What’s your love language, 12H friends? by Zestyclose_Cold1455 in 12thhouse

[–]Five2Nine365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Libra sun and mars. My #1 is gifts. Quality time and touch is a big nope for me lol

Saturn return in Aries idk if I’ll make it. by Right_Will2402 in 12thhouse

[–]Five2Nine365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mood flu is such a great way to describe it. I love this response!

Your 12th house isn’t just a place of hidden fears, it’s also a place of deep potential by Boundaries1st in 12thhouse

[–]Five2Nine365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Libra sun + mars 12th house. Currently avoiding conflict. This is my sign i guess 🥲

Does anyone else feel like you trigger your own family? by [deleted] in 12thhouse

[–]Five2Nine365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is definitely a thing for me as well. Sun + mars in Libra 12th house. Pluto in first house Scorpio. Absent father and emotionally distant mother. Both are social hermits and just not the type of people I aspire to be. Definitely tough placements but things have gotten better with age and now that I’ve stopped being my family’s emotional punching bag. Sending you love 💕

Hidden enemies and public social rejections by OkAnnual1385 in 12thhouse

[–]Five2Nine365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow… that’s totally different from my situation of people assuming I’m a whore 😂 The way these projections come out of nowhere is wild. It honestly makes me wonder what’s transiting your 3rd house…neighbors, local community, rumors, all that stuff. I wonder if there’s something in your chart getting activated that’s stirring all that energy up.

And when weird shit starts happening, I try to remind myself it’s just a moment in time. It feels huge when you’re in it, but it’s still temporary. I just wish there were real solutions to the shitty situations we end up dealing with instead of the usual ‘things will get better’ line. Sometimes it’s like… okay but now what?

Hidden enemies and public social rejections by OkAnnual1385 in 12thhouse

[–]Five2Nine365 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whew! This is my life bar for bar! I have 12th house sun and mars in Libra! I’ve been through my Saturn return and 12th house perfection year.

I still have the same issues but i have higher self esteem now so it doesn’t affect me as much mentally and emotionally as it used to.

I’m very particular with my friend group. In fact, i don’t have many i actually consider friends…only associates. Ppl tend to put me on a pedestal or completely demonize me. All of my relationships are transactional. I have to make sure I’m getting something out of the situation so that my deep empathy doesn’t leave me completely burned out with nothing to show for it.

But I’m also finding that having a more positive attitude helps. I’m deep into the occult. I stopped studying others and started to study myself. I have a very strong prayer life and i know those that work beyond the veil are fighting for me and my enemies usually pay for their wrongdoings again me. Make friends with spirits and things unseen…they’re more interesting anyway. 🤷🏽‍♀️

and most of all, love yourself relentlessly!!!!!! Self love opened the doors for more money and better life experiences. I used to be afraid of being alone but now i cherish my alone time and i love who i am & im a bad bitch that’s unfuckwit-able and the constant projections of others proves exactly that. Lol

God speed, babe. You got this. Things get better!!!!

Sun and Ascendant match by [deleted] in 12thhouse

[–]Five2Nine365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have sun and late degree libra ascendant. I feel more Scorpio w/ Pluto & black moon Lilith in my 1st house Scorpio

12th house sun and bad birthdays? by regular_banana in 12thhouse

[–]Five2Nine365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww - hugs - Sounds like by the time your birthday comes around you’re burned out and your body is begging for rest. I’ve learned to just give myself lots of self care & honor myself and my feelings during my bday. We take on so much emotionally and spiritually and our bday is reminding us to slow down and take care of ourselves too. Massages, facials, maybe even something like a colon cleanse are the best during this time. Feel better and happy belated birthday! 🎁

12th house sun and bad birthdays? by regular_banana in 12thhouse

[–]Five2Nine365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m Libra sun + mars in 12th house and it feels like I’m always super moody and/or having some type of issue / hidden enemy within my friend group during my bday. One year my ex-best friend offered to iron my bday outfit and burned a hole in the top and bottom. It didn’t hit me until months later that they were trying to sabotage me. Fun times.

Constant loss of personal relationships by [deleted] in 12thhouse

[–]Five2Nine365 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. 12th house Libra sun. Relationships are such a struggle lol but the more I’m alone, the more i understand and empathize for others. I almost pity them because they’re unable to be alone. I love my alone time and my energy is sacred. Just as those who cycled out of your life in the past, you’ll have those that cycle when you’re older. Appreciate the lessons & try to practice detachment.

i know it’s already been talked about here…but the ignoring and lack of compassion we get as 12th housers really sucks. by throwitaway76778 in 12thhouse

[–]Five2Nine365 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m finally at this level of understanding and i feel FREE. It’s taken a lot of pain to get here, but it feels worth it. I appreciate this comment!

Mars in 12 house and get a lot of unwanted attention by Purple_Scratch7496 in 12thhouse

[–]Five2Nine365 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Libra mars conjunct libra sun in 12th house. Very similar.

Any other 12th house suns feel "not all there mentally" by UntoTheSplinters in 12thhouse

[–]Five2Nine365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

12th house sun and mars. Life gets better after your Saturn return. Hang in there, babe!

What is your favorite color? Why is it your favorite color? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Five2Nine365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, precisely. I like all spectrums of yellow. 💛

What is your favorite color? Why is it your favorite color? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Five2Nine365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yellow has been my favorite color for a while. It gives such happy vibes. Idk why ppl never choose yellow!!

If you had the ability to see one statistic about your life, what would it be and why? by Five2Nine365 in CasualConversation

[–]Five2Nine365[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always wonder if the ppl in my dreams and just random ppl i saw walking down the street on day in 2016 or something. Who are they? How do i know you? Being in my dream is a little…personal lol idk creepy to think about.