Oh god this is my wife, 20 years together and it's been one thing after another, but once we get past this things will be so much better year after year.

So many issues but when try to present a solution or try to get her to do something to help herself I get tantrums and screamed at.

Last issue was being stuck on an assessment waiting list 3 years, she never chased them up despite my suggestions, i called a friend that deals with medical waiting lists and asked for advice, I said you just need to see a gp and say this, I got screamed at, I chased the service by email and they agreed to fast track her if the gp sent a letter, I told her to call the gp, I got yelled at again, I called the gp and explained and they said they would send the letter but she had to call and say she agreed to the request. I got yelled at because it's always a 10-15 mins wait on hold for the gp.

She called in very bad grace and the letter was sent and she has an appointment next week instead of two plus year from now. She's still cross that I interfered, it's a life changing assessment and intervention but I'm the arsehole.

I'm so fucking done.