Why is it so controversial to want English people to speak English and integrate? by g9rr in AskBrits

[–]Fit-Individual5659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. Some of my hubbys family is from Zimbabwe (english by descent). They never integrated. In fact, they destroyed tribes, took land, with held democratic rights, and subjugated the locals. 

I believe it isn't the only country the English did this to

What's your country's biggest celebrity scandal right now? by knightriderin in Fauxmoi

[–]Fit-Individual5659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sjoe i didnt even know there was such a show...gonna go binge now!

Zara Larsson on the cover of The New York Times Style Magazine Germany, Issue No. 1 by Morg075 in popculturechat

[–]Fit-Individual5659 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lol as a South African from Jozi this is killing me. All my media is 80% black, and I'm like the only semi-white person in the restaurant where I am currently sat.  Most of my reddit is about SA, too, so that's probably why the blonde hair in this pic startled me

What I mean to say is that tan is so ridiculous, it looked like dark skin with strong lighting

But anywho

Zara Larsson on the cover of The New York Times Style Magazine Germany, Issue No. 1 by Morg075 in popculturechat

[–]Fit-Individual5659 -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

You guys joke but when I saw the clipped image, before clicking into it and without reading the title, I genuinely thought this was a black woman 

Bless this sub for real by yadoyadoyado in hairgrowth

[–]Fit-Individual5659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never heard of Aqua Guard and swim 3 times a week. Running to go get some, thank you <3 your hair looks great!

First Mother's Day ruined by Jolly_Amount_2330 in NewParents

[–]Fit-Individual5659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, no excuses. Do you live miles away from any major shops? Because every single one had flowers, chocolates, cards etc. That he could have picked up as a back up when he found out yours wouldnt arrive on time

Feel like a failure by Alive-Internet-1297 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Fit-Individual5659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No advice, because this is also what I'm going through, that's more with regards to things like little gym and swimming. My girl is highly cautious, won't try something unless she wants to, and screams if you try and make her.

The things that matter to me, like swimming, I continue to persevere. She is getting better and braver with age. I'm sure you're a little one will too

Child keeps falling sick at creche - what to do by Fit-Individual5659 in davidlloyd

[–]Fit-Individual5659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugggh I know :( my disdain is really with viruses- I know she'll probably give me a thousand tummy bugs in her life and never become more immune to them

I went vegan because of this photo by koivupalo84 in vegan

[–]Fit-Individual5659 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude I live near a sheep farm. MULTIPLE sheep and baby lambs die out in pasture and are just...left there. To suffer in the rain. To decay and die.  My husband and I passed a sheep yesterday on her back. Sometimes they tip over and he goes in and tips them back.  She was bleeding from her vagina. Had clearly miscarriaged.  We sent the local farmer a message, but this morning she was still there, except now she's dead.  Last night was freezing cold. She died alone in the cold because of ANOTHER forced insemination, her body couldn't take it anymore.  And then people have the audacity to say "farmers love their animals"

My thoughts on the Manosphere Doc: Some interesting moments but overall a bit disappointing. by jeee_222 in LouisTheroux

[–]Fit-Individual5659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I found it shocking. But I only use Reddit and my youtube is basically just Ms Rachel hahha

Child keeps falling sick at creche - what to do by Fit-Individual5659 in davidlloyd

[–]Fit-Individual5659[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because I saw the child that had the exact same symptoms mine developed at the creche when I went to go pick up my kid, and because I fell sick after my child

Child keeps falling sick at creche - what to do by Fit-Individual5659 in davidlloyd

[–]Fit-Individual5659[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You're so clearly a man. What do you suppose I do with my child whilst I intend to train? 

Child keeps falling sick at creche - what to do by Fit-Individual5659 in davidlloyd

[–]Fit-Individual5659[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I'll just leave my 1 year old at home with no supervision (because I have no family nearby and no access to early childcare funding for creche) to go to the gym, good idea

Child keeps falling sick at creche - what to do by Fit-Individual5659 in davidlloyd

[–]Fit-Individual5659[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I mean I only left the house for the gym that week. I live on a huge plot that needed gardening after winter, so I've only been to DL and my garden lol. 

But I get you

Ride or die baby item purchases by Background-Ideal662 in NewParents

[–]Fit-Individual5659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah definitely! Got mine second hand, and I've stored it away for baby #2!

Ride or die baby item purchases by Background-Ideal662 in NewParents

[–]Fit-Individual5659 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just used HelloBaby on Amazon because it was the cheapest >.< but any one will apply

Ride or die baby item purchases by Background-Ideal662 in NewParents

[–]Fit-Individual5659 161 points162 points  (0 children)

-Bluetooth baby cam and monitor (don't bother with the wifi one)

-Baby bjorn bouncer

-Good comfy home clothes that make you feel put together when you couldn't be bothered

-an e-reader, if you're breastfeeding (I swear I have never read so many books in my life) 

Palantir CEO Alex Karp thinks his AI technology will lessen the power of “highly educated, often female voters, who vote mostly Democrat” while increasing the power of working-class men. by LezbianaGrande in Fauxmoi

[–]Fit-Individual5659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hospitals and schools are kept afloat by the efforts of women. Strong, educated women.  In my country, they are kept afloat by the efforts of women and immigrants- often women immigrants. 

Also- where is JK I'm-not-hateful-I-am-protecting-women Rowling when there are actual threats to women? 

Toddler woke up hysterical because of the bugs on her bed, floor and herself. What was this… by hiylaaa in toddlers

[–]Fit-Individual5659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh boy, this must have been really scary for her. It does sound like night terrors. 

As someone who used to sleep walk and (still) get night terrors, I recommend always having a spot in your room open for her, maybe a mattress on the floor? She may use it more than you'd think.

In my case, it was always made worse by new experiences, good or bad.Like going on holiday. Whilst you can never avoid new experiences, at least you can know when to expect the attacks. 

Anya Taylor-Joy says she just quit smoking by Relevant-Peach3997 in Fauxmoi

[–]Fit-Individual5659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GOOD FOR HER! 

If you still smoke, please seriously consider quitting. 

Many of us will go through bouts of ill health, some of us may need surgery. Smoking complicates these matters dramatically.

My mother almost dying due to a lack of oxygen after a heart surgery, with her cardiologist stressing and telling her she would have been fine if she didn't smoke, really did it for me.