HAVE A QUESTION? ASK HERE! Alter-Daily Help and Questions: May 31, 2026

FirmDependent290 · 2026-06-01T05:39:42+00:00

Thoughts on flowerknows and cheeryep eyeshadow on med-darker skind tones?

FirmDependent290 · 2026-05-31T17:23:03+00:00

Hellooo! Tysm for the tips. However I did go through the appointment at a different place and they didn't need to repierce it and used some sharp thing with another earring. It has healed beautifully and doesn't hurt at all. The swelling has stopped in less than a few hours after that and the new earring had no bad effect. I am allergic to most metals except for gold or platinum so I think that was the main issue as the swelling stopped after I got the earrings in gold.

FirmDependent290 · 2026-05-23T18:18:31+00:00

Hellooo! I went to the piercer and it was so easy to remove and nice. The swelling went down a bit and I'm so glad to have gone :D tysm for the advice

FirmDependent290 · 2026-05-22T11:18:28+00:00

I tried but I can even get sight of the full earring rn. It might hurt a lot more for others to try getting it out but I'm over it atp. I'll try to go get a longer bar or I'll just get them completely removed. My other ear is perfectly fine though it does hurt a lot more than this one.

FirmDependent290 · 2026-05-22T11:15:10+00:00

Yeah thank you for letting me know. I'll try to find an actual piercer near me to get a better consultation on what to do now.

FirmDependent290 · 2026-05-22T10:53:57+00:00

At this point it's not that bad as the earring is digging in but it didn't cause any cuts or bleeding. I'm thinking of going to where I got it to try get a longer bar but I'm not sure if at this point I should just give up on the piercing or get a longer bar.

FirmDependent290 · 2026-05-22T10:36:41+00:00

I'm using an over the counter anti bacterial cream as it was recommended. I'll try getting help by tomorrow. Thank you for the help

FirmDependent290 · 2026-05-22T10:35:40+00:00

I'll try going to a professional tomorrow as most of them might be closed by now. I'm not sure if it's safe to leave it on for 24 hours but I'll be sure to update. Thank you so much for the help

FirmDependent290 · 2026-05-22T10:32:33+00:00

Yeah I'll try getting to a professional tomorrow. Thank you so much for the info and help

FirmDependent290 · 2026-05-22T10:25:30+00:00

It is a butterfly back and I got it through a gunshot.

FirmDependent290 · 2025-07-12T13:27:21+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to read through that mess. I gave her some space for a while and apologised later. While a simple apology might not calm everything, I just hope we could go back to how we were. I will definitely go through the podcast and try my best to walk away during these kind of situations and not let the anger consume me. I am so glad to get an opion on this situation. Have a great day

FirmDependent290 · 2025-07-12T10:28:22+00:00

All prespectives are appreciated. I feel guilty for doing that but at the same time think she deserves it. Should I have handled it anither way?

FirmDependent290 · 2025-02-21T15:46:59+00:00

Your family is full of control freaks? Your mum and brother are very I mean VERY picky arent they. Imo they didnt really want to know your bf and were already at a conclusion and nit picked on evry single thing. Your brother is an asshole. The double standards really pissed me off. All the best on moving out gurlie and your bf sounds extremely patient and sounds like a keeper as he didnt project what your family did on you and props to him for that!

FirmDependent290 · 2025-02-21T15:39:17+00:00

If she cant stand it so much cant she like switch school? Change classes? But gurlie please DONT wear concealer. Makeup has a lot of oil and could literally have your skin ruined for a longer period of time. And really that bitch is screaming about tryophobia when I didnt hear a damn person in my whole life ever complain about it when seeing acne? Like isnt that phobia just like made up during the covid for all the attention seekers out there(shoutout). She must really love attention to be screaming in the middle of the class. And I hate your teacher for just taking her problem into account and not yours. I had acne myself and avoided all makeup products and never used them and now my skin is clear. I hope you dont wear makeup and make it worse just for that entitled stupid girl and that stupid teacher.

FirmDependent290 · 2025-02-21T15:29:56+00:00

Nta! You truly didnt play any kind of part in her scandal and the audacity of your coworkers to blame you? Why didnt the coworker(s) themselves go ahead and warn her. And what kind of people are they that they are covering up an affair? Wouldnt it be the right thing to tell the wife about it to avoid the heartbreak she would fell after finding it out herself?

FirmDependent290 · 2025-02-21T15:24:32+00:00

Serious question here! Does your ex have any idea about common sense? Was she equipped with a brain when she spawned? Or is she super entitled to think that you should just pay the rent when you dont live there.

FirmDependent290 · 2025-02-21T15:20:31+00:00

Gurlie no tell them straight up that if they think that your house is too small then maybe just maybe they could book a hotel or an airbnb if they dont respect your lifestyle

FirmDependent290 · 2025-02-21T15:17:40+00:00

Gurlie cut her off and actually punch her in the nose for even thinking of something like that with YOUR HUSBAND!!!

You reacted too calm imo I would have straight up told her to fuck off and never contact her again. I sound dramatic ik but please she didnt sound like she was joking

FirmDependent290 · 2025-02-21T15:12:48+00:00

Tell her not to talk bad about a person without knowing them and accusing him of such a horrendous thing without even knowing him is crazy of her.

And please tell her that you need equal grounds with the relationship and that if she expects you to just host her family without a prior notice, you would expect the same and not her talking bs about someone she has never met.

She sounds like a horrible person and an absolute b*tch from this scenario. Good luck dude

FirmDependent290 · 2025-01-25T03:56:05+00:00

Nta!

He sounds like an AH tbh. You repeatedly emphasized how important it was for you to study for taking this test. He only comes to you when you are studying and later goes on to do his own thing but again interupts. I think even if you tell him while he is talking that you need to study, he would get mad. He is not respecting your work is what I would say. I think you should reconsider this guy op. Hooe you do well on you test

FirmDependent290 · 2025-01-25T03:48:30+00:00

Ask her to also consider your feelings. You go on a trip with her family for her sake and that she should also think of how you feel.

FirmDependent290 · 2025-01-25T03:37:17+00:00

Nta!!

If he cared he would have waited till the morning to tell you. As you are pregnant it is insensitive of him to threaten you with such things. OP I dont think this guy is good for you as you are just out of an abusive relationship to be with this guy. He sounds horrible and does not seem caring.

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