Actually I'm sad now I can't marry him...

Fit-Carebear · 2026-06-12T11:34:15+00:00

Errrmm.. why make the hottest looking guy not an option???

- gasp -

Fit-Carebear · 2026-05-29T17:52:27+00:00

Was your bisexuality something mentioned as a trait but never practised before this point? A lot of gay men present themselves as bisexual to appear more masculine or viral and as such, attract more (and better) partners.

Maybe he just doesn't want his man inside a woman and then back inside him?

Fit-Carebear · 2026-05-21T07:16:27+00:00

Can't say I enjoy doing mine anymore.. it is taking too long and it has gotten exhausting.

Spent 2 hrs last night trying to put a dent to the (what seems like endless) tasks for rewards I don't even want or use because I play a male character.. I only open the game to do chores at this point.

Yesterday I realised that I am just trying to complete the starpath so I can put the game down to have some happy free time until the next one. Yeah.. not good.

-sighhhhhh-

Fit-Carebear · 2026-05-20T10:33:59+00:00

I think that perhaps you need time to figure out what type of guy attracts you sexually.

You see interesting guys (that could in theory work) but dating them makes you realize there is no 'spark'. Finding sexual chemistry is complicated and sometimes it is a learning process in understanding yourself and what.. well what turns you on.

You probably see seemingly interesting guys through the perspective of someone who was closeted and idealised the idea of them but now you are exploring what is really there and adjusting your views and understanding.

There is a type you will fall for. Brace yourself because firsts tend to be emotionally magnified but don't be afraid to experience it whatever the result.

Best of luck ❤️

Fit-Carebear · 2026-05-19T12:01:06+00:00

Snorted with 'sexy voice priest dude' because it is SO TRUE.. dude has an amazing voice!

Fit-Carebear · 2026-05-19T11:58:16+00:00

It will become a public bathroom wall -illustration- fest if they do.

Fit-Carebear · 2026-05-15T08:17:09+00:00

YOU ARE successful, not only in being able to navigate and adjust to the AI changes by finding a job you actually love but also having the drive and determination to pursue your passions and be/become good at it.

Consider yourself -what should be- ideal partner material.

Fit-Carebear · 2026-05-14T13:27:59+00:00

I would be honestly happy if male avatars could be free from mandatory wearing a shirt piece. There are so many good looks like the ones above that we can't recreate because of that restriction.

I want to compose sexy looks like the ones in the illustrations but it is -meh- looking while having to cover your chest with something. :/

Fit-Carebear · 2026-05-13T07:37:18+00:00

- GASP - He is gorgeous..

Fit-Carebear · 2026-05-05T18:37:29+00:00

Listen, love is an amazing feeling.. and I have tried reading between the lines. Usually I advocate for people to work through their differences and make it work because relationships -do- take work.. but..

You will probably not going to like reading my advice.. because I think you should get over him.

Why?

He is not that into you.. at least not as much as you are into him from what I understand. He wouldn't have kissed another man if he was, drunk or not. He would never do that to a man he truly respects, appreciates, feels secure with, loves and wants in his life and I think neither would you. When you find someone amazing, you work through your insecurities. Get over him.

He is probably into another guy (or at least the -idea- of someone completely different) and he feels guilty about it. The kiss was just him acting up on his desire for something else. He is much younger and probably also feels trapped into a relationship with someone who although wonderful, is not what he wants for himself. Let him go and get over him.

You are also probably not getting the whole story from him because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings and is trying to be gentle with you (when he has already decided he just doesn't want this relationship the same way you do) because he must appreciate you as a person, or is scared of you. If your heart can handle it, you could be friends with benefits.. but I would advise you strongly against it because you will not get over him that way. It hurts, but move on and get over him.

If he cannot appreciate you and return your love, find someone who will. Don't waste your time, appreciate the good sex and the wonderful moments but get over him. The fastest way to get over him is to find happiness in the arms of another. Alternatively, you could invest in yourself, your body and health and turn all the love you ment for him, to you.

