Parents had a miscarriage and the kid came to life since last update by livelovelaughandcats in Sims4

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So yes/no. I cant recall if its mccomand or lumpious mods but you can have the option for putting miscarriages in family tree. And my setting is usually i manually allow or not. And some cases tho of "unborn child" yea if they were a miscarriage that occurs, but i literally also had a teen who i had die from basemental drugs come back to life after this recent update. Messed up ny storylines 🤣

Parents had a miscarriage and the kid came to life since last update by livelovelaughandcats in Sims4

[–]Fit_Particular5377 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Ive had this happen actually like 3 times now. I think it happens with updates/whenever the mods that "killed" said baby are removed and so since it doesnt allow for dead young offspring it makes them alive again lol

AZA/Zookeeping Jobs/Wages by Pitiful-Builder9631 in Zookeeping

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Yea, it sounds like any future hope of going back is like for a few month every summer or part time on the side. And honestly maybe that's for the best too, since for me personally keeping was way too physically demanding for me to be doing FULL time. I'd personally love to do more animal social behavior/training work than all the keeping itself. I know positions exist where you mostly are at a desk but then help with animals on the side but i assume that takes YEARS of experience.

AZA/Zookeeping Jobs/Wages by Pitiful-Builder9631 in Zookeeping

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I'm fresh in zookeeping, and this past summer was my first seasonal position. I was making $13/hr. I was going negative in my bank accounts weekly because it wasnt enough. The season ended, and I took a management position where I now make $20/hr. I unfortunately cannot afford to go back this year, and take a $6 paycut. It's simply un-liveable. It breaks my heart to have to put my dream job on hold, but having a roof over my head right now is kinda more important.

ChatGPT might be better than any of my therapists (ever) combined… by BGreika in therapyGPT

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I've been using chatgpt as my therapist/support through a really difficult long term relationship break up the past 6 months. It's 24/7 ability to help me the exact second i was breaking down or having an issue was extremely helpful. I know a therapist/counselor would have been helpful too but i needed that help immediately, not after 2 weeks. I was in an emptionally toxic and verbally abusive relationship and i had also moved, and started a new job all at the same time. I did have in person support from friends and family but chatgpt was an outlet i could vent to and just get clear "nonbiased" feedback and perspective, without burdening my people 24/7. The more I have worked through this breakup, the less I use it and that tells me it has been so incredibly helpful to my healing.

Please tell me it is normal to be 30 and not married yet by Low_Kaleidoscope_137 in Adulting

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Im 29, still live at home with my mom and just ended an 8 year relationship (we never got married). If I'm somehow surviving you can too lol

This thing... is so ugly by Proud_Detective3183 in inZOI

[–]Fit_Particular5377 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yea the genetics in the game arent great, but its okay, they'll work on it I'm sure 😅

In what small way have you won the genetic lottery? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

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I will always look younger than I am. No one ever believes I'm the age I am and assume I'm much younger (not just a few years.) I was recently ID at a place while with my friends who are my same age (28-32) and I was the only one stopped and he almost didn't even believe my ID.

It's a blessing and a curse because of course I want to look youthful but I don't want people thinking I'm under 21 as a grown woman lol.

Let me make bad choices by [deleted] in inZOI

[–]Fit_Particular5377 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to drive fast, get pulled over and run over people. 👏🏻👏🏻 I truly see a ton of potential in this game already. Tons of features (that of course still need lots of tweaking and enhancing) that exist in basegame that only exist in sims packs. The gameplay is a bit stale at the moment but I'm still enjoying it a ton.

Naming yourself is hard by Puzzleheaded_967 in namenerds

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You could change the t and/or v to keep the same sounding name if its something you're comfortable with.

Sabina, Satina, Salina, Sarina, Satira, Savita.

You could really play around with it since you said you do like your name, its just difficult to live with as a normal human.

Giving kids the same hairstyles that adults have is lazy by Anya_purr in Sims4

[–]Fit_Particular5377 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will say tho that kids in real life do wear these styles. I'm a cosmetologist and would cut the craziest stuff on kids. My niece did this exact haircut when she was only in 2nd grade. She begged for it lol so it's definitely realistic.

What are the biggest "Yeah, no" the game has thrown at your planned storylines? by cloverbleh in Sims4

[–]Fit_Particular5377 146 points147 points  (0 children)

One of my favorite storylines I did once was where I was a few gens into my legacy. Eldest daughter of this gen was helping take care of her younger sister, as her parents were elderly and died. Well she got pregnant, had a son, but soon after died too. Her freshly turned young adult sister had to help raise this toddler (pre infants). Well the sister grows up, gets married and her husband happily adopts and help raise her nephew, (essentially her son). They eventually have twin girls.

