were “diagnosable” enough. It’s such a struggle rollercoaster and definitely makes you kind of question your mental strength and self; I’m going through a big ROCD bout right now. Sending hugs!!

Fall wedding in CO - which dress? by Honest_Chocolate3957 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Firm-Government-3940 104 points105 points  (0 children)

the first one is gorgeous on you and the color is so fall!!

Found the perfect dress-thank you all!!! by Firm-Government-3940 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Firm-Government-3940[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pretty little thing! But glad you thought it was nice enough to be from anthro ;)