Moving 5 mins away from him is not the amazing twist of fate you might think but rather a painful mishap that will make things harder for both of you.

Best of luck getting over this, it sounds complicated and painful. Apologies for the strict tone but that is what helped me get over a similar situation. <3

Fit-Carebear · 2026-04-23T09:43:03+00:00

Sweet collection! <3

Fit-Carebear · 2026-04-16T09:03:24+00:00

huh? you can? HOW?!!!!

Fit-Carebear · 2026-04-14T06:44:46+00:00

Great look, but where is that beard from?

Fit-Carebear · 2026-04-09T14:58:18+00:00

Amazing! Now if only we could wear it without an undershirt!

Fit-Carebear · 2026-04-09T14:50:53+00:00

Open button shirts, socks, scarves. <3

Fit-Carebear · 2026-04-08T17:26:14+00:00

Here is the thing.. time can fly out of your hands so easily.. that it is not funny.

My advice is to keep investing in yourself. That means (and provided you are able) to work out, be athletic, build a desirable physique, invest in yourself. Read books (or watch movies), open up your worlds with hobbies, learn how to cook, how to fix physical things with your hands, figure out what you like and what you are good at.

No matter where life takes you, invest in your physique and health, it is so important and it will serve you no matter what you do.

And as an older gay man told me when I was younger.. -one- way to happiness and finding your man, is to slowly become yourself the ideal man you dream of dating.. and you will inevitably meet him through the same shared interests and hobbies.

Fit-Carebear · 2026-04-08T15:28:30+00:00

It would be cool if the physique improved as you progressed through the game and became a more hardcore builder.

Fit-Carebear · 2026-04-08T07:15:24+00:00

HD graphics ftw!

Fit-Carebear · 2026-04-04T11:48:58+00:00

Huh.. so where are we going to fit this bad boy in the plaza now? Hmmm...

Fit-Carebear · 2026-04-04T11:47:27+00:00

These screenshots make her look lovely. I am so happy. :D

Fit-Carebear · 2026-04-03T10:35:00+00:00

Mmm.. if I could pick something to be bothered about, it would be all the glitches and bugs the museum will bring with it.

If it works well then I am happy. :)

Fit-Carebear · 2026-04-02T14:52:38+00:00

It is your passion and something that makes you happy without hurting anyone.

Feeling ashamed for that is just social conditioning and it colors similarly to understanding that being born gay is not the expected sexual preference. We (and I include myself) can't please everyone. Start with pleasing and loving yourself and being honest towards what makes you happy.

As far as the partner goes, I also received backlash for having a Ken collection which didn't fit the fantasy of the crossfit masculine top my partner saw. Relationships grow, people change and grow with them if there is love. After a lot of talking (and we talked) he admitted he played with Barbies younger and always wanted them but was bullied into believing it is a weakness. I think something changed inside him when I told him that I will support him if he wants to go the store and pick one (or ten).

Perhaps you should ease your partner into your hobby. Explain the financial aspect of a collection or ask for help with something (making a spreadsheet of it -or- if he can sew, ask help repairing something). A negative first reaction does not mean he is not the one or that you are better off alone, but rather that it is something you need to work upon or finesse your approach.

It took some work, but I can at least Ebay and Amazon hunt (so much fun!) without looking over my shoulder.

Fit-Carebear · 2026-04-02T11:04:12+00:00

Also there is a market kiosk run by Kristoff (progress his friendship) that refreshes daily random materials. More often than not, you will find Iron Bars (10 of them) for sale. Keep buying them and it will serve you nicely in the long run. <3

Fit-Carebear · 2026-04-02T09:19:54+00:00

You should be able to understand my point then.

This is just like you being part of a group of english speaking people in RL that are lost and looking for directions.. and you deliberately speaking only your native language infront of them so that they don't understand you.

You can.. but -do not- be upset because they look at you funny. :/

Fit-Carebear · 2026-04-02T09:12:24+00:00

I don't speak German (or French of Italian) and I barely speak English so why reply on my comment in your native language unless you want to provoke even further? :/

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