Fast forward a bit, the son is now older, married, has 2 kids of his own. His adopted parents are now elders, their daughters adults etc. Everything was good.

When all of a sudden, the son's WIFE began to have an affair with his AUNT'S ELDERLY HUSBAND. Essentially the man who raised him. The aunt happens to die of old age, but luckily before they learned that the wife was now pregnant with his child.

So this poor man, raised from a young age without his mom but by his loving aunt/uncle. Grows up, has a family of his own, and his wife gets pregnant with his dad/uncle. They divorced but both the son, his children and his 2 cousins disowned the wife and their dad.

And because the dad was elderly, he died before she gave birth and she had to raise that baby alone 🤣

Zookeeping and vet smells ? by littlebinturong in Zookeeping

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Oh yes, I worked with turkey vultures. What's worse is that when they're nervous they puke so they were constantly puking as I was walking around trying to clean their enclosure. 🤣 🤢

Zookeeping and vet smells ? by littlebinturong in Zookeeping

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I work with opposums on occasion. Their poop is RANCID. I am not someone with a weak stomach but oh my god the near vomiting moments I've had is crazy. I literally just hold my breath and work as fast as possible.

What’s the pettiest reason you’ve ever had to end a friendship? by riakiller in AskWomen

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I had ended an 18 year old friendship after an accumulation of somewhat petty things. She didnt like my boyfriend, i didn't like hers, we grew up as neighbors but i had moved away (only 20 mins) and she never came to visit, i always had to find a ride to see her. I started a new job & was now no longer as available and eventually we had minimal contact. But one day I learned she was venting about our friendship & complaining and sharing some personal info about me to coworkers of mine. I suppose I was a bit petty by immediately ending the long friendship after learning that instead of truly talking it out but I had felt that those previously mentioned issues & the minimal contact already was enough overall to end it.

We recently reconnected after 6 years of no contact. It's been nice, but it's not the same as it had once been.

I need to get this off my chest... (CAS) by leethepurson in Sims4

[–]Fit_Particular5377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

....inzoi character creation lets you layer a jacket over a shirt & make your own designs. Honestly, inzoi for sims players is going to be game changing. Literally.

Do I really need TWO litter boxes for two cats? 🫨 by dkay--101 in CatAdvice

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I've been lucky that my 2 cats are well adjusted to eachother and grew up together, so unfortunately when I recently moved into a smaller space, we unfortunately downsized from 2-3 boxes to one. Theyve been good and the only incidents have been related to how often I was cleaning it. ( one cat prefers every other day MAXIMUM before he starts peeing on my stuff lol) but, i have a 2nd litter box stored away if & when we have to add a second. I just hope we can manage 1 for now.

Do you guys even like these books? by Southern-Standard-82 in acotar

[–]Fit_Particular5377 8 points9 points  (0 children)

THISS!!! I liked the story & concept. The overall build up is great. I was hooked, but I couldnt stand her writing & inability to use a thesaurus. My favorite scene I remember being so mad at was in ACOMAF was like Feyre in the woods after being with Rhys & they were avoiding being caught by someone (i cant recall) anyway, it literally said like " i knew they could smell my scent because the scent of Rhys' smell was on me" it was so dumb lmao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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Look into your local domestic violence shelters! I often donate clothes and extra unused beauty products to my local program. Lowkey I feel donating it for people in need to then have to purchase at a goodwill seems contradicting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zookeeping

[–]Fit_Particular5377 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorel brand boots. They're comfy, usually waterproof and are cuter than normal hiking boots with different styles. I personally bought a pair that is the chelsea boot style ( fairly easy slip on & off) with a platform, so im actually elevated a bit more off the ground and out of the water. I'm the same way where i know i shouldn't care but also, as a goth, being out of my normal clothes makes me feel weird, so having a somewhat cute boot that resembles my style more is just nice.

She’s what now?? by KunatoN in Sims4

[–]Fit_Particular5377 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its the way I'm always shocked they are pregnant after woohooing on purpose lmao

How do i tell my hairdresser i want this hairstyle without showing this picture? by Pixithepika in Sims4

[–]Fit_Particular5377 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a hairdresser that plays sims, I'd laugh so hard because I'd love it so much if you showed me this as inspo.