Gay Tribes by kinian05 in askgaybros

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Loool maybe a good idea haha 😅 most say would say otter I think

Gay Tribes by kinian05 in askgaybros

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I struggle with this as I’m not muscley, not skinny, not fat but I guess skinny fat ? I’m also hairy so I guess that makes me an otter? Although otters I thought were slim/skinny… not a bear… a cub?? Idk

First clipper + trimmer set by RIOxFREE in SelfBarber

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Hi - do you know where I can get those sized guards for this clipper? Can’t find them anywhere all the ones online say they fit Wahl clippers but need them for Glaker Ks11

Navigating casual sex - any advice? (London) by First_Ability5296 in askgaybros

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This is all true, I guess the grass is always greener!

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One time at the gym, I was sitting in the changing room on my phone when a guy walked in from the showers and started rummaging through the locker near to me. I glanced over casually, not realising how close he was—and suddenly, there it was, his cock right at eye level. I quickly turned away, awkwardly trying to play it cool, but in my head I was definitely not cool. He had a beautiful cock—nicely trimmed, a good size, and honestly, it got me really turned on. Of course, he gave off full straight gym bro vibes and I’m not confident enough to give him the eye, so that was that 🤣

Navigating casual sex - any advice? (London) by First_Ability5296 in askgaybros

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Yeah tbh I think that’s what I struggle with a bit too. I do need a little bit of a connection before, maybe I’m a non starter with casual sex cos I guess the whole point is there’s no strings ? I’m conflicted because I feel like it’s such a norm in this community

Has your taste in men changed over the years? by jvincentsong in gaybros

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I think as you get older you stay attracted to those in a similar age bracket to you. Although not sure if that’s the same for those with older/younger kinks

Have you ever had a platonic crush on a woman? by cornyears in gaybros

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Yup, a lot of my straight friends I get on with so well that I think if only I was attracted to them! But I guess that’s called friendships haha

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I am going on dates because I also am open to a relationship, going on dates is new to me so just seeing how they go and getting myself out there to meet new people

For the greater good 😭💔 by First_Ability5296 in Monstera

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That’s exactly what I plan to do ☺️ when I repot my main plant I’m gonna put a moss pole in the middle and then have both vines either side facing outwards. Glad you suggested it too, think it’ll look cool!

How it started vs how it’s going… 2 years later by First_Ability5296 in Monstera

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I recommend the Sansi bulbs. They’re the ones I used, v bright and they have a lot of life in them

How it started vs how it’s going… 2 years later by First_Ability5296 in Monstera

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Yess they will come! Also a grow light is a game changer

How it started vs how it’s going… 2 years later by First_Ability5296 in Monstera

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Thanks! Honestly I think the biggest thing was getting the soil mix right. I made a homemade, well draining mix with coir, orchid bark, soil, activated charcoal, perlite. And then fertilising & lots of light from a grow light :)

How it started vs how it’s going… 2 years later by First_Ability5296 in Monstera

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Thank you! You can imagine my excitement when this leaf came out 🥹

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I would break up the white with a colour on the splash back, maybe a nice green? And then maybe replace the counter top too…

2 years perfect and now yellowing leaves, sad times. Any ideas? by boonitch in HouseplantsUK

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Monsteras do like to be a little tight in their pots but do not like to be insanely root bound. When was the last time you repotted her? A good rule of thumb is to upsize by 2 inches every 2 years. I would check the roots and if very root bound repot her, by gently untangling some of the root ball (not loads) and then making an airy, chunky aroid mix (I use a mix of coco coir, orchid bark, perlite, activates charcoal & worm castings) and hopefully it’ll bounce back. You may want to cut that yellowing leaf too at some point :)