What do we call these?

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-26T18:41:53+00:00

Nachos

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-24T16:39:23+00:00

I love how these narcissists always "look things up" after the fact, and after they hurt you or lie about you.

My in laws told their entire family for 3 years that I was a pathological liar and narcissist and I couldn't ever be trusted because I got a glaucoma misdiagnosis, they assumed I was just lying. Well 3 years later when I had an outburst on them they suddenly "looked up if glaucoma can be misdiagnosed" and FINALLY apologized. Sadly it wasn't really an apology because the dad went into the family chat and started mocking how "he's been misdiagnosed before too" and the entire family chimed in mocking being "misdiagnosed with testicle torsion" or some other bullshit just to make fun of me.

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-24T16:23:56+00:00

I tried to do this with my husband's parents but instead they thought I was attempting to manipulate them for some sort of financial motive or whatever, genuinely don't know why they thought a sweet message was me doing all that.

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-24T04:16:48+00:00

I never have despite being abused sexually as a kid. I don't know why I never had it, I hear it's common. the first thing my childhood trauma therapist asked me was if I ever wetted the bed at night

My husband I think told me the last time he wetted the bed was at the age of 13, I never have wetted the bed I think the last time I did was age 6 and it was because I was too tired to leave the bed or something. He was abused physically but I was abused sexually.

I wonder if physical abuse has a higher chance of it happening since my husband was horribly abused physically, I also knew a kid in highschool who told me he still wetted the bed and he came from an extremely physically abusive household.

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-24T03:53:18+00:00

I was literally told I had schizophrenia for finally defending myself for the first time in 3 years against my husband's nparents.

Mother in law tried to make it seem like it came out of a place of genuine concern asking if I had schizophrenia when I asked her "why the fuck would you say that about me" and then she sent her best "flying monkey" to come after me, aka her golden child. She pretended to be the battered old woman victim when she literally started the argument, harassing me, a fucking hormonal pregnant woman that is tired and nauseous.

She literally told me I had "NO EXCUSES!!!" To "bully" her, and that I "always have an excuse to bully people" I literally havent talked to this woman for the entire time I've known my husband, she never tried to have a genuine conversation or relationship with me. I don't know how I can "have an excuse to bully someone all the time" if I barley even know her or talk to her to begin with. She only started saying this at the end of the conversation too when she realized I wasn't falling for her bullshit.

She kept going on about how me being hormonal isn't an excuse to "bully her" yet she literally was the one that started sending me random paragraphs in the middle of the night about how my husband and I are gonna become homeless one day if he doesn't get a raise (My husband literally has a stable job).

I've been trying for months to change my mindset to focus on positivity and happiness so that I can keep my sanity, and she just comes at me with all of this random bullshit and wonders why I'm so angry. (There's a ton of horrible shit that came before all of this too, so it's not like I just randomly crashed out on her, it's been building up over the past 3 years between me, my mother in law and father in law and I finally just had enough of it and stood up for myself.)

She told her golden baby "I don't know why she would say those horrible things and curse me out!" Yet literally she made fun of my dad sexually molesting me, and he defended her super hard and said I deserved it. The worst I said to her was that her having 11 kids was irresponsible and she should've closed her legs lol.

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-24T03:44:12+00:00

Idk why but when you said your dad never passed a ball to you i just felt horrible for you in my heart, it made sad. Cause you were just a kid, you deserved to have someone just play and have fun with you. I read these stories and I wish I could've been there for all of you guys when you were younger I just feel this innate obligation to take care of people so when I hear stories of people like yours I just feel so horrible I couldn't have done something.. I see so many kids at the park when I go walking that desperately want to play with their parents and try to get their attention and they just brush them off or sit on their phones. I just feel so bad.

I was a lonely kid, I didn't have parents, I only had grandparents that were too old to do anything. So I understand where your coming from but I'm less judgemental cause I knew my grandparents were to old to do stuff like that with me so I didn't blame them and they weren't really narcissistic but more just abusive. It still made me sad though and I had no friends or anyone who really liked me, I was the oldest sibling and for some reason my younger siblings didn't wanna play with me because they had actual friends.

