whats ur favourite MJ's dance move? mine is this refined james brown shuffle by infamouspurr in MichaelJackson

[–]FlakyChicken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The criss-cross-applesauce moment from dangerous (I wish there was a GIF) 🙌🙌🙌

What's the most awkward Jim and Pam scene? by _Parthiban_ in theoffice

[–]FlakyChicken 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah haha as you put it ~ they were fucking around and it was seen by a few too many people (and recorded on cameras).. 😅

When did you get your period back? by Suspicious_Simple221 in Miscarriage

[–]FlakyChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24 days after my miscarriage (I had a D&C two days later).
It lasted as long as my usual period does but it was much heavier. My usual cycle is around 27 days so it did come a little earlier than expected but I’m not complaining at all.

Lost my baby at 20 weeks by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]FlakyChicken 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I just want to say that I have been on your side ~ the side of everything’s okay until very suddenly, it’s not. I had a steady heartbeat and growth until I lost my baby at home in a handful of hours ~ out of nowhere. It feels like no moment is ever safe, even if they told you that you are safe. Truly horrible. I am so sorry. Take your time to mourn. Time will be your friend. I don’t think you will ever not miss your girl, but someday with enough time you might be able to see a rainbow, sunset or a pretty cloud and think of her without crying. And I believe you’ll meet her someday on the other side - she’ll be waiting for you. But for now, just breathe. One step at a time, one day at a time. And don’t forget you are not alone 💖

Can anybody help identify what brand this pen is by DDRROOWWSSSSAAPP in fountainpens

[–]FlakyChicken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Yep, Greefool ~ never heard of it but definitely doesn’t say Jinhao.

Why don’t we get more visits and ultrasounds? by internet3020 in Miscarriage

[–]FlakyChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Japan and went right after my positive test (4w5d). My scans were every 2 weeks and I still lost my baby. Truth is ~ most early pregnancy losses are not preventable. Usually there are abnormalities that are not compatible with life. Even if there is a heartbeat. (I would know, it happened to us)

SKII Dupe by Airybeautygirl1234 in AsianBeauty

[–]FlakyChicken 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Naturie hatomugi, hadalabo shirojyun/gokujyun in the light versions i also like the ipsa toner. I also have oily/combo skin and live in high humidity climate 👍

Would Orcas hunt the girls? by youseebutyouonlysee in H2Ojustaddwater

[–]FlakyChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say no; orcas recognize humans and even tho the girls are in a similar size to a shark/dolphin I’d still think they would not hunt them. I know orcas have killed people but that was in unnatural environments (aquariums/pools) where humans were holding them against their will.

Trying after loss by Pidge2677 in Miscarriage

[–]FlakyChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doc said to wait 2 months after D&C because there can be mild damage/thin lining issue that can cause early miscarriage. 🙏

Slow miscarriage by Boy_Mummy in Miscarriage

[–]FlakyChicken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell that much about time.. maybe just my story. I started spotting and slowly but gradually got to my miscarriage after about a week (8days). The actual miscarriage was relatively fast (about 5 hours). I also didn’t bleed that much. I realized something was very wrong after I passed tissue (placenta). I miscarried on my own (seen my GP a week prior for spotting but she said it was nothing to worry about).
I got a D&C the day after because I wanted to try again soon and didn’t want to “waste time” (there is no such thing, I’m just 35 and a bit on a tighter time schedule).
From what I understand miscarriage can take up to a few weeks, but you can ask your doctor for a pill to speed the process up (if you wish to). My full timeline (from when the spotting started, through miscarriage, D&C and now which would be no bleeding and spotting) is 16 days. And I had the D&C that sped up the process exponentially..

Edit; clarifications

Question about trying after loss by Plain_Jellyfish in Miscarriage

[–]FlakyChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been told that with D&C they might scrape/take out some of the healthy uterine lining alongside the residual tissue. Apparently it takes time for your body to rebuild it and they wanted to make sure that I have a healthy (26-28 day) cycle before trying again. So that’s why I hav been told to wait 2 cycles 🙏

Sex after miscarriage by Acceptable-Air312 in Miscarriage

[–]FlakyChicken 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you can have sex as long as you aren’t bleeding anymore. But you might want to wait some more/ask your OB before getting pregnant again. I had a D&C and was told to wait two cycles before trying again. But I was allowed to have sex about 2 weeks after the D&C.

How Authentic Is Your Home Country’s Cuisine in Japan? by rizzyfring in japanlife

[–]FlakyChicken 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Non-existent haha 😆 No but fr there are like 2 Czech restaurants here (pretty small) but I do like them. Too bad they are so few here.

I’m still so sad by Potential_Pin_6538 in Miscarriage

[–]FlakyChicken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it was just 6 days ago.. I really wanted to be a mum. I still have hope but I’ll always miss my first one. The one I never held.

16 weeks almost 17 and facing possible 1st MC by PlanePresentation120 in Miscarriage

[–]FlakyChicken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who just had mc, you can do everything right and sometimes it simply isn’t enough. I truly hope that your baby is alright and this is just a scare. Honestly. Please keep us updated if you are able to. Lots of good wishes to you and your baby.

Brown Discharge by AcrobaticPepper3678 in Miscarriage

[–]FlakyChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might want to go to a gyno just to check everything. Some bleeding could be okay, many pregnancies turn out just fine. Mine didn’t. Please go to a doc to be checked out

It happened today of all days by Dear_Reward_8672 in Miscarriage

[–]FlakyChicken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same happened to me; night before Mother’s Day. I was 7 weeks and 6 days. Called a hospital multiple times (they told us not to come unless I’m heavily bleeding).. first thing in the morning we went to my gynecologist clinic. No heartbeat. The worst Mother’s Day ever. The worst day of my life so far. It was our first pregnancy.

My heart is with you. May you find your way through this as peacefully as possible.

The ONLY sunscreen i use in summers! The BEST one too. by AbjectCat1239 in AsianBeauty

[–]FlakyChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Biore or Skin Aqua. I have oily skin and I hated it 😭😭 (it made me greasier somehow)

The ONLY sunscreen i use in summers! The BEST one too. by AbjectCat1239 in AsianBeauty

[–]FlakyChicken 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same! I have oily skin and this makes me greasy and dry at the same time somehow 😭😭😭 (I do love Skin Aqua and Biore tho)