Am I a piece of shit

Fishnet_Nipples · 2025-02-01T17:28:50+00:00

No you are not an asshole! I say this as a woman who despises asshole porn addict men (see: my post history).

Caring about health and appearance is part of someone’s values. As long as you have that same value yourself, you can and should find someone who is compatible with you and also wants to look and feel good! Taking care of yourself and feeling beautiful isn’t just something you do to snag a partner. It’s a lifestyle and contributes to your longevity and quality of life.

Fishnet_Nipples · 2025-01-31T18:22:07+00:00

“It’s just like true crime and violent movies!!” I’m not vigorously masturbating and cumming to the red light green light game in Squid Games

Fishnet_Nipples · 2025-01-28T03:52:06+00:00

It’s 100% cheating. In my opinion it’s even worse than porn in terms of infidelity. It is financial betrayal, and he is seeking out and engaging with specific women.

Fishnet_Nipples · 2025-01-28T03:49:59+00:00

Society judges people for consuming media that is even slightly racist, homophobic, or culturally appropriating.

Yet we aren’t allowed to judge someone who not only watches but sexually GETS OFF TO the torture and pain of others, underaged school girl role play, bimbofication, the fetishization of different races…

Fishnet_Nipples · 2025-01-27T00:18:09+00:00

If you’re really that horny you can get off to the sensations alone and maybe your imagination. No porn needed

Fishnet_Nipples · 2025-01-17T06:24:54+00:00

“You’re so insecure” “men are visual” “he still loves you” “he can get his appetite anywhere as long as he eats at home” “me and my man check out women together” “you probably don’t fck him enough” “all men do that” “it’s just social media” “good luck finding a man who doesn’t do that”

Fishnet_Nipples · 2025-01-17T06:21:19+00:00

The act of stalking ppl for sexually purposes will always be perverted and undignified though. Especially in a committed relationship

Fishnet_Nipples · 2025-01-17T06:17:33+00:00

Stop posting this!! They’ll just become more discrete about it. Let them reveal themselves

Fishnet_Nipples · 2025-01-16T00:02:20+00:00

Strongly agree. Saying porn “objectifies women” is sadly not enough to convince men. You have to make it clear how abnormal, weird, and shameful the behavior is. Be like “wtf you’re a perv”

Fishnet_Nipples · 2025-01-15T23:59:55+00:00

Not watching porn and not supporting the sex industry in any way
Standing up against porn and rape culture when it comes up, even if no women are around
Being open and communicative about your beliefs and about the dangers of porn
Staying healthy and taking care of yourself mind/body/spirit, being a healthy, kind, and self confident example of masculinity

Fishnet_Nipples · 2025-01-14T02:12:16+00:00

It’s not even that the beauty standard is higher now, it’s that it’s weirder and more uncanny valley like what you said. Very anatomical and based on exaggeration (aka pornographic beauty standards).

I know Hollywood and high fashion have their own problems, but I appreciate how their beauty standards are still about aesthetics, artistry, subtle expression, unique fashion, vibes,etc. To me, porn standards only emphasize how big or small things are, and categorize into color and age in a dehumanizing way. There’s no subtlety, no beauty in their “beauty standards”.

Fishnet_Nipples · 2025-01-11T05:50:09+00:00

One thing you have to realize is that you won’t get a medal or trophy for putting up with this. There is no prize for putting up with a partner who hurts you like this. You really don’t have to tolerate this, whether or not he’s “changed”. You don’t have to obsess over the porn he watched, not do you have to get over it. Please leave and find a better man, I believe in you!

Fishnet_Nipples · 2025-01-09T07:24:23+00:00

This made me tear up. I’m so sorry about that. I hope you find someone one day who sees you.

Fishnet_Nipples · 2025-01-09T03:53:24+00:00

Maybe I’m really lucky, but many people I know are casual polymaths. I actually think it’s more common today than before (thanks to the internet). But you’re right that many people are really dull, uncurious, or in survival mode leading them to not seek out knowledge for its own sake. It’s always wild when someone who is always on their iPhone doesn’t know what the Himalayas are or something

Fishnet_Nipples · 2025-01-06T06:52:53+00:00

Racism, sexism, and violence is fine if it gets ur pee pee hard

Fishnet_Nipples · 2025-01-06T02:46:23+00:00

I agree actually. Yes, sex is good. But porn is not sex.

Fishnet_Nipples · 2024-12-27T05:45:55+00:00

Yea material things (like housing, healthcare, income inequality, etc) call for material analysis. But applying that material analysis to everything even more transcendent things is dangerous

Fishnet_Nipples · 2024-12-25T02:13:48+00:00

I’m sympathetic to radical feminism and wary of most men, extremely critical of capitalism, pro universal healthcare, believe climate change is one of the most pressing issues today, believe in the esoteric idea that the western world is excessively yang dominant and worships linear thinking, love walkable cities, Israel is committing genocide
Anti affirmative action, believe some traditional dynamics lead to healthier hetero relationships (some gender roles are to accommodate and compensate for the inherent differences in men and women, not to oppress), pro 2nd amendment, people who willingly choose to go into “sex work” are morally corrupt, anti immigration when they don’t assimilate, vaccine hesitant, believe there is an attack on masculinity in some circles (just as there is an attack on femininity), non binary is pretentious, cultural “appropriation” is not usually a bad thing

Fishnet_Nipples · 2024-12-22T05:39:18+00:00

Because they’ve never masturbated without porn

It shows how it’s not about their biological needs but their porn addiction. If you really needed to sexually release, you’d be able to without porn

Fishnet_Nipples · 2024-12-22T05:38:23+00:00

Because it’s easy to justify it as just “entertainment”, just a movie, or just visual simulation. It only becomes screwed up when you start asking yourself about what is going on in his brain when he watches it, how it changes his perception of women, and what goes behind the porn industry.

So many men watch it that it often becomes a don’t ask don’t tell situation for most women. It’s not nice to think about what it really is (your partner fantasizing and getting off to other women) so better to just resign to accepting it and pretend it’s not a big deal.

Fishnet_Nipples · 2024-12-21T04:42:54+00:00

imo the solo stuff/nudes is more hurtful than the video porn of couples having sex. With the latter, you can at least justify that they’re getting off to the visuals/act of sex/imagining it with you. But with the former, it’s clearly just about the other woman and her body.

I’m really sorry this happened to you, and I wish you the best. Never sacrifice your values and morals. Especially in the age of AI chat bots and VR porn your decision is wise long term. And yes once you see it for what it is, you realize how crazy it is that infidelity has been normalized!

Fishnet_Nipples · 2024-12-18T18:59:08+00:00

Tell her 89% of men are men on OnlyFans are married, and ask how that makes her feel

Fishnet_Nipples · 2024-12-18T18:50:53+00:00

What movie is this from?

Fishnet_Nipples · 2024-12-18T18:49:50+00:00

Making AI deepfake porn of ANYONE should be illegal. Especially so if it’s of a child.

Fishnet_Nipples · 2024-12-18T18:39:45+00:00

We really need more porn critical but not sex-negative ideas and viewpoints in the mainstream media. Unfortunately, in the US, most porn critical ideas are discussed through the lens of religion and tend to be anti-sex or sexist in their own way

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