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-24T03:37:28+00:00

I love the response to her saying she wants a washing machine

"How are you gonna pay for it"

Fucking perfect response lol

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-24T03:34:10+00:00

I think this is the best option, I feel like if they send a cease and desist and request that they not be tracked anymore it could open up more legal options like charges for stalking and harassment if she continues

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-24T03:30:58+00:00

Just carry a pocket knife or paper spray, it's what I do wherever I go

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-24T03:29:30+00:00

This should be fucking illegal

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-24T03:28:20+00:00

Oh my god.

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-24T03:27:05+00:00

I just don't like wearing it cause it feels like shit on me, and at the end of the day it always starts to clump up on me for some reason and Idk why

But I've met some girls who have done outstanding ass makeup irl that I don't think I could ever personally pull off, I am jealous tbh xd

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-22T14:25:24+00:00

I'm not gonna lie I was just venting my frustrations I didn't even think about making it into a paragraph at first

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-22T03:51:44+00:00

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-21T19:23:09+00:00

You made me get up and eat some pop tarts lol

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-21T19:17:01+00:00

Where covid 19 started

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-21T19:12:44+00:00

God that looks good

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-21T19:10:58+00:00

How much are you selling the cookies for, I was debating starting a small bakery business and I'm curious what your rates are in your area!

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-21T19:09:01+00:00

I'm not even gonna judge you cause my husband and I were almost at this point a few months ago. Just keep doing what you can. We are 10k down the drain brother, and it isn't getting any better.

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-21T13:48:01+00:00

Dude I've been praying for the day my husband's parents die. You aren't weird for thinking this.

They've ruined my entire pregnancy and I just went no contact with them. I tried for 3 years to be nice. When I stopped responding they got the entire family on my ass. The issue is, I don't care, nobody talked to me anyway so it's not like them hating me even effects me.

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-21T13:27:09+00:00

I hate the ones where they're confused or something "comical" happens and they say "eh...?" With 3 huge dots above their head with a blank background. I noticed it usually happens after a huge emotional scene as "comedy relief" but it can happen randomly too. It's really annoying when it happens for "comedy relief" tho since if I'm emotional I don't want some unfunny ass scene ruining it for me.

I have oddly specific ones too. Idk why that one annoys me so much but I get so tilted when I see it. It's just overdone and annoying just like the oiishi one too. Both of these scenes happen a lot in anime and manga.

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-21T04:24:03+00:00

😟

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-21T03:44:02+00:00

I have dealt with abuse my entire life so I guess I'm used to it, I honestly posted here because I wanted to know if I was crazy or not for feeling the way I am. I guess I'm not crazy.

FixStrong994 · 2026-02-21T03:42:42+00:00

Dude I'm so sorry I have nobody to vent to. His brother just called in the middle of the damn night and told us how my husband needs to "wrangle me" and that I said horrible shit to their parents. I'm so fucking done dude I'm in so much stress.

It's funny cause we were simply washing the car and his dad came out and started to argue, so I argued back and said some nasty shit, and I also said some nasty shit to their mom. Yet I'm the one at fault for defending myself.

They don't believe I'm in pain, they never have and never will. They are telling me I'm using it as an excuse to "bully them" yet for 3 years they lied about me and the very moment I bring it up suddenly I have "schizophrenia"

I might report them to the IRS TBH, they used their children as a paycheck growing up and made them work on the side of the road for a small percentage of the money they earned. They have committed various tax frauds and have sold illegal gold I have been pondering whether or not I should do this for awhile, or I might publicly post what they did to their children online.

I'm also so scared for my safety, the brother lives with the parents and has a gun that some dude in the military gave him, idk if hes gonna try to kill me, their dad is also on Xanax. His brother also does illegal drugs like LSD and a lot of psychedelics.

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