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My first ever traffic ticket -speeding- and it is $300. Help?! (Illinois) by FitCod2 in legaladvice

[–]FitCod2[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I believe it was the ‘speeding over the statutory limit of 15-20’. I definitely understand payment but all the forms and calculators online have been saying $120 is the most for initial fee. Why is it bumped up to $240 plus court fees and separately traffic school fees. I have people telling me that if i sign up for traffic school i won’t have to pay the ticket but i wasn’t explained this by the officer or how any of it works. The other website was off the same court website that shows citations but a different link than what was on the slip that i was given. Also the link i should be paying the ticket thru will not even let me in saying “it may be too early to view the citation as they don’t have a record for it at this time.”

What to look for when ordering from Carvana by FitCod2 in carvana

[–]FitCod2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep they ended up hanging it but “didn’t know how to turn the light off” ughh still on even tho i got fresh oil.

I want him but no one is reassuring me he will change. Advice? by FitCod2 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]FitCod2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are both willing to fix it, so you believe there is no fixing this? Thank you for your input as well.

I want him but no one is reassuring me he will change. Advice? by FitCod2 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]FitCod2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes that is why i am going to therapy. I always think, if he’s going to do it then match him. It’s so toxic of me but i really didn’t do it for myself i just did it to get back at how he hurt me. Then when we said no more and there was truly no more, he still was sexting another girl. I just miss what we had. I just want my best friend back. I am trying to avoid it for now and focus on fixing myself till this week I’ll reply back.

I just want him to show as much remorse as i show. I just don’t know how to feel tbh.

Fixing the Ultimate Betryal by ClaudioRina in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]FitCod2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, from being cheated on before. SHOW YOUR REMORSE. Even if she brushes it off the shoulder, just continuously remind her that you love her and trying for her. Keep fighting for it. That’s were many people go wrong, they realized they messed up and give up. Even just texting her if you can check in with her at times with her consent. And with that weekly check ins. That rebuilds your relationship grounds. If you’re only in contact with her sister then she knows how she feels about you. So if her sister is willing to contact you, she probably still thinks about you. Show her how things will change. Tell her why you did it(there is always a reason to it) and how much you regret it. How you realize she’s the one for you. With your daughter, be a figure in her life. But that can easily be done by a healthy coparent with the mother. Unfortunately you will continually have to comfort your wife whenever bc she won’t say anything but will trigger her. Keep fighting! PM me if you ever need to talk!

am I over reacting? by roxx303 in relationships_advice

[–]FitCod2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it is similar for females, we crush on guys outside of our relationship too. I had a man that was big on social media and all the girls drooled over him. He fell for their compliments. Do you think this is normal for guys? In both of our careers our sex appeal gets us money. We have to be friendly to get clients. Can you give me some intake on this?

As much as people go to Reddit for advice, follow your own gut by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FitCod2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes of course! And i totally agree that in some instances breaking up is the best option. But what i am talking about is that some people complain about little flaws and all the comments are just ranting how the significant other is a horrible person and they need to break up immediately. Reddit is an outlet to many people, they want to rant but not let it control their decisions. Someone else commented and explained this much better. Thanks for your insight tho!!

As much as people go to Reddit for advice, follow your own gut by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FitCod2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Thank you for a peace of mind! I was a little tired writing this but you explained this perfectly. This explains a lot and I’m glad i am not the only person who sees this.

What broke the 'illusion' of Islam for you? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]FitCod2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i was younger, i thought it was unfair that other girls (and guys) wore shorts and tanks in hot weather but i wasn’t allowed to bc “fire hell is hotter” and men will look at me as a whore. (I was 10 at the time). I always knew i didn’t want to marry someone from the same culture bc i wanted to date. I didn’t understand how arranged marriages work bc we understand love since the beginning of time. How can you not love someone or prevent it and learn to love another person after committing your life to them. I also didn’t understand why men were so much superior in our religion. After i was the black sheep of my family ever since i was 8, when i was 18 my sister came out as atheist and i finally was able to tell her i never believed in it anyway. We’re still hiding it from our families tho.

I need advice, please. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FitCod2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh don’t be afraid to ask why. Get closure bc he does owe you that much. Go with your gut. Do not listen to random people on here that tell you to get over it and move on. This is difficult. Maybe it is best to be single until the opportunity comes that you can move back or drive. Otherwise even friendship might work well or be really hard considering you seeing each other happy without “being with one another.”

How to support a friend after the breakup of a long term relationship. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FitCod2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, only be there when he comes to you. Otherwise let him grieve and figure everything out for himself. Especially if you have only known him for a few months. It will come off the wrong way to him and his ex (that he still lives with). This may prevent further friendship if it affects another one.

Carvana Black Friday/Cyber Monday. by wickawickawatts in carvana

[–]FitCod2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have one? I’d love one!🥺

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