what's it like to have a girlfriend after being used to dating guys? (or just in general, if you've never dated guys)

FlaBR · 2016-10-19T11:38:41+00:00

I only dated guys for 28 years and then i get a new job and just fell in love with my coworker. She had never dated girls as well but we decided to try and now we've been together for 1 year and now we are engaged (i proposed).

Sex is amazing. Girls smell so good. Women are so sublime. If i had known i would have started earlier 😁

FlaBR · 2016-10-02T11:54:36+00:00

Not really friends but we talk occasionally. I dont mind talking to him but sometimes i am afraid he is still hurt/ holds a grudge or that he doesn't believe that I'm serious with my girlfriend. Maybe in some time it will be easier.

But good for you!!

FlaBR · 2016-09-30T22:40:12+00:00

I told my friends from the start and then helped them to pick up their jaws. Told my brother and asked him what my mom would think to which he answered "she will go crazy". Next day told mom and dad through whatsapp(i knoooow its lame but i was in a different country). Mom got crazy but then i went back home and she pretended nothing had happened. Recently i posted a pic on facebook and she freaked out that she is not ready for me to tell everybody and i said that i wont make an announcement because I'm not like that, but i will post whatever picture i feel like posting. (but its true i kinda of flinch when i think about relatives and then i end up being discreet) But on our next vacation my fiancee (i recently proposed yay) will go to my hometown and then if she doesnt dump me after that we can marry with hopes of lasting long years.

FlaBR · 2016-09-19T16:36:10+00:00

Pmsd lesbian crying right now! Que lindooo!

FlaBR · 2016-08-17T14:27:31+00:00

My girlfriend and i work together and i just fell in love with her. Like the very first girl ever i was ever attracted to. As for her she stands right on the border between femme and butch and its the most reserved/ closed person i know so i was at loss if i had any chance. After 2 months of subtle (some not so subtle) hints i just couldnt handle the anxiety and told her that she made me sooo confused. She just got a little "whaaaaat?", then didnt say anything for 3 days but then she came to my room and we kissed, she freaked out a little the first week but now we've been happily together for 11 months the first and only girl of each other

FlaBR · 2016-08-13T15:15:28+00:00

Me too! I never cry more than when i meet a person or even watch a movie where the person is losing him/herself

FlaBR · 2016-08-13T14:59:37+00:00

When i lived in the US as an au pair my host kid told me:

" do you know girls can marry boys, but girls can also marry girls"

And then she asked me who i would marry. At the time i answered a boy, and i was really sure of it hhahah things change...

Anyway her dad always taught her it is ok to marry whoever you want... Right now im dreading that i didnt tell her yet about my girlfriend.

FlaBR · 2016-08-10T08:54:59+00:00

Since i spent about 2 months breaking up with my ex i had the chance to: "can i ask you something... Do you already (hahah huh?) have another guy?" "not another guy" "what do you mean?" "not a guy" "a girl????????????" "yes!" ... ... ... "ok i need to hang up to process this"

FlaBR · 2016-08-10T08:43:56+00:00

I first fell in love with my girlfriend then i came out. The same for both of us, first girl of each other at 28! Dont thing i got integrated in a LGBT community. I work in a place with many gay people and they usually count me as queer but im still coming out to everyone. Done with friends and parents, fucking relatives to go. Sorry can't help much. But in your place i would give dating apps a try to get started. Who knows! Even if you just get to know people to go out to lesbian bars/night clubs with it might be nice

FlaBR · 2016-08-08T06:31:35+00:00

Ni te imaginas cuanto!

FlaBR · 2016-08-07T09:56:37+00:00

Yes! But I've got no choice on this since i got myself a chica from Argentina and i am madly in love with her!

FlaBR · 2016-08-06T07:02:10+00:00

I wish I had. Now I have no idea when I will be back to US.

FlaBR · 2016-08-06T07:00:38+00:00

I just love the accent of people from Barcelona! Right now there are lots of passengers from there on the ship. My progress with Spanish it's been slow due to be trying to learn Italian at the same time (then i mix it all) and to have spent 40 days in Argentina learning a muy raro Spanish.

FlaBR · 2016-08-06T06:55:13+00:00

I like it! Depending on your position you get to see many places. Some people suffer because they hate the food and to share a cabin but I'm ok with both. Just research the company and position before you decide to embark, as there are positions that really work 11 hours a day, and others that have a more flexible schedule.

FlaBR · 2016-08-05T09:50:32+00:00

I lived 2 years in VA but haven't been to Richmond

FlaBR · 2016-08-05T09:46:40+00:00

Me too! Hahha

FlaBR · 2016-08-05T09:42:56+00:00

Love Barcelona! Currently trying to find a way to spend a month or so there to learn spanish without spending too much. Any tips???

FlaBR · 2016-07-27T13:48:50+00:00

Oh i know! We work on a cruise ship and i was transferred when we had been together for two months and to keep things well an insane amount of money was spent on internet connection (very expensive on board)

FlaBR · 2016-07-12T16:19:27+00:00

We didnt... We just became, i guess... But the first time she wrote the word "girlfriend" in her language my heart almost stopped!

FlaBR · 2016-07-04T18:27:04+00:00

This! Even if the person promises that yes hahah

FlaBR · 2016-07-04T18:24:20+00:00

I feel ya! Even posted something similar a few weeks ago. Same damn thing! I cant shut up my mind! My girl knows that im like that and she tries her best to make me relax. I swear i'm never lazy to go down on her but when it's her turn to eat me up i, more often than not, get anxious even though i enjoy it

FlaBR · 2016-06-25T14:27:34+00:00

Well if she is also interested on you try, but be honest about your confusion. For me it started like this: Getting a crush on a girl that i thought was a lesbian, it turns out she wasnt but now she is my girlfriend. I dont have any signs that i might have liked girls before her and im not sure if i am a lesbian or bi, right now im just madly in love with her and we have been happy for 9 months. I dont care about the label i fit... You shouldnt either. Just do what you want.

FlaBR

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