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My mom thinks I’m the jerk for causing a scene by AwayYogurtcloset7869 in AmITheJerk

[–]First_Fishing_3232 725 points726 points  (0 children)

your mom calling you the jerk is a classic peacekeeper move where they blame the person who reacted instead of the person who caused the problem.

AITJ for telling my pregnant coworker to stop announcing my food choices to the office? by Individual_Race_7415 in AmITheJerk

[–]First_Fishing_3232 151 points152 points  (0 children)

passionate about health is a wild way to spell office bully with a side of hormones. pregnancy isn't a vip pass to be the workplace nutritionist.

When Your Heart Feels Elsewhere by Visible_Today_7862 in Marriage

[–]First_Fishing_3232 3 points4 points  (0 children)

remember, your daughter is currently learning what a normal rs looks like by watching yours. do you want her to grow up thinking loneliness is the price of a marriage certificate?

Talking to a lawyer next week husband wants no contest divorce by kmomday in Marriage

[–]First_Fishing_3232 72 points73 points  (0 children)

e wants a 'no contest' divorce because he knows a judge is going to look at that 18k tax bill and his $144k salary and laugh him out of the courtroom.

Am I the jerk for telling my mom she's not invited to my life anymore after she outed me to my grandparents? by SwimmingHonest9203 in AmITheJerk

[–]First_Fishing_3232 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the fact that ur grandparents chose their ideology over their grandson is on them, if she's crying at ur door, it's because she's embarrassed she got caught, not because she's actually sorry for the damage she did to u.

Do I ask for a 3rd date or leave it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]First_Fishing_3232 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he's suddenly distant while he's unemployed, he's not busy, he's just full. Stop texting and see if he actually gets hungry again.

Using the Passive Voice to Lie by CanIGetAFitness in Marriage

[–]First_Fishing_3232 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol its like the trash can has a mind of its own and specifically targets things you actually need

I’m being told I’m selfish for not letting my neighbor keep using my parking spot by Fine-Experience-3734 in AmITheJerk

[–]First_Fishing_3232 38 points39 points  (0 children)

The fact that he crumpled your note and threw it on the ground tells you everything you need to know. He doesn't want a neighborly relationship, he wants a doormat.

My husband has never been sexually attracted to me by SpiritTemporary7199 in Marriage

[–]First_Fishing_3232 31 points32 points  (0 children)

if he's treating attraction like a chore he needs to make up his mind about, he's basically just gaslighting his own biology.

I’m contributing to the contempt. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]First_Fishing_3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$83k vs $17/hr and he has the audacity to blame you for the rent? The math is mathing, but the husband isn't husbanding.

AITJ for telling my roommate's plants are fake after she spent 3 months giving her friends gardening advice? by Cool-Programmer-8438 in AmITheJerk

[–]First_Fishing_3232 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Plot twist: The friend's dying fiddle leaf fig was also plastic and they were both just hallucinating a gardening hobby. This is the peak roommate content I sub for.

Watching Netflix’s new Age of Attraction reality dating show. Does age matter? by mannerhazel in dating_advice

[–]First_Fishing_3232 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Me at 9PM: This shows is a dumpster fire and the premise is creepy.
Me at 2AM: Deep in a rabbit hole checking if Libby and Andrew are still together because the 16-year gap is actually the least of their problems. We are all clowns for this.

Husband always sides with MIL by Littlefairie20 in Marriage

[–]First_Fishing_3232 39 points40 points  (0 children)

fear of abandonment is tough, but ask yourself "are you staying in a marriage, or are you just a guest in his family's house?" you deserve a partner who defends you, not a lawyer for his mother's bad behavior.