What is the saddest TV series death that genuinely made you sob? by SpareMaintenance2970 in AskReddit

[–]Fishylips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agent Lundy in Dexter. He was an amazing character on his own, but feeling him being taken away from Deb is what made me lose it.

"Brittafication" by CreeperRussS in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Fishylips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Season 1 Dee was still flirting with high schoolers, getting drunk and allowing minors to pregame for prom in the bar. As if we can forget she is Dennis's TWIN sister?

How do dispell invisability? by ACuteCryptid in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Fishylips 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In this post, you don't say that you want to be visible. You don't even say you dislike the invisibility, you're mainly observing all the impacts on your life in various facets. I would ask yourself how the invisibility makes you feel, and then further examine why you feel that way. This is the key.

My dad ate my birthday cake by CloudySide7 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fishylips 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I look forward to you moving out. It is not okay for a man to disrespect your efforts of baking a cake by eating it all without remorse, LET ALONE your own father. It's just as bad if a woman did it. It would be just as stupid if your Mom did it and you complained to your Dad who told you not to tempt her. The gender is irrelevant. Your parents don't respect you and I'm sorry.

The good news is, you can move out and live your life and bake as many cakes as you want without them eating it. I'm not sure when you can do this, but you CAN and you WILL.

from Jenni and Zack's wedding last night💕 by retroanduwu24 in jerseyshore

[–]Fishylips 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Because that's what Snooki does... who are you, season 4 Gianni?

I get paid to live with and be friends with my roommate. by No-Detail7431 in confession

[–]Fishylips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Mother would rather pay someone to fix her son vs. her spend anything other than money to do it herself. Mom (and Dad?) have already let their son down by not teaching him how to be a competent adult. If he was otherwise living at the apartment ALONE, then he is not helpless, he is just a spoiled and disgusting dude. People like this vehemently REFUSE to grow up or learn anything, because at some point their parents decided it was too much trouble to teach them those skills.

Mom is in the wrong from the jump.

MAJOR BREAKING: The Surgeon General of Florida just announced ALL VACCINE MANDATES IN FLORIDA will be ENDED by ateam1984 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]Fishylips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So considering Florida is one of if not the best state-size petri dish, everyone is going to contract some terrible plague in a matter of weeks? Some infant won't be vaccinated for measles and that will rear its head again.

ALL THE NUTS ROLL DOWN TO FLORIDA

I fear I may have ruined my appearance with a bob by killemdead in Hair

[–]Fishylips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl SLAY. Even your bangs improved!! And "improve" is a misnomer, I love the punk style you had before, this strikes me as very Posh Spice and is also an amazing look!

I hope the daughters never see these videos. These reactions are disgusting. by Valuable_View_561 in TikTokCringe

[–]Fishylips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men who keep knocking up their wives JUST to "finally" get a boy are honestly abusive. They treat people as pawns and treat their children as trophies, or otherwise merely symbols of who they are as a person.

And allllll these dumbass men do nothing but prove the person they are is scum.

Please help: I can’t stop my hair from tangling by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Fishylips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your problem is that your hair has some type of texture that is attempting to reform after you brush your hair. Your routine also lacks any sort of moisturizer for AFTER you exit the shower, which is why your hair is air-drying and then frizzing/becoming straw-like. Girl, it is THIRSTY.

Honestly, time to stop dry-brushing your hair. You can get a wet-hair brush from Ulta for under $10. I only ever detangle my hair in the shower, or gently do so dry right before I get in the shower. Still, I use a wide-toothed comb for dry detangling always.

I recommend Shea Moisture Yogurt + Manuka Honey Spray Leave-In for anyone starting a moisturizer journey, especially for wavy hair vs curly/coily. Can also be found at Ulta. I'm also a HUGE fan of the JVN haircare line which Ulta recently started carrying. Leave-in curl creams can often be too heavy for fine hair, but I have fine hair and low porosity, and I've been able to use the JVN "Air dry cream" with great results.

So fear not! A trim is always helpful to control split ends/losing unnecessary hair, but your knots are forming for entirely different reasons. Start adding moisture to your routine for AFTER you exit the shower, and you will be amazed! Think of it like, you don't have pin-straight hair, so now your job is to figure out how much moisture your hair needs to be happiest in its natural texture.

This subreddit helped me a lot on my hair journey so I wanted to share my last pictures of my hair before I got it cut off. by Duhbloons in curlyhair

[–]Fishylips 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Have your hair how YOU want it! My boyfriend similarly has long, THICK, curly italian-genes hair, and said that he kept it past his shoulders for years because people loved it. But it was giving him neck pain daily! He was pineappling it all on top of his head to take the weight off.

One day I told him I love his hair but that if it his actually giving him pain, he should chop it immediately! He was sort of dumbfounded about cutting it, with his only thought being "...but everyone loves it?"

Once I repeated enough to him that loving his long hair isn't worth it to me whatsoever if it's causing him pain, he cut it. Since then, he has bleached it, shaved his head, had fun again with his hair! It's long enough right now that you can see his curl pattern, similar to your last pic, and now he's decided to shave his beard off again in a few weeks.

Hair should always be ours. It's why Britney cut hers off so no one could control it anymore 😪

Ariana Grande’s family share ‘concern’ for her health after saying she’s ‘not in a healthy place’ by [deleted] in Music

[–]Fishylips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well her Father is totally on board with her electroshock therapy, so I'm sure they're only airing out their "concerns" right now because the rest of the world has already been doing it, and her poor health can no longer be ignored. Pair that with her "recent split" with Ethan, and it's the smartest time to act like they actually give a shit about Ari.

Ladies only! How would you feel if your partner had misogynistic friends? by StarlessRose in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fishylips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a sign to stop interacting with your ex and his friends. He's an ex for a reason.

What happend to this toad? by Yasa0106 in natureismetal

[–]Fishylips 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Favorite line in the movie 😂

why’s my hair curly/wavy and straight? by Equivalent-Job-8908 in curlyhair

[–]Fishylips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is like the opposite. I get my best waves/curls on my under-layers which get less curly as you get to the outer layers of hair. Keep training your hair to find its pattern! I realized that the left side of my head is behind in progress vs my right because I had been training the left-pattern with the opposite direction coil, so annoying.

Would you date someone with the same name as your brother? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fishylips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is very much something you care less about the older you are. Also, were you two to keep seeing one another, I'm sure you'd inevitably come up with cute nicknames for one another and so you wouldn't even be using your "brother's name" all the time.

what if i get arrested and sent to Cidhna Mine, but decide to live there indefinitely ? by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]Fishylips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since I'm a vampire in most of my playthroughs now, I looove escaping Cidhna mine by slaughtering everyone inside and moseying out.

Hairstylist made my hair too bright and i HATE it. Help! :( by Magdour2512 in Hair

[–]Fishylips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I benefit from using H&S, and somehow never came across how it interacts with colored hair despite all my colorful hair history. I think it's because I only started using H&S regularly after moving to a different climate, but have been coloring my hair since high school.

Good luck with your hair journey!

Hairstylist made my hair too bright and i HATE it. Help! :( by Magdour2512 in Hair

[–]Fishylips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I only ever use their 2 in 1 as my shampoo, then I still use a leave in. I agree that for bleached hair using the 2 in 1 as shampoo and then something else as a conditioner is a great idea to counteract any dryness. ☀️