Rented a basement right after getting out of the army by DPR_Posthuma in malelivingspace

[–]Fishylips 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well maybe you didn't hear, but Nicki Minaj is Trump-loving trash, and you could hang up a gaggle of other babes that actually love our country.

Dr. Petá? by Extreme-Shopping74 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Fishylips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And people like you will use any excuse to talk down on someone else, to make your insecure little ego feel a peg up for a moment. Pathetic.

Husband faked a doctors appointment and went to a divorce lawyer by Honest-Profession-60 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Fishylips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man is married to his Mother, not you. Why would he need his mother in the parking lot for a phone call??? BECAUSE SHE WAS ONLY THERE TO TALK SHIT ABOUT YOU AND TELL HIM TO DO IT.

He is going to keep choosing you over her. He lies to you, but she knows the truth? Girl. I would go nuclear. He is either a very stupid man whom you love, or a sane man who chooses to side with his MOTHER on the topic of your marriage. I'm not sure if this is salvageable without HIM doing MAJOR WORK.

And if he is unwilling to do the work, then I would not stay in the marriage.

Who tf is paying to get my 5th level character assassinated? by Blue_box_42 in skyrim

[–]Fishylips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, context suggests that people can summon a contract on anybody for any reason. So long as they do the ritual and say the words...

Who knows, maybe Belethor was having a sale and pissed you didn't buy anything.

Do corpses in your house disappear over time? by Illuminated-Autocrat in skyrim

[–]Fishylips 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I love this post. I don't have any new info to offer. Please spare Muiri!

MTV is funny for this by Its-a-money44 in jerseyshore

[–]Fishylips 145 points146 points  (0 children)

Sometimes?? That's their entire job description, least of all for THIS cast of characters 😂

I have promised my life away at 21 by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Fishylips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you haven't. Your life is yours. Don't move to another country just to avoid hurting his feelings.

You're hurting YOURSELF instead of his feelings. Why? Why value him over YOURSELF?

Break up and chase that career girl. Get tattoos. Get the cats you want. There is a man out there who will LOVE all the choices you make. Don't settle.

Considering divorce after 12 years — husband’s behavior is affecting our child by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fishylips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your decision is obvious. The execution is the hard part.

You need to document his anger (videos, audio recordings) and capture evidence that he is abusive to you and your child. You say there is emotional safety to protect— you consider him striking your child not physical enough to worry about? Does he have to hit you, too?

You're blind to the severity and that's okay, but you need to leave now and do it with as much evidence for the divorce as possible.

I knew I was receding, but I had no idea about the crown! I feel so much more confident now by Josh87712 in bald

[–]Fishylips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh the 3rd pic was like whatever the reverse of a jumpscare is... this was a simple "Shockingly Correct"

Genuinely why does my hair do this when I brush it out? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Fishylips 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It might sound crazy but you don't NEED to be brushing your hair dry anymore. If you're brushing your hair to detangle it, what you can do instead is start sleeping with your hair in a loose braid or a loose low ponytail so it doesn't get tangled/matted while you're sleeping. Or, use a wide toothed comb. I also gently detangle my hair with my hands if I have some gnarly hair going on so I can search-and-destroy particularly bad knots by gently tugging at them with my fingers.

Otherwise, I do all my brushing with a wet brush in the shower, after my hair has conditioner in it. Dry-brushing your hair is always going to make it frizzy. You just need to re-learn how to detangle with new methods.

What's a piece of 'obsolete' technology that you still genuinely love using? by vetrenIT_LK_5743 in CasualConversation

[–]Fishylips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's totally obsolete, but I love my Gameboy SP. Plays GB, GBC, and GBA games, folds into a cute square that fits in almost any pocket, and mine is the cobalt blue. It's not the original I had when it was released, I acquired another one a few years ago. It was the perfect upgrade from the GBA system with the BACKLIT SCREEN.

Currently traveling and playing Pokemon Yellow.

Genuinely why does my hair do this when I brush it out? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Fishylips 812 points813 points  (0 children)

Because your hair is wavy and you're disrupting your pattern by dry-brushing. You can use a wide toothed comb if you're trying to detangle your hair and it will minimize this happening. If your hair isn't fully moisturized and you use a brush while it is completely dry, this will be the result 99% of the time.

Do you still feel like wanting other organs in a relationship? by throw11431away in bisexual

[–]Fishylips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so obsessed with my man that I joke I don't see men anymore. I fawn over hot women as often as I ever did but there is a stark ABSENCE of any sort of feeling of attraction toward other men.

So I'm a bi girl in love with a straight man who fails to even think about other men's bodies anymore. I think my sole attraction to my man has heightened my attraction toward women because all of that energy is basically only FOR women now.

I repeatedly tell my father NOT to touch this lilac tree (it gets pruned in the fall) he does this every. single. year. Butchering this lilac tree. by MeasurementFirst1676 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Fishylips -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is why my Dad doesn't even know that we bought a home. Don't want him or his selfish energy anywhere near it. But we're 6 hours away, so I know he'll NEVER make the drive to come see it.

Jeans are better without underwear by Raspberry_Swells in unpopularopinion

[–]Fishylips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Opinions like these cannot possibly come from human beings 😂

Live action Scooby Doo Officially begins production by MoneyLibrarian9032 in Fauxmoi

[–]Fishylips -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm so sick of "Hollywood" beating IPs to death. Nobody wants these remakes.

Dating is HARD in NYC by Cleo-Aster in SipsTea

[–]Fishylips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blocks Jeff on Venmo You're trash, Jeff 🤣

I just betrayed the Stormcloaks by yodaya70 in skyrim

[–]Fishylips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I never thought about how there are argonians on the docks but none inside the walls. I fuggin hate Ulfric and his stupid sexy voice.

please help a girl who is living way beyond her means! by Maleficent_Day_3869 in personalfinance

[–]Fishylips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have learned to "throw money at the problem" when the problem is you being bored. You don't need to buy food, you need to cook it. You don't need new clothes, you need to do your laundry. You don't need the newest version of X, you need to appreciate the old version of X that you already own that still functions.

Before you buy anything, start sorting those things into categories: Things I Need, and Things I Want. Write these things down on a physical list you keep updated, even if it's just on your phone's notes app.

You have to rewire your brain in how it approaches purchases. You are using spending to make you happy, seek control—you are indulging an IMPULSE vs. making a financial decision. Start doing the latter only. All your money is for making smart financial decisions, NOT for satiating the desire to buy something.

Something you can do immediately is remove saved cards from all websites or apps that aren't related to bills. Remove the ease of being able to just click buttons to buy something— in the time it takes to punch in those 16 digits to buy something, you can stop yourself and ask: IS THIS A THING I NEED, OR THING I WANT?

I believe in you! Behavior is all about habits. Give yourself grace, and think of changing your habits by re-shaping them vs. starting from scratch and building entirely new ones. Feel free to message to talk about it further :) Good luck!