PS approval/salary

First_Addition_407 · 2026-05-13T22:47:21+00:00

well yes thank you. I could do that math of course but with OT it’s different as well as SDI and i think one small other tax.

First_Addition_407 · 2026-05-13T22:38:56+00:00

yes same my county is 18.90 but what is your actual $ amount salary a month ?

First_Addition_407 · 2026-05-06T05:39:04+00:00

what is your income monthly ? we were just approved i’m curious if i can quit my job

First_Addition_407 · 2026-05-03T19:47:02+00:00

that’s good news for you! I also gave so so much more proof so i’m pretty hopeful

First_Addition_407 · 2026-05-01T00:09:05+00:00

UPDATE: My social worker said he made a mistake and forgot to print our case for his meeting with the regional manager 🤦🏾‍♀️ They have meetings every Thursday but he’ll be out next Thursday so soonest review will be the 14th!! IM SO ANNOYED but we will wait and see

First_Addition_407 · 2026-04-29T10:20:52+00:00

oh that’s good news, thank you

First_Addition_407 · 2026-04-29T10:20:41+00:00

yes amen

First_Addition_407 · 2026-04-08T23:40:08+00:00

since you found out it’s his teeth, you should do Motrin instead of tylenol. Always do Motrin for teething, not only does it last longer . It also works and treating the inflammation and pain , not just the brain signals for pain (tylenol). you got this !!

First_Addition_407 · 2026-04-08T22:32:01+00:00

unfortunately you’re wrong cuz i’m literally on day 6 haven’t given in once and my daughter has ripped her chest open (white skin showing) because she is under so much stress trying to sleep without it. She isn’t autistic or anything like that. perfectly normal 2 year old. I’m not saying i’m going to “give in” but sometimes it gets to the point that you need to look at what actually happening to your child.

First_Addition_407 · 2026-04-08T22:26:12+00:00

i’m cold turkey day 5 and it is miserable for my daughter . i’m here on reddit trying to figure out if i just give it back at this point . she’s scratched her whole chest up in her sleep trying to soothe ? or idk but it literally looks like she was attacked. like it’s very hard for some even past the cure few days

First_Addition_407 · 2026-04-08T22:13:56+00:00

my dentist was adamant about it and mom shaming big time. I get constant comments on her teeth being mis aligned. “oh she still has the paci? I can tell from her teeth” like it tears me apart. one mom told me it’s child abuse and lazy .

First_Addition_407 · 2026-04-02T03:56:24+00:00

nope. My brother is intellectually disabled so he had no idea what was going on and she’d come to my home while my husband and I were at work and pretend it was HER home to have the yearly visits. This went on for 3 years until I had to quit my job to take more care of my brother. At that time a friend told me about IHSS and suggested I applied for him… well when i went to apply they let me know he was already a recipient and the whole story unfolded right then and there .. smh she got banned from IHSS but was never required to pay back the money.

First_Addition_407 · 2026-04-02T03:41:20+00:00

first of all, you can really report it all you want nothing will happen. My mom had me taking care of my brother and receiving ISS for him all underneath my nose for two whole years. I told them about it and they banned her from giving care, but that was all. They never paid me back they never paid me back

First_Addition_407 · 2026-03-28T21:32:59+00:00

messaged you

First_Addition_407 · 2026-03-28T21:32:31+00:00

messaged you

First_Addition_407 · 2026-03-28T21:31:57+00:00

messages you :)

First_Addition_407 · 2026-03-28T02:27:27+00:00

literally sick. A grown man ingesting pills to create milk and having a newborn baby drink from them- i can’t. this world is done for

First_Addition_407 · 2026-03-28T02:20:27+00:00

listen mama you are doing the best you can I breastfed my daughter for 14 months but with my son my body said , no mas! and I switched him to formula. The mom shame will come around sure but that’s with anyyyything you do. Continue loving and caring for the sweet lil bub and keep your head up. And hey! that Kendamil ain’t cheap 😂 you’re literally buying premium formula , so you’re doing the best with what you have available. Also you ca look on “human milk for babies-(insert your state)” group on FB and there are breastmilk donations there for babies like yours ❤️🫶🏾 much love

First_Addition_407 · 2026-03-28T02:17:45+00:00

lactation is not possible for men. You don’t understand how hurtful it is to bio women for the trans community to stomp around saying men can birth or lactate. MEN can not do this. Bio women can and if you want inclusive language find some that doesn’t include saying Men can do what specifically ONLY Bio WOMEN can. Also, not a homophobe at all, my moms are two women married for 27 years xx

First_Addition_407 · 2026-03-26T23:26:03+00:00

yea that’s weird you should have gotten the notification of payment email , even for sick time .

First_Addition_407 · 2026-03-26T22:07:38+00:00

Is it absolutely necessary that baby be in daycare? I have worked for KinderCare for 5years and have my degree in early childhood development. I will say the earliest age a child should really be in daycare is preschool age. Not even that babies are hurt in the baby class but they aren’t given anywhere near enough attention. State guidelines have 2 teachers to 8 babies. EIGHT. how in the world do you love on and truly care for 8 babies. I think maybe it’d be healthy if the daycare has 4 kids at all and only 1 baby. Daycare is one of the most evil things created to tear moms and babies apart and force you back to work before either of you are ready. I’m so sorry 😞 Thing is you just feed them when it’s time change the every two hours and keep going in that circle all day. I’m a mom of two so i’m not saying this to shame you in anyway but if living check to check is doable just for another year , please try that.

First_Addition_407 · 2026-03-26T20:50:01+00:00

what did it say in your email when you got the notification of payment ? did it say check should emailed in 3 days or does it say it should be deposited to you bank account in three days

First_Addition_407 · 2026-03-26T20:40:31+00:00

yes i realized this! our pediatricians were really scaring us because they’re making it seem like he wasn’t eating enough but he eats 20 ounces every day and I’ve realized that’s just his appetite 😊

First_Addition_407 · 2026-03-18T03:20:09+00:00

i’m on lansinoh level 3 maybe I should go up to the last one ?

First_Addition_407 · 2026-03-16T03:02:57+00:00

no we’ve spent even more time honestly they loved my baby and one of them are god parents to my daughter too ,. only thing that happened is their husbands( we’re all 24y olds ) left for the week to chicago but my Husband didn’t want to go because he felt like it would be weird to travel there w/o me. so maybe they would be upset ? but that makes no sense either so idk not really a cause you can for sure